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Hey i love to play guitar my name is Corie and i love animals. I've always wanted to have an advice colum. So i hope you like my advice. I give advice to my friends. It usually works so. Well that's me.
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OK, so last week my "friend" Lindsay sort of got a little mad at me & my "friend" Kristen because we were hanging out with a girl named Lynnette. So Lindsay starts hanging out with Molly & Kayla because she wanted us to be jealous, but I'm not. Lynnette is a way better friend than either of them right now. So anyway, when we were all sitting down in the gym at the end of the school day, I asked Lindsay why she had a problem with Lynnette, AND TRUST ME SHE HAS A HUGE PROBLEM WITH HER!!! So then she tells me "What the heck? You know what, Lauren. If you're gonna be that way then what the heck is up your butt?" She wanted to say "What the hell is up your ass?" But she didn't. The only reason she did that is because the popular girls were around her & she wanted to be popular so she showed off, & tried to impress them. I hate Lindsay. So then my other "friend" Kristen, tells me A WEEK LATER that she worked things out with her! She's been my friend for 9 YEARS & she's friends WITH THAT GIRL LINDSAY! I'm so mad at her now. She doesn't know though. She waited a week to tell me after I was sending her e-mails, IMs, & text messages asking what's going on! Should I be this upset that I hate both of them? I mean, Lindsay & Kristen would expect me not to be friends with someone who said something like that to them. So Kristen pulls this act "Well I feel like I have to choose..." I've been sticking up for her for YEARS & what does she do? NOTHING TO STAND UP FOR ME! So then I mentioned that over AIM & she's like "Well...I mean if you don't want me to be friends with her I won't because you're both gonna talk shit about each other behind each other's backs. It's totally not worth losing our friendship over." We met Lindsay this year. But I mean...come on! SHE SAYS THIS EVERYTIME I GET MAD & SORRY JUST ISN'T ENOUGH ANYMORE! Sorry this was so long but some girls I just hate being friends with because it's so dramatic. I already told her I was mad, then I told her I wasn't even though I am. Should I be upset about this? I just need another persons' perspective on this.
Thanks in advance!
~ Lauren
Look i've been in this situation i have three friends that hate eachother. Look Lindsay is so dumb if she's going to be like that then drop her but Kristen has been your friend for years. Talk to Kristen and talk to her sort it out and tell Kristen she doesn't have to choose. If you still want to be friends with lindsay talk to her too. All three of you sit down and sort it out. Remember Conversation not Convrentation. (I don't know if i spelled it right.) I hope this helps.
I had a dream i made out with my best friends boyfriend. I feel so bad that i would have a dream like that. I dont even have feelings for him!! Now i feel like i have betrayed my best friend what should i do to make me feel better?
Look if you feel that bad about it then maybe tell your friend. Or someone you trust. Look if you tell someone then you won't feel that bad. It's okay it was just a dream.
Sincerely Corielistens.
My best friend just called me from her cell phone and said she was running away!! what do i do????
Talk to your friend tell her that it is stupid if she runs away she could get stollin or hurt. She might. Talk to her make her understand or tell her parents do what you think is the best dicison.
one of my best friends is reall y mean to me. everything i do is wrong and its always MY fault. she gets mad at the littleist things. all i have to do is call her cell phone and she starts a HUGE fight. im sick and tierd of it!!!!!!! but shes also best friends with all my other best friends and she rides my bus. so i cant avoid her and its kinda hard not to be friends with her since we have been friends for a while but i dont know what to do!!! i need help so i would love it thank in advance!!
Look i have a best friend too that is like that. You should just sit her down and talk and if that doesn't work just say if your going to treat me like this then i don't think we should be friends. Just talk to your friend. K
sincerely Corie