Hey, my name is Jason. I've only been here for a little while, but this seems like one of those places that I might stop by daily. My good friend, Shay, was the first to show me this site and is a member herself. I'm pretty much used to giving out advice to my friends and have done that for quite a while. I also like it because it takes my mind off of my own problems. So hopefully I'll be a help to you all too. =) If you wanna find out anything else about me just send me a message and I'll try my best to get back at ya.
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Im 15 and single now , all because of my x Boy friend and we went out for a day , the next day he said that he didn't feel right around me, after we broke up I feel really alone , now were just friends , which is really hard now . How can i get over him???!!!!!????? do u have any suggestions??? Every time I see him with another gurl i go and cry , how do I get over him,?????? Plz answer back ASAP!!!
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Well if you really liked him, it might take a while to get over him. Keeping your mind on other things is one way, maybe doing something to stay busy. Try not to get too stuck on him, or else you might miss someone better out there for you. You gotta convince yourself to move on and not worry about him. Go out and spend some time with your girl friends, they can also help you out here. I hope you find someone else that will make you happy and keep you happy, you owe it to yourself =).
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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.
Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.
Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation. (link)
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You should just tell her what you said, that it bothers you. I know it can get annoying, it bothers me too. Just tell her calmly next time she do it. Good luck with her, hopefully she'll stop.
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I really just want to meet some new people and hang out with a new "clique or crowd" Where do you meet people? (link)
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There plenty of places you can meet people. First and most common place is school. Join clubs, teams, etc. and meet new people through that. While you're hanging out with them you might meet with their friends and it kinda goes on from there. You could also meet people at the mall, job(if you have one), and so many other places. Just try to find a common ground with people and take it from there. You could end up with more friends than you know what to do with! =P Have fun.
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Hey my names Katie im 14 going on 15 and i have a friend named Jenn and weve been pretty much best friends since grade 6 and she has been awesum always there for me and understanding and laughs at my jokes ..but now ever since her boyfriend she has pretty much stopped being a good friend she makes me look stupid in english class by saying out loud KATIE UR SO STUPID THATS NOT RITE and the guy i like is in our english class and she knows that ..everytime i try to tell her wut i feel she laughs at me and i get so upset ..what should i do ? please help me (link)
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Well I'm not exactly sure how you try to tell her, but you should do it when you two are alone so there won't be any type of distraction and she'll get the whole message. Some people like to joke a lot, some might go overboard and it becomes more personal than just a joke. You might have to raise your voice a bit for some people to understand, hopefully she isn't one of them. I don't know how you are with ignoring things, but that's maybe what you should do to her comments and maybe take a break from her a bit if she still doesn't get the picture. Friendships sometimes get ugly, this could be one of those times. I hope this helped out and that things get better between you two in due time.
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ok well my friend and i always have liked the same guyz pritty much and then shes always able to go out and tell them and she ends up going out with them and i get all sad n stuff and then after they brake up i dont like that guy anymore and then we end up liking the same guy again ((cuz we tell eachother who we like)) and she did the same thing again and then now she likes one guy and i like another guy and she flirts with the guy that i like but shes always saying that she doesnt like him and the guy that i like is the guy that ive felt best about so far and then he might like her but im not shur and i really want to be her friend still its just im pissed off about the fact that she keeps stealing the guyz that i like and thats why my friends keep making fun of me that i still dont have a boyfriend yet and i dont know wut to do? wut should i do? (link)
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Hrm, some friend. Well you should tell her that it's bothering you, and if you did and she's still doing it, then maybe you should be more aggressive and go for the guy before she gets a chance to screw things up for you.
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I did ask a question earlier, and i got some great advice, but i still dont know how to talk to this girl, because i am moving in about a week and if nothing happens i will probably never talk to her again. anyways, i am a guy, 15 years old, and supposedly i am this really nice guy, and i am not like most of the other guys, not like my friends that much either, but i just try to be really nice to everyone and be really helpful and caring and all that, and for this one girl, i know that i will do anything at all for her, but i dont think she knows that - and that is who i am. the thing is, is that, there is this girl that is really really nice and fun and exciting, like no one else i have ever met or known, and i really like her, and admire her and look up to her and all that because of who she is, she isn't like the other girls that much either, and she doesn't like the dating idea, so that doesn't work well because i can't ask her out, and i asked her to maybe go on a walk with me, (i sent her a letter and called her on the phone), and i dont really think she has it in for me or whatever, and i just really want to tell her how i feel, i just want to let her know that i care about her and that she is very special to me, and all that, but i want to say it face to face to her, because i think it means more that way. so far i have called her and we talked a bit and i think she liked it, i think it was a fun conversation, but it really didn't mean anything, just a fun little chat, and at the end of it i told her to get back to me about going on a walk or something, but she just said okay and sounded like she really didn't care, and it has been a week, i have waited to see if she will respond, and she hasn't contacted me at all, and i decided that i'll probably just go to her house a couple days before i move and talk to her that way and tell her how i feel, but i was just wondering if i could get some advice to see if there are any other ways or what i could do, thanks a lot to anyone who gives me any advice! (link)
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I know how you feel. It would be nice to have that talk face to face. You should call her up once more and kinda inform her that you want to stop by her place for a little bit before you move. If that doesn't really sound all that great to her you could always tell her you want to hang out a bit more before you leave and just meet up where you want to, could be the mall etc. Hopefully she'll accept your invite and all you have to do is pull her aside for a bit and tell her what's on your mind. Good luck man.
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My old best friend used to like my current boyfriend and we both liked him at the same time. We always fought over him and one day we just stopped being friends. I was so upset but I just moved on and made new friends. We recently started to talk again =) and shes so sweet!! I really wanna be best friends again like before.. should I invite her to hang out or should we just stay at talking on the internet? Thanks!! (link)
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It's really great that you two started talking again. Friends argue at times, even the best of friends. It could be over something silly or something serious, but in the end they would remain friends. If you want to continue being friends with her go ahead and invite her to do thing. If you feel that might be a pretty big step then you could at least start talking on the phone again and take things from there. Hope things work out =)
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks and I LOVE doing EVERYTHING with him! We got dancing, to the movies and parties but my best friend wants to do things with me too... I just dont want to do those things with her because I have Jay! I also don't want to lose my best friend because shes GREAT to talk to! What do I do?! Thanks!! (link)
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Well first off, it's great that you're enjoying spending a lot of time with your b/f and everything. You should try to balance out your time with him and the rest of your friends. You really don't want to lose a good friend. He should understand if you want some time to be with your friends and he can go do the same. Go have a girls night out or sumthn, a few days without you b/f wouldn't hurt. Good luck with everything!
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