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OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's!
Omg just forget about her. shes so not good friend matrieal just tell her how your feeling and if she dosent understand shes not worth it. friends dont act like this! and if you have one who dose then shes not a real friend!
I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either)
if you like him go for it his height shouldent matter. :)
me and my friend used to be the best of friends and then like all of sudden we stopped talking then lil bit after that we passed notes =p and talked alot and then this year we did stuff together but we used to tell eachother everything and now I dont even know who shes crushing on!!!! its very confusing i mean shes soo nice and she rele cares and well i just wanna be bffs again
Just talk to her about this tell her your feeling confused and that you would like her to understand that you want things how they use to be! she should understand. :)
Okay so my friend said she hates my boyfriend, and always tells me to dump him or she will make my live hell.. she said that i deserve someone hotter because my boyfriend is ugly, and cares about only me. She and my boyfriend are always arguing and it makes me cry, and today she was being really mean to him, and she made him cry, and then me. I dont know what to do..please help!
This is a really bad thing for your friend to do! if she is your friend she should respect your choices for a boyfriend unless like he abuses you or something like that which i am doubting he dose. she shouldent be making you or your boyfriend cry. and you should try to find a new friend who respects your choices and respects you! i really hope this helps! :)
My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??
signed miss being bffs
talk to her tell her how you feel and that what she's doing hurts you. if she dosent understand ask her how she would feel if you acted that way to her. if she dosent stop acting this way its time to find a new best friend because this is not how real friends are sopose to act! :) hope this helps
hey this is Jackie 13 years old
there is this boy Ryan, who is my neightbor and I've know him all his life.. we've been friends since before i could talk! We've ALWAYS been best friends!! we even went out when we were 10 years old.. we tell eachother everything and we always help fix ANY problems..
well that's how things used to be. in the past few weeks he's called me a SLUT for going out with a guy i just met.. and he actually meant it.. he wasn;t kidding, usually he asks me about stuff and NEVER judges me, but this time he did! and he likes my twin sis now, which i'm perffectall y ok with because i no that we're jsut friends but she doesn't like him so.. he's been upset sometimes when she gets a new boyfriend and he used to talk to me about it but in the last few weekes he's been telling me nothing's wrong when i KNOW theres something wrong comon i m his BFF i can tell.. and he's been keeping his distance.
why would he act this way is there anything i can do to fix it? PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!!
This is really hard to go through but ive been through it. try to talk about this with him let him know that your sorry about your sister and comfert him. he is probly under a lot of stress and he's probly also feeling a little scared because things are changing between you tell him how you feel about the guy your dating and ask him why he feels that way about it. if your as close as i think you are you will get the right answers! :)
how are you supposed to respond to guys when they open up to you and tell you something personal... like that their dad has cancer, they are still in love with their ex, or their parents are getting divorced? i know how to comfort my friends that are girls, but guys, i dont know what to say... i'd really appreciate any ideas.
Look guys respond the same way girls will when you comfert them. guys just take longer to warm up and be open if you have guys opening up to you thats great! just try to comfert them the same way you would for your friends that are girls. try to keep the guys mind of of thier problems and just be there to listen to them if their telling you this stuff then they want you to be a listener and to comfert them the same way you would anyone else. guys have the same feelings girls do they just express them in different ways. hope this helpes you :)
Okay, my brother moved to North Carolina with his gf and his friend [for school] And I met his friend's brother. He's a couple of years older than me. He was visiting them in North Carolina the same time I was and we slept on the couch together and watched tv almost everynight. I think i like him, but I wanna know if he likes me too. He's kinda shy though, so I don't know how to exactly like bring it up and talk about it. It kinda gets me nervous. I have his screen name though, and next year we're going to go to the same school. What should I do to approach him with this?
*I rate high
i would tell him how you feel and just be honest i know that this seems hard but if your friends he'll understand and give you an honest answer back. Its not as hard as you think life is full of risks and youll never know his true feelings if you never ask him. he might be your soul-mate so dont be afraid to take a chance.