Gabrielle and Danielle are 15 year old females who want to help the world. If you need advice, come to them. They know you have problems, and they are here to help. They will not judge you. You will get two points of view, Gabrielle and Danielle's. So there will be a choice. Be prepared. ;) "We want to help you, there is no stupid question, or silly situation."
Website: Ask GabrielleAndDanielle E-mail: glitterautichicas6@yahoo.com Gender: Female Location: Pittsburgh Occupation: Students and Advice Columnists Age: 15 Member Since: February 17, 2007 Answers: 19 Last Update: February 24, 2007 Visitors: 1979
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Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
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Gabrielle: Well Hunny, go to both parties. Go eat with Margaret and spend the night with Lucy. If you want to get to know Lucy better, spend time with her. Margaret won't be mad, seriously. If i was in the situation, i'd go to both parties. And Bonus, if you wanna get to know Lucy, at the party,stand out in the crown. Luv 2 Help.
Danielle: Unavailable
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I am going clubbing for the first time and i donn't really know what to do I don't want to feel left out, bored, and boring so how to keep the party going, fit in and have fun? (link)
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Gabrielle: Well Hun, follow your friends. If they know how to do it, follow what they do and you'll be good to go. But, if they aren't very good at it,i'll tell you what i think you can do. Stay on The Dance Floor, stay at the bar ( if ur illegal, get some ginger ale or something that looks like alcohol) and don't stop the party untill you feel like you're too weak to go on. :) No problems helping.
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This year and last year have been really tough on me because i have lots a lot of my friends because they moved and went to different school and whatnot. So i was left with one good friend. But we kept getting into fights all the time and i was getting fed up with it. So one day i let it all out and said how i was feeling and i told her she was a bad friend(because she is). She clearly didnt care and we stayed friends. Like people always ask me how i deal with her and stuff and im just like idk i just do, but i think im relizing that im just useing her becuase i dont have anyone left, i mean yea we have lots of fun times but i think i spend more time not likeing her and talking about her behind her back. What should i do? i know this itsnt the right thing to be doing! (link)
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Gabrielle: Hunny, all you need to do is tell her that you don't want to be friends. If you don't, you'll be stuck in the hell hole of a friendship that you are already in. I had to did the same thing a while back. I let her down gently, and she kept coming back, so i had to get her where it hurt, her heart, so don't be like me, and actually get to the point in the beginning( still gently) and you won't have to put up with her bull.
Danielle: First of All Doll, if you are talking about your friend behind her back then she really isn't considered a friend, so don't call her that. Now, when you are ending this, get to the point and don't beat around the bush by saying things like "I know we haven't been the happiest, and we had a good friendship but," Think it out clearly, do you really want to end this friendship. Tell her first that if she doesn't shape up in a few days it's over, adn if she doesn't she won't come back to you. You won't have to deal with her fukked up life.
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