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i have this one friend... lets call her Liz.. Liz always used to come over my house, we always used to hang out.. there wasnt a day where we werent together.. cuz she lives rite down tha road.. but all of a sudden.. this summer.. she never comes over..she never calls.. n i never hear from her.. then i found out she was hangin w/ another girl that was a few years younger \than us.. I TOTALLY DONT MIND THAT but i mean i never see her any more.. the girl she hangs out with doesnt like me so i dont bother hangin out with them wen they r together.. but i feel like mah 2nd half has been torn away!

alwaiiz,
Ali

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This exact thing happend to me. I know this is going to hurt but you have to try and make other friends becsuse other wise your going to be left alone and broken just like i was i understand you just want to be friends with "liz" but she may not want that and in order to have some form of a relationship with her its better off just to let this new friendship run its course she may come back to you sorry and she may not which is why you need to be prepared for rejection THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT so dont even start thinking it was somethin you did that made he ditch you . i hope i helped

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thanks for answerin my question i can relate to u more than most lol

lol people say i have problems so im good at solving other ppls !!

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hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me?

Its not you . This girl cleary doesnt think u imporant enough to chiil wit so make other friends cause chances shes coming back arent very high


if u need a friend im here

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hi. im in a group of 3 best friends. Alexa and Erin. They both tell me that they secretly like me better than the other one and wish it was just the two of us. Alexa says crap about Erin and so on. I love them both and wish they wouldnt do this and could just like eachother. what should i do?

i hate people who do this crap . What I'd do is sit them both down and tell them that you cant stand the crap there giving you. Tell them Just what you said here. I love you both but if your going to talk shit about eachother dont do it to me because it put me in a bad... (ect you get the point)
good luck!!!

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