Ok- I usually am the one giving out advice... but I am stumped on my own problem. Well here is what happened:
I used to have a best friend named Justine. We hit it off great from the start. After the first month we'd known eachother, we spent the night at each other's houses almost every weekend. We had only known eachother for a year when the inevitable happened- but we'd shared so much together. I had told her all of my deep dark secrets, and she had told me some of her own.
Well- this summer, I had been at my cousin Ashley's house- and we had been chatting with boys on AIM. I told Justine about it when I saw her- and for some reason, she FLIPPED. She wouldn't talk to me, and she ignored all my e-mails to her.
This year, I went back to middle school, and Justine had changed completely over the summer. She had all these cheerleader friends, and she was acting like she was better than everyone else. She even sits in front of me in my English class.
This is where the problem comes in. I don't want to be Justine's friend anymore- she is such a brat- but I do want her to act civil towards me (in English she is always sighing, like she hated being around me- and she tells people, when I can hear- that she hates me). What can I do to make her stop acting so immature???
It seems to me that she got very jealous when you were hanging out with your cousin. She obviously did not want to tell you about that and instead, she acted immature and I think now she is trying to get you jealous by hanging out with "cool kids". I think you should confront her. Tell her that you don't understand what happened, that you don't want her to treat you like this, and you wish she would at least talk to you about what had happened. If she walks away and/or will not listen or respond, write her a note and ask her to please read it. Obviously something happened to her and she is keeping it in and dealing with it in an immature manor. Good luck hun! hope it goes well for you :)!
*FallenAngel*
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Hey Spacefem, I got a problem. Im in jr high, 7th grade, and one of my friends is really weird. Shes always gossiping and such, and at my school, teachers crack down HARD on stopping it. Im 100% against gossip, 1 because it hurts people, and 2 because its not minding your own business. Im always telling her to stop it, or shell get in big trouble, and she listens slightly, but 10 minutes later she is doing it again, and naturally, gets in trouble. the other day I reminded her of what would happen, and out of nowhere she bursts out "Just stop telling me what to do!" Which I find odd. Even though I constantly remind her to stop gossiping, she tells me to do way more things than I tell her. Im her note-passer, bookkeeper, saxophone-carrier, and a bunch of other random things. Im wondering, what should I do? Am I really being -that- bossy about her getting in trouble?
You are not being bossy, don't worry. You are just watching out for her. Maybe instead of telling her every single time, just try and sit down with her and let her know why you keep telling her she needs to stop and tell her how you feel. If she keeps gossiping anyways...just try to ignore it. I know it'll be hard not to say anything to her about it because youre worried about her getting into trouble, but just try. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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the poem bout the friends wasnt from me it a person i like the poems from tho sherman !
Well...In any event, I think your friends will love getting that poem from you. It'd be really sweet! :)
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It is my joy in life to find
At every turning of the road,
The strong arm of a comrade kind,
To help me onward with my load.
And since I have no gold to give,
And love alone must make amends,
My only prayer is while I live,
God make me worthy of my friends.
Wow...that is a beautiful poem. I love it personally. Hope your friends like it as much as I do!!! I'm sure they'll love it and you'll get a bucha hugs from them!!! :) Just remember to write who it's by...make sure they know you didn't write it.
*fallenangel*
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some people say flirt or ask him out but its more than that im afraid of rejection and i cant get over it what if my friends or his make fun of me?
i need advice fast !!!
Hey,
I know how scary the thought of rejection is, but you need to concentrate on what you want. If you don't take a chance, then you'll never know what could have been. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks...if you like him, go for it. You can do this. And instead of worrying he is going to reject you, think about him saying yes. It'll give you more confidence and he'll see that confidence and be even more attracted to you. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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i need alot of advise from a lot of peoples b/c there is a boy and if you remember me his name is cody i dont know if he likes me or not b/c he broke his arm over the weekend and when we got to school he didnt let anyone sign it until i did exept his mom now im only in middle so try to give the best advice and thanx for gitten my head straight bout the joke~
I definetely think this guy likes you. You should ask him out. see what happens. Trying won't hurt. And honestly...I think it'll turn out for the best. If you are still not sure he likes you and you want more proof before you ask him out...flirt with him, talk to him...see his reaction. Good luck hun!!!! :)
*FallenAngel*
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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do?
I say go for it. Just spend some time with him and then casually bring up the subject. I'm sure it'll work out for the best.
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Therse this guy from a different School from me and hes my BFF and I tell him everything and he gets involeved w/ me N my friends fight over the internet and my friend im upset with thinks its me WHAT DO I DO?!
Talk to your BFF. Tell him that what he is doing is just making things work. If he really cares about you and if he was just trying to help then he will help smooth everything over. He needs to tell your friend that he has been the one talking to her over the internet and he needs to fix what he did. Let him also know that if he wants to help, instead of getting so involved, just ask him to just give you advice when you need it instead of trying to fix your problems by getting waaaay too involved.
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When 2 of your friends are fighting and your in the middle stuck and dont know what side to choose on what do you do? Like one person would want me to sit with them and the other one would be like lets all move away from her and i dont know what to do i mean i am friends with all of them but they make it seem like it is wrong to hang out with that person just b/c that person is different and people already make fun of her behind her back and everything. I am stuck in the middle so what do i do ?
I have been in your situation many times. It's seems that whenever my friends get into an fight, they both turn to me for support. I suggest you stay true to both your friends. Sit them both down together and maybe try help them talk calmly to each other about what is bothering them. Obviously they both are too worked up to sit down calmly together, so the best way is to have a "middle man". You'll be there just to make sure things don't get too out of hand and that they both listen to each other. Otherwise, the fight may last even longer. And also, don't choose sides, when you sit them down to talk let them know that you're are not on anyone's side and also, while they're talking the only way you'll talk is if things get a little too heated. If having them talk does not work then tell them both that you are going to have to separate from both of them until they work things out because it is too hard for you to have to be in the middle of two people you care about so much. Good luck, hun. Hope it all works out for you.
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