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My name is Kate Im from Ohio and I love to give advices and help out with all kinds of problems .

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ok so my guy friend lives around the block. directly behind me. so i just hop the wall and go through his back yard and im at his house lol..well ive had feelings for him FOREVER. and last time we hung out...he later told me he thought about kissing me...when he said that i didnt want him to know i liked him cause i had a bf at the time so i was like um ew kyle..thats gross. but now we havent really hung out for a while..and i hope he still likes me. hes always busy hanging out with his friend..who happens to be a girl.he NEVER IMs me anymore, i always IM him now. whenever i ask him to hangout..he says umm...maybe. i might hangout with my friend..but ill let u know after i call her. he used to always ask me to hangout..ive already asked him if hes mad at me..hes like no not at all..so i donno whats going on..advice?

Seems like that girl friend maybe he's starting to like her... you need to talk to him in person and let him know how you feel before they hook up if theres a chance due to the fact that they are spending so much time together.So that way he will know how you feel and he can tell you if he still likes you or not so it wont be bugging you anymore.Good luck ♥ Kate

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My friend told me that he was moving away...I'm very bummed about it but I dont know what I can do...Can someone please help me like how did you feel and what did you do and everything. Thanks a lot!

Its tought alot of my friends moved away , we still keep in touch by writing emails and telephone calls. You should spend some time with him before he moves away and later on you can go visit him or he can visit you if thats possible. Its not easy but there is nothing you can do to stop him from moving away unfortunatly. Hope that helped. ♥ Kate

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okay ive been friends with this guy for a little over a year. i dont like him like that this isnt about that. well we got into a fight bcuz his girlfriend told him i said all these bad things about him. thats not true. he wont take my messages he wont even talk to me. his girlfriend totally ruined our friendship. i wanna no how i can get into his head that i didnt say those things and his girlfriend just said that.

PLEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!! ill rate 5s for good help

Seems like his gf cant stand you and wants him all to herself. Well try to talk to him in person and tell him that all those bad things were made up from his gf and that you want to be his friend you dont want to harm the friendship.Another way can by probably by telling his friends about it if he doesnt want to talk to you i know they will tell him.Tell him that his gf is trying to be all selfish and probably doesnt like you. If he doesnt believe you and thinks you made all that crap up then you dont need to waiste your time trying to convince him .Hope I helped. Good luck. ♥Kate

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Im 14 year old girl, and my friends are the same age, I went to the beach for a week this past week and my best friend, we'll call her, Jess *hold that thought* I also played volleyball this season and made some great friends and I went to hang out with them and invited Jess. but since I went away for the week. Jess has pretty much taken my place. My friends dont even think about calling me to do stuff... they call Jess, its like. she stole my friends. and shes taken my place in every aspect. I dont remember the last time any of them called to see what i was doing.
I want my friends back.. what do i do

If they were your real friends they would have called you to hang out but simply they are not. I think that you should have a talk with Jess and ask her why cant all of you guys just be cool and enjoy all the stuff together ? Good Luck*.

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i need help about a friend....we have been talking on the internet and like we have gotten so close...its unreal...but i lied about my identity...its not that i don't like the way i look this picture was a lot better...now i feel like a loser cuz i really want to tell him the truth but i am afraid that he won't talk to me anymore...and i really don't want that he is too fun@ HELP PLEASE! I will RATE REALLLLY HIGH!!!

Well just tell him straight up that you have thought that the internet is not such a good place to meet people on thats why you lied about your identity but you made a mistake and you dont want to lose him . I know that he will forgive you just do it as soon as possible before it gets worse.

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I have tons of friends, quite a few good friends, and 9 best friends. but I dont have one or two BEST friends. It kinda bugs me because most of my 9 best friends all have one or two BEST friends. i love all my friends to death, but something seems to be missing.

also, i am so different than my other friends and i really dont fit in with any of them. we are going into high school in the fall and i am SO nervous that they will split into a couple different groups and i'll be left to wander.

I also have trust issues i guess you could say. I have such a hard time trusting my friends. i feel like i cant talk to them about hard stuff because i'm supposed to be the strong one, that looks out for them. I end up keeping everything bottled up cuz i have no one to talk to. it's just so difficult because i have so many great friends, but i always feel like there is never anyone there for me.

Any advice on any of these friend issues would be appreciated thanks.

-14/f

If they are such great friends they would ask you if theres anything wrong or maybe you can tell them straight up dont keep everything bottled up. If they stay by your side in good /bad conditions then they really are your real friends but if they dont then you need to find better friends than them.I hope I helped.
Kate

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