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ok to understand my question here is what happened before...Sorry it is long!!!
my friend kristina is dating this guy named richard. Well they dated for about 1 year before breaking up because he is constantly a jerk to her. He was possesive and always jealous. When she would talk to her friends while talking to him he would flip out and he would flip out if she talked to other guys. Well, many times before she wanted to break up with him but he would always say he loved her so much and that he would change but he never did. Even her parents hated himZ Well, right before school started he wanted to get back together with her. (**Me and Kristina talked every day**)She wasnt sure if she should because of how he used to treat her. I kept telling her not to because she would only get hurt again. Well, she is dating him now and she totally changed. SHe never talks to me or her best friend Kayliee anymore. We both said that if she keeps this up that when she needs we might not be there anymore. What can I do to make her see what is going on and that he is a jerk without hurting her feelings or anything. (link)
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i think it might be necessary to hurt her feelings to get her to understand.
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my best friend,james, has a major crush on me and he doesnt know that i know... not only does that make me feel awkward, but his other best friend is my boyfriend, brian. brian goes to a different school and has asked me to his prom and i want to ask him to my prom. but james is wanting to ask me to our prom... and although i think it would be so much fun to go with him, i really really really want to go with brian. james has already asked permission from jared to ask me(i'm not supposed to know). i dont know what to do when james askes me: should i accept? should i reject? HELP! (link)
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reject...it would be leading him on...that's bad.
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okay well there is this girl at school she goes to CHS and she is so anoying! i mean everytime i try to get rid of her she allways is there and she is so anoying!!! ahh help me! and she is so rude and stuff i think that she oes drugs i really do, she is allways so hyper and well her name is Rachel! (link)
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fuck you
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well there is this one girl...and she likes the guy that i like. actually theyve been goin out and they recently broken up. so me and her ex went out just to haev fun and now she is very jealous...and we used to be friends but now she is jealous. and i dont really want to hurt her but i like this guy. should i go on with the guy or try to get back this girl's friendship? (link)
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i think you need to sit down with this girl and make it clear that you're not going after this guy just to spite her. Let her know that she can trust you, but also talk to the guy and let him know the position you're in so that he can understand what's going on. trust me, things can get really bad if everyone's not on the same page. PISTRIX!!!
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Hi, i went to skewl at a catholic skewl, but we lived with my grandmom so we moved away, far away. I like my neew house and all but now i live really far away from my best friends. I miss them a lot and i call them a lot. But i keep getting scared thinking that in like 1 month we wont be friends anymore. Its a scary thought and we probably wont be friends 4ever. But i'm 13 yrs old and it would be great if we could be friends till we get our licenses (driving). Does any1 kno how we can be friends that long? (link)
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It's not as hard as you think. I moved from Pennsylvania when i was 12 and i'll be 16 in less than a month. I'm still friends with people from there. And if you do stop talking to some people, it's ok. That happens. I only talk to about 3 or 4 people still, but they're my favorite people. And if you're as good of friends with these people as you say you are, then you should have no problem. just chill.
(i've been giving nice advice today, feel special)
PISTRIX!!!
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There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I also felt bad for Kellen. What should I do? Should I tell Kellen? Or should I leave it alone? (link)
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Nick's using her...he's an asshole...he deserves to be wounded. I suggest telling Kellen what you think of him, but not in a way that's going to upset her. And try not to tell her about what he said to you unless it's nessacary, b/c she might just think you're getting them to break up so you can go out with him...trust me, it's just not a good idea.
PISTRIX!!!
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okay i have this friend who ive only known for like a year and weve only been good friends for like a couple months but anyways he is going out with my bestfriend ..and i mean i hate when people my age (14) say i love you if you can tell they dont mean it but i KNOW they do and i hangout with them like everyday and i have so much fun with them they are the two people i can honestly say i trust i love them both to death they are my bestfriends... but this kid got charged for raping these two girls..but he didnt do anything like that he would never do that...they are just stupid and try to start shit and thats not something to joke around with and so he was locked up for 2 months until he went to court...and his gf's (my bff) mom found out she said she wanted her to have NOTHING to do with him..he got out and we were over there everyday and she had been lying to her mom but then we got cought the other day and her mom was bullshit and told my mom the whole story and now we cant see him because neither of them want us going over there...my mom says i can talk on the phone with him and stuff and maybe go over in a little while when he gets off house arrest but i feel so bad he is my bestfriend and she loves him and he is the only one she has besides like me and a few others.... please helpp (link)
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heh...he raped them? heh...is that possible at his age? i doubt he even has any balls if he's saying "i love you" when he's only fourteen. just tell your mom that you know from personal experience that there's no way that he could have done this because he's impotent. yeah...that should work.
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my friend (kelley) has been cutting herself lately and doing some pretty dangerous stuff. i told her to stop and she said she has but i dont know if i should believe her. what should i do? *signed clueless as what to do* (link)
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killerrocksmysockoff...or whoever the hell it was said that cutting means you're suicidal is full of shit. they have no idea what the fuck they're talking about, so disregard anything that fuckrag has said or will say in the future. they are a waste of oxygen.
i suggest cutting her hands off for two reasons...
1. She'll get satisfaction in bleeding.
2. She won't be able to cut herself anymore.
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