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i really miss my friends yet i dont go to the same school as them. i'll probably be able to transfer there soon tho and they really want me to. it'll be great.
one of my best friends whos a year older used to be so close to me in middle school, like i love that girl so much. but now one of my other friends whos my age goes to school with her and since i dont go there they became really close. i was happy that they became friends because a year back they had problems. but now it seems like she wont like me as much or something. maybe im just really insecure and since i feel so alone sometimes i think i really am alone. but i never get jealous. not until now. i just really want to be there with them all again. i miss them so much.
my mom gets it but i dont know if my dad will let me transfer. (link)
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i don't know exactly what your question is, but i'll try and answer anyways.
all you have to do is schedule a weekly routine with the both of them so you can hang out.
for example, my friend and i grew apart during middle school. there's an ice rink in my area that has a teen night on fridays, so we went there a couple of times together. and now we ALWAYS go.
we've become much closer too.
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i need a quote for drinkin w the girlss ! thankss ;] haha. anything w college is ok too bc were in collegee ~ thankss ♥ (link)
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here's the only one off the top of my head:
"act single, see double, drink triple."
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Well there is this boy that I like but we are bff so I thought we where than one day he said that he did not want be to hang out with me untill I change my attutde. And becase I like him I thought that he liked bad girls so I started acting like one but im not really one and my real Q is do boys like bad girls or nice girls??? (link)
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it all depends on the guy.
trust me.
some like 'bad girls', some like 'nice girls'.
ask him straight up what was wrong with your attitude.
'cause you can't fix it if you can't tell its broken.
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I was good friends with these girls freshman year, they kinda put me in the middle of a fight making me have to choose between their group and the other 2 girls in the group..i unfortunately chose the other 2 girls cause we were in a youth group together so i thought we'd get close. We stopped hanging out last year, and the original other girls started getting closer and closer. Now I have 3 classes with 2 of the girls and it's like akward like we talk and stuff but im not friends with them and I really really want to be. I keep asking them to hang out but they always say no and i mean we have such a past together!! ahh help me! (link)
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tell them that you really want to hang out with them 'just like old times' and that if they ever change thier mind ['cause you said they keep saying no] that the offer's still open.
then just back off.
there's really nothing more to do.
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Friends share the bed with one another, sometimes. But when that happens to the person you told that you like them more than a friend it is hard to understand there side. What I mean is that I told my friend about myself and I was expressing my feelings to her. she said she not feel the same about me and she not ready for any relationship and not sure what gender she is interested. And I ‘m a women who found out that I am Bi and she the first person I told her. She was there to understand and I was glad she is and a great friend, I'm not ready for a relationship too (with a women.) We had my birthday party at my apartment we all started to watch TV in my room when the party was over. Me and my friend Sara sat on the bed as my other two gal friends sat on the 2nd bed that is the bed mattress under the day bed I was sitting on. I told my friends that one can sleep on the 2nd bed as two sleep on the floor. As the movie ended Sara stay on the bed with me as I lay down she lay down too, but my feet was to her head as her feet to my head. I told her that I might kick her as I slept she said "so what , I kick u back." Now It got me confused about her, she is a touchy close person to me and now she does THIS! Why is that? It might not mean anything but I just need a second understanding.
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if she's not sure, she might just be playful and stuff.
i wouldn't call what happened flirting or anything.
she still sees you as a friend, therefore it would be no problem sharing a bed with you.
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So it's summer, as of today. Now I realize that.. I'm going to be really bored the whole time. My group of "best friends" never call me anymore, because they're always out drinking. I confronted them about it once & they say that they've changed now & I haven't. At school I talked to a lot of people but no one called me after or on weekends. Now it's summer & I won't see anyone anymore. What do I do? I have no friends. I don't want to sit at home all summer. Plus my mom is always like, "where are your friends?" & I make up a lie because I can't tell her that they don't talk to me anymore, I feel like a loser.
I don't know what I'm going to do all summer. It seems like my old friends don't even feel bad that I have no friends. (link)
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okay, so go you for not following the crowd and drinking like your 'best friends'.
go somewhere and make new friends.
that's what i've done.
if its not too late enroll in a camp type thing for maybe a week, or go to activities hosted by a local library or something like that.
if you're the only one going, it might be a bit scary.
but once you introduce yourself to one person its not anymore.
like, for example, i'm shy.
but i'm trying to fix that.
whenever i go to the beach or camp or something, i say, 'hi, i'm crista. :]' and then, 'i like your [blank]' or even, [say if they have band merchandise, or sports equipment, etc.] 'you play [blank]?' or 'you listen to [blank]?'
basically i just find something we have in common and start talking.
the only problem i've come upon is when they don't talk quite as much as i do, and there are awkward silences and stuff.
just ask them about themselves, or explain a little about yourself to them.
after i did that, they opened up quickly.
if you don't want to meet new people though, just call someone you do know and make a date to do something.
and don't make it something vague that won't happen, be aggressive and make the date definate.
hope i helped.
any other questions about this, ask me.
if you like. [:
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okay theres this girl in my class. ive known her since this year and shes okay i guess.. oh yeah im 13 and a girl too. im not really friends with her but we sit at the same lunch table so we talk occasionally. i used to think she was okay, until one day she just changed. well it kinda progressed to her changing.. i only see her at lunch and special periods. first in the year we had music and i liked her and we usually partnered together. next was art and we were at diff tables. she sat at a table with alot of the cool popular people.. maybe that affected her? like soon after that its like she was trying to make herself be something.. she just wasnt before. its like she is so fake i hate it. then soon she got a new haircut and she keeps flipping it all the time.. and the way she acts its like too overly nice and shes trying to be cool i think but i'd rather her just be the girl from before. and then she acts all nice and stuff.. like now in homec thats what she does, but at lunch like once i asked if i could borrow a little hand sanitizer and she was all like "no!" and like pretty meanly. it was just a little sanitizer and it was hanging from her bag.. yeah thats pretty sad i couldnt even borrow a little. and like its like shes trying to act like shes superior to other people and would just seem like.. UGHH i dont wanna be around her! but shes in my home ec group and if shes not in our group she will have nobody else so we have to have her!!! DOUBLE ughhhhh. HELP. PLEASE. (link)
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this is sort of easy for me.
like, i decided to just kinda ignore this girl 'cause she gave me lots of crap.
but she's in the small group i always hang out with so that makes it hard.
just ignore her.
if she says something to you, respond, but not in a way to make conversation.
don't look at her, laugh at/with her [if she tends to make people laugh], don't talk to her unless you have to.
but school's almost over, so this doesn't even have to go on for long.
hope i helped.
let me know how it turned out.
=D
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I have this best friend. We have been together since we were in day care (before we were in school) Recently she has been really mean. She tells me to shut up constantly. I'm not the smartest person (common sense wise) and I think she gets annoyed with how dumb I am. I really can't help it. I'm not one of those girls who is really dumb because they make themselves be dumb. I don't get things but I don't say I don't get them it's just that she has known me so long she knows when I don't get things. Anywho...she bosses me around all the time. She tells me I'm dumb. She corrects everything I say. When I try to talk to her you can tell she is annoyed if I even say hi. I'm not soooo dumb all the time. I really am book smart. I have all A's and I'm sitting 4th in my class of 561. What do you think it is? How can I talk to her? (link)
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tell her how you feel and don't let her boss you around.
if you want to maintain the friendship with her i would suggest other friends to go to so that she doesn't always get annoyed at you for even talking to you.
maybe give her some time to cool off from whatever happened to her.
maybe she's pmsing?
and don't let her tell you you're dumb, friends don't put you down like that.
hope i helped. =D
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I'm 16/f, my best friend is 16/m. I used to be very clingy like and we fought a lot, and I'd always call him like 50 times a day to talk about it, and it was like everyday of every week because we fought so much. For the 2 weeks or so, I just decided to not care. If he wants to call to solve the problem, he can, I don't want to anymore. Thing is, now he WANTS to talk to me. He calls so much more, asks to hang out, everything. Why is this? Right when I stop giving him all my attention he wants it back? (link)
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guys are complicated.
but as the saying goes, "you never know what you want till its gone."
from what i can figure i think as soon as you stopped, he was so used to hearing his phone ring that he now misses the sound of the phone ringing plus your voice.
he probably misses the familiar about you calling him a lot and talking to you.
i suggest since calling him a lot was sort of the problem, cutting back on the calls but not stopping them completely.
i really hope fifty times a day was an overstatement, so i'll say maybe one or two times a day or week, your choice.
power to you for making the decision to stop being the one to always solve the problem.
but a friendship is two-way, both of you should know that, especially if you want to keep the friendship.
i think i rambled a little bit, but i hope i helped. :3
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Ok well a while back my sister (who is 14 and i'm thirteen) was looking through her old school pictures and she found one of third grade and so she decided to go on myspace and see if anyone had one and she only found one so she started talking to him and then she left her messenger on one day so i got on and told him i'm jessicas(mysister) sister and so then we started talking for a few months and we started to like each other and we promised each other that when either of us get a car we would drive out to see each other cause he lives in new hamshire and i live in wisconsin so we stopped talking for like a couple months then he messaged me saying he's sorry if it felt like he pushed me away but he got grounded and that he missed talking to me and what not so i really like him even though the last time we saw each other in person was when i was in 2nd grade n he was in 3rd so bascially does he like me i mean by reading this well i mean he says he does but i dont know someone help basically whats your opinion on this situation thanks in advance and please dont judge (link)
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this kinda sorta happened to me.
i think he likes you, but he might not want to admit it.
i also think that his [and probably yours too] will change within the next two to three years.
long distance relationships are really hard to maintain, but i suggest to keep talking to him, just don't get romantically involved.
what happened to me was there was this guy in a different city [one year older than me] and it was my friend's exboyfriend. we started talking to each other on the messenger until he liked me and i liked him but he didn't tell me is 'cause i "was too weird." i only reason i know now 'cause he told me a few monthes ago that he liked me, and that he still likes me. but now, its all different and he doesn't like me anymore.
so yeah.
hope i helped. x3
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=/ sorry this tured out loner then i thought it would be.
Me and my [ex]bestfriend have known eachother for a 2 years now. A few months ago she started lieing alot and about things and i caught her in many of them. I hate fighting so i just let it go. On top of that she relys on all her boyfriend. She goes from one guy to the next to the next hanging out with them everyday never carring about me or anyone else. I was so agravated with her i would come home everyday and complain ahout how much i dont like her and all these things. So i relized then why be here friendd[even if that kinda harsh]. Cause im kinda being a bad friend to talking about her behind her back. So i stopped talking to her for a while. about 2 weeks she called me and we kinda had a talk and i basically told her what was happening and she asked if she changed then could we be friends still. I said maybe but i didnt want her to change just for me and i didnt think she would[she didnt]. Well now she is still all buddy budyy with me but i still dont like her. What should i do. I started writing a note to her to tell her about what i was thinking and what was happeneing cause she clearly didnt undterstand but is that stupid to do? Should i call her and tell her? or should i do something else. (link)
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you came to the right place. i just hope i can help you.
first of all, i would call her again to talk to her and tell her that i still feel the same because she didn't change. but i would also include the fact that i don't want her to change on account of me.
second of all, i'd just be a friendly stranger to her. which means, not talking to her more than neccesary and not creating opportunity for any conversation that would bring out what you dislike about her. [ex. more lies]
to me it looks kinda like she doesn't need you. and the way she acts you really don't need her.
i really hope i helped.
please give me feedback?
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I am so shy and really nice to everyone at school. i go out of my way to makes others happy everyday. The other day i found out that people were calling me a slut and saying that i flaunt myself too much. I have 38Ds and i am 14. it's not that easy to hide them!!!! It doesn't make it any better that in gym we have to swim. I don't get how people can call me a slut when i haven't had one boyfriend or had my actual first kiss (link)
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reality check: you are not a slut.
people get jealous, its natural fact of life.
they're jealous because of how nice you are, not to mention your big breasts.
they are judging you based on your appearence, don't sink to their level by believing them.
hope i helped. :]
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