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16/f. a friend of mine just died. and another friend, david, isnt really showing any emotion. and i know its affecting him cause he was like best friends with the kid that died. i told david that im here for him and such, but im worried. i know its not healthy to keep everything in. he'll talk to me when its just me and him. no body else around. and that doesnt happen too often. maybe its just a guy thing. idk. but im worried. and idk what to say or do.
Everyone deals with tragedies in different ways. I think its nice that you have volunteered, but when and if he is ready and some point he'll tell you. A lot of people hold it in for a while, until they are really ready to talk. I know as a person, I keep things to myself. I think you should just give him some time, maybe he'll talk. Just be there for him like you are. I hope I helped.
hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz!
You should sit down and tell her than because you're her friend you are watching out for her and that you really are worried for her. You should also lte her know "who do you trust more about the truth, your friend, or a guy?" but be nicer about it, ya know? If you don't want to do that just let her know "I have been trying to convince you of the truth, and all I can do it hope that you believe me, and do something about it." I think it takes a lot of guts to tell her that, so I definetly give you major props that as it is. I wish you so much luck.
my bestfriend looks at me when she spends the night over at my house in a weird way...like when we are gettin ready to go to bed i catch her lookin at me when im changin i really feel uncomfortable and i want her to stop but i dont know how to bring it up and i dont want to start a huge fight and i still want to be friends but im just not like that....what should i do?
Hello,
Yes I understand the situation. I know what you mean that has happened to a friend of mine before. I think you need to let her know because if you do it will just become worse for you. I think you should tell her "I just wanted to let you know that I feel like whenever I am undressin' you are lookin' at me, I am not trying to accuse you of something but its putting me in a weird position. I of course want to still be your friend but I just want to know whats up." Something nice, but something that gets the message to her. This is a tough situation, good luck!
my friend wants to get extentions.. how do i tell her that uhm.. no.
Well I mean, it is her descion so dont force her into not getting them. You should just give her your input, try not to be mean though.
hey i am 14/f i reli need sum help with dis i hav dis friend n she tells me everything n we ben thro quite a bit i was always therre for her wen shtuff happened n i always helped her out tha problem is dat weneva i hav shtuff goin on dat i need 2 tlk bout she never listens lyk i start sayin sumthin n she'll cut me off n start tlkn bout herself or i want 2 tell her a funni stori but she interupts me in mai first sentence n starts sayin sumthin bout melissa(one of her reli good friends) i dunt wana confront her bout it cuz i kno dat she will get reli mad cuz she always tells me dat she is therre for me but in reality she isnt PLEASE HELP thank u sooooo much
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ok well that happens to a lot of people. I think one of the only things you can do is let her know she cuts you off and it bothers you but tell her not to take it personally and be real nice about it.