I'm Dominic Mayfield. I'm 6'1, green eyes, black hair. Around 200 lbs, thin but got meat on my bones. I've been through many situations in my life, which is why I can understand most other situations. Ask away and I'll help as best as I can.
E-mail: dmayfield87@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: MD
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Age: 23
Member Since: August 14, 2004
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ok there is a guy at school and we always flirt and we always talk on the phone till like 2 in the morning.. and i dont know what to do? i dont know if he likes me??? and i used to lke (i think i still do) but.. im trying not to cus i dont know if i have a chance? plz help me we r good friends to ...
love,
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Well since you guys are good friends, you got to consider your options. You guys have a healthy friendship going on here. You guys might have a good chance of being able to go out if that is what you are wanting to do. Since you guys always flirt and such, who knows. Maybe you guys need to be friends for longer, maybe you should be in a relationship. This is a choice you need to make on your own. Dont let other people tell you when and where and how to decide of going out with someone. You need to decide to figure out when is the right time to ask. I am looking forward on what you might think of this. I hope i helped you.
~Dom
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wat do you do when your best friend is just not herself? like she just doesn't no anything anymore and shes not hyper shes just confused? i try to talk to her but shes like i don't care it makes me feel like shes mad at me but she said she wasn't i don't want to talk to her shes scarying me but something is wrong. please help. (link)
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talk to her....maybe not about what is wrong..but just hang around her for a while. Maybe she will open up to you of what is wrong. You really need to find out, cause she could be depressed, or something else is wrong. Being there for her is the best thing you could do right now. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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I was best friends with Kelly since 7th grade. We're in 9th now and we're still pretty good friends, not best friends but close. Well, she tells me all of her secrets and I never tell them. She says all the time to me and everybody else that I'm her most trustworthy friend, and she tells me that Brittany is very dishonest and lies to her alot. Anyways, Kelly did something really bad and she told me and Brittany and acouple of other people about it and made us promise not to tell. Her secret got out (one that everybody gossips about) and one girl, Julie, (who doesnt like me) tells Kelly that I told everybody the secret. I honestly didn't tell anybody. Now Kelly won't even talk to me, she won't even let me explain to her that I didn't tell anybody. She won't talk to me about it at all. Do you think that she's just not a good enough friend to even try to hold onto, or should I keep trying to tell her the truth? Ill rate if you ask :o) thanks (link)
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what i would do is keep trying. patience on getting her back as a friend shows that you really care. i would keep doing it.
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Hey, I need, some help, all the time i get this achy feeling, i never have any thing to do. it seems like all my friends are slipping away from me. My mom is all stressed out, and i can't get anyone to listen to me. My ; classes used to be easy, but now they are hard. I'm sooo confused, please, what should i do?!?!
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you said that your friends are slipping from you. Maybe its really you thats slipping from them. What you need to do is stop all what you are all doing and take time to sort things out. What you need to do is spend more time with your friends. If they really are slipping from you, its probably because your depressed, and noone else needs to be depressed so they leave ya. But what you should do is spend time with friends, and even talk to your mom, even though she doesnt listen it gets to her in some form and it does actually help. The classes are harder to do because of your stressed and depressed condition. You need to get happier than you are now and also you need to do things that make you happier. You need to stop being depressed, believe me once you get undepressed, everything will work out for the better. I hope i helped.
Dominic
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ok...so theres this guy i met and weve become good friends...we hang out on the weekends and stuff and hes really fun to be around and talk to...only i think i like him too much and i kno he likes me too much...i didnt want this to happens on account hes a lott older than me ... what should i do? (link)
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well then i think that either you need to be just friends, dont hang out as much, because if this continues you both are going to end up going out and probably doing things and if hes alot older than you you got to think on what that could bring up in your life. I think the decision is yours and everything but just be friends its always good to have a friend. I hope i helped.
~Dominic
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I always feel left out and out of place and I always wonder what life would be like without me. I know I have friends who love me but I always end up thinking what would happen if i died... would it make a big difference? I especially wonder what my ex-boy friend would say ... I just want to feel needed, someone who will love me back ... some how when i have a boy friend or someone close to me i feel like i have a purpose ... is that normal ... to want to be needed? (link)
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everyone sometimes has thoughts about this kind of thing what would happen if you were gone what would happen if you were never there but you got to think of something of all the things youve done of all the things you said to comfort people to help people it wouldnt have been there if you werent there and think of what would happen if you werent? its always normal to feel needed its not a want but need to feel... what im trying to say is that if you werent there in their lives as well what would they have done without you? they would be very sad and a lot of other feelings they would feel but since you are still alive and since you have friends i would suggest to enjoy live to the fullest and go and fulfill your want or need to feel needed. I hope i helped
~Dom
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Dear Dom,
I have a major problem. My best friend of about four years is ditching me for a guy who is a druggie, four years older than her (shes 16), and has a girl on the side. I tried to talk to her, but she told me I was jealous and that I could basically take a hike, which pissed me off, but I worry aobut her. So what should I do?
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What you need to do is try to get someone that has went out with the druggie and let em talk to your best friend...and if that doesnt help...hopefully she will find out how bad he really is before anything gets any worse...and also you can always get a girlfriend and then go and tell her so she doesnt think your just jealous:P i hoped i helped even a lil
~Dom
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mmk I got a question. My friend is really really flirty, and is very outgoing and pretty. She talks to my boyfriend, and I didn't know this. I am kind of jealous of her in a way bc my boyfriend talks about her a lot, and I am getting a bad vibe from this. I asked my friend if she liked my bf and she said only as a friend and besides that he likes me. I only hope, but how she said it was kinder suspicious. I don't want anything to get in the way of our friendship, esp. a guy, but I don't know what to do. ;p help pweese (link)
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well what you should do is talk to your boyfriend about this or to another friend. Once your boyfriend knows that your concerned and also that you dont want to lose him could also see that you would want to stay with him, which can pull you two together a lot more than what you have now. If you talk to another friend you can always ask him/her for advice as well and go and talk to your boyfriend then. I hoped i helped ya.
~Dom
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i need help. i like my best friend. and im not sure if he likes me. and i really like him. he says if we go out it could ruin our relationship. but hes went out with almost all of his best friends.i want his so bad. i havnt had a boyfriend for a long time, and this could be my chance PLEASE DONT DELETE I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED! (link)
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he says it could ruin your relationship but hes afraid that he would probably lose ya most likely i would go for it although thats just me you decide whats best:P
~Dom
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ok hi my name is Anik I was talking to my boyfriends friend and well he was getting all jealous about us and now he broke me and my boyfriend up cuz he kept saying I was his girl friend and told my boyfriend I was breaking up with him which is a big lie and well I want him back but I don't know what I can do cuz his friend Nathan is always there blowing kisses my way and stuff...help me plz
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Well what you should do is round up some girl power to get on your side :P lol ehh what you need to do is talk to your boyfriend alone while his friend is away at any point and tell him the truth about what happened. If you stay scared of his friend then really get some girl power on your side (H) but other than that you need to show your true feelings for your boyfriend before its too late. Then afterwords you can either yell at his friend or watch your boyfriend yell at him:P. Hoped i helped.
~Dom
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I've been friends with this girl heather for about a year or so now...she's a good friend, dont get me wrong, but all summer she has been ditching me and my other friends for her family..i know she's busy with diving and everything but whenever we ask her to hang out she usually says sure and then blows us off to go hang out with her family. she was rude to her boyfriend and drug him out to visit her relatives whenever they were supposed to have alone time and it interfered with their relationship and they are now just "friends" I really don't know how to tell her she needs to come out with us instead of the family without hurting her feelings... what should i do? (link)
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Well family is important but friends are very important. If you think about it even family are your friends. What you need to do is tell her that you need to talk and also get all of your friends that are also friends of hers and get together and talk this whole thing out. Cause everyone in life needs friends...and if she doesnt figure that out her life could crumble cause she could figure out that she has no more friends. I would talk it out with her and her friends at the same time basically have the conversation with you and her first and then have people come in at different times so she can notice the people in her life. Well i hope i helped a lil.
~Dom
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Hi do u have MSN Messanger? if so talk to me , mines jenipher_1989@hotmail.com or just Jenipher
Im a female age:15
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sure :P ill add ya now im male age:17
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