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Hey guys, I'm Maddie. Yes, my advicenators name is ridiculously dorky.
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I'm fifteen and as far as I know, I give pretty good advice, to anyone, about mostly anything.
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do you think it's bad to but everyone the same thing for christmas? like all of your friends?

Nahh, it's not really a bad idea.
But if you're worried about it, this is what i do...
For all my closest/most worthwhile friends, I get something personalized/different from everyone else. For all the others, i give them all the same cute but inexpensive gift.
It's all good.

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I am a very popular female at mi highschool, and mi highschool is known for a lot of lesbians and gay males. It is crazy because I always said how it was nasty to date the same sex. Well I am realizing that I am attracted to females. Well it's one inparticular tho. It's like no one turned me out or ne thing I just catch mi palms sweating wen I get around her and me daydreamin' about her. It's even more crazier because we are so close. I don't know what to do, maybe it's just lust but I really like her. I am afarid because mi cousins would kill me if they knew, I want to tell her but don't know how. Should I give hints or just tell her? Wen would be the right time to tell mi bf and mi fav. cousin. It's not like I care if others know, I just need those three people to kno. PLEASE HELP me, rate 5's for any useful advice

This is a real toughie.
When it comes to telling the girl herself, just be careful that she won't freak out... is she attracted to girls too? Other than that though, just let her know in the same way you would if she was a guy you liked.
When it comes to the bf, be careful, because it might hurt his feelings that you have a thing for someone else, even if it isn't a guy.
The cousin though... if she's prejudiced against gays/lesbians... that will be really hard. I'm not sure what you'd do about that one.. Just let her know very matter-of-factly, and you'll have to kinda deal with whatever she says.


good luck!

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ok well i have a best friend and i lov eher so mucha dn weve been best friends from like the first time we met and were always together and everyone is always like 'ur like the olsen twins,always together, always the same, never fighting' and we love that were totally different, shes blond long hair with fair skin and angelic girlie dress sense and im brown hair rock chick.
anyway this new girl has come and totally taken her away! what do i do ignore or say something
thanx
xxx

I know that this is a really rough thing to go through. But don't let your amazing friendship fade away! This new girl is a threat to you, but i think the best you can do is stay with your friend, and continue doing the things together that you always have. It's not really worth trying to sabotage the new friendship, because that will just hurt everyone. Actually, if you like the new girl enough, you could try hanging out, the three of you, together. If you develop a friendship with this new girl, it could be the beginning of something new, and very good. But if that's not gonna happen, then just stick it out and do your best to keep your old friend too.

good luck!
xo maddie

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My roommate has been in the hospital for almost a week now. It started out as a tooth ache, and turned into a ballooned up face. It's something that's usually pretty routine, and fixed by a week or so of penicillin and a root canal, but the penicillin din't work and it only got worse very quickly.

She feels really ugly because of her face, and has been worrying because of her tooth. Instead of just a root canal, they may have to pull the entire tooth, and it's a tooth near the front of her mouth.

I've been to see her off and on, her family has been coming, even as far as a few states over, and her boyfriend has been at the hospital pretty much non-stop so that she isn't alone there.

I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of things that I could do for her to make her feel better.

Just be incredibly nice to her... do all the little cute things that will make her feel better. Balloons, music, gifts, flowers, and CHOCOLATE : )
You know the drill.
Good luck!
xo Maddie

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okay i am thinking ahead about prom because I am trying to find a way 2 ask my friend who is aboy if he willdance with me! i am not so sure if he will because he is going 2 bring another girl from outside of school! and this is his senior and i just want one dance with him that's it!! what should i do?

If his date is cool with it it's all good. I'm pretty sure that if you do it right, he will know that you just want to dance with him, and that's all. It will probably work out for the best.
xo ME

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I have not been going out with my boyfriend for very long.. We got 2 know each other and he asked me out and i said yes.. Than he was sent to boarding school in SC and but were both from NC.. He never really calls but sometimes he will and we talk about nothing i know he does drugs but the only one he says he does is weed... But all my friends and ppl tell me he does other stuff.. He came home like 3weekends ago and we really didnt talk or see each other cause he was " Fucked Up" and is annoying to be around cause he does not talk really.. I know his guy friends that he with do drugs.. But i really like him and he just soo sweet..and etc.. i have no idea what i should do.. should i break things off.. Or just deal with the fact that he does drugs and i cant do ne thing about it.. HELPME PLEASE
*Kristen*

DEFINITELY break up with him. The relationship will never go anywhere if hes doing that shit.
sorry... :-(
xo Me

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I have a friend that I've known since like 3rd grade. I'm a sophomore now and lately she's been driving me crazzy. She's my bestfriend and I don't have another bestfriend, i have other friends but I dunno she's always been my bestfriend. So, yeah.. she's been reallly annoying me. Suggestions?

Just keep on being nice to her. It looks like the two of you are changing, and growing apart. You should gradually spend morer time with your other friends if it makes you comfortable. The best case scenario is the two of you stay friends, like she is one of your "other friends", but you are not necesarily attatched at the hip. Don't feel guilty for being annoyed at her. It's just a change in her character, or yours, or both.
Be nice, but spend lots of time with your other friends too.
Hope I helped ;-)

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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help.

Sry to say, i would just do it :-P
its all good. And if you must, just make something up, like you gotta babysit or something. BUt something that doesnt involve any of your other friends cause then she could find out. good luck!
xo Me :-D

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