All my friends are so much prettier and skinnier than me, and it lowers my self esteem. They are always the ones that get all the guys attention, and I hardly get any. I know it shouldnt matter at all, but it still bothers me. My friends dont treat me badly or anything, but im always worried that they are secretly thinking lower of me. Any suggestions on how to quit becoming so jealous and to stop thinking Im not good enough for my friends?
that's the same thing that happens here..you really just need to act your self and think you are pretty and trust me..you will get a boys attention when the time is ready...it just doesnt poof. Maybe your friends dont like having the looks all the time because it gets annoying to them when a boy always does stuff with them...
hope that made sense
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okay i always seem to be the friend never THE girl. i mean its always this way. i'm really funny and i make jokes alot, but i cant seem to stop. i am also really sarcastic some of the time. i'm the girl who is playing football with the guys at parties or shooting hoops or playing some video game with them or seeing who can chug their drink the fastest..i just have more fun hanging out with guys and i can talk to them more than i can girls because there isnt as much *drama* with them. i really want to be THE GIRL for this kid named matt. hes a great soccer player, amazing football player, smart, funny, hott, helpful. just all around what i want, and i want to know how i can change some of the ways i am so he'll like me, or atleast notice i am a girl and i've got the potentional to be a girlfriend. hes never made out with anyone and neither have i but i know i want to be the first person he ever makes out with! can anyone and everyone PLEASE help me?! thanks so much. 5's help!
Well if you insist on changing your self then start doing stuff for him and act more like a girlfriend even though you arent dating still do all the manly stuff if you want.But most of all be who you are and hope he notices what a great GIRL you are..Dont go changing your self for boys! its bad for you and ur self esteem...trust me i have done it!
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-Amber Nicole-
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Okay, well you see, I was really good friends with this one guy. We go to different schools and only see each other occasionally. For a while we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but not offically. We would hold hands and then, one night he just held me, in that way. Then, I didn't see him for a while, and I have recently just seen him. I asked him if he still liked me, (because I knew he did( as in he did in the past)) and he said no. I don't know if I should do anything else, because I still like him, or if I just should let it be, because he initiated our "realtionship" and then he just ended it like that.
Just forget him, since he doesn't like you anymore. If he wont admitt his feelings for you then its not worth being with.
hope me and my friend helpeD!
-Amber Nicole-
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Well, my bestfriend and i have been best friends for 8 years *I'm going to be a junior* and we've been tennis doubles partners since 8th grade. This summer she's been slacking off and I've been working out everyday. I play tennis atleast 3x a week but i'm starting to play more, and the days i'm not playing i'm reading a book on it or running! I really want to get better and I'm working really hard. But she really isn't. She's played tennis 3x this entire summer! Sometimes she skips tennis practice for work *understandable but she's just afraid to ask to get off an hour early even though she's done it once before and they were fine with it*, but tomorrow she's missing it for a party for some girl she just met! And practice are over at 7- and i doubt the party is even started by then. My friend, who's a year younger then me but also is working hard this year has asked me to be her doubles partner for a tournament coming up. I was like heck yes! I really would rather play with her because I know we'd do really well and my other friend isn't even trying! What to do?
you tell your other friend that you wanna do it with someone else this year because shes slacking and not doing her part...tell her that you want to win and you will go do it with sumone else
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Ok see i went on a trip and first i asked my best friend to go wth me but there was no more room on the airplane. i kno if she did go we would have a BLAST! but then my other friend's mom talked 2 my dad and my dad invited her and the SOME HOW he found a ticket for her. i didnt kno what to say about that or even what to say to my best friend. she was a little pissed when she found out, but i hate when she is pissed at me ! i love her like a fat kid loves cake we have been though everything 2geter
tell her that it isnt your fault, and that you wanted her to go but your other friend's mom got to your dad first and talked to him in to it. And tell her that you love you alot! and that there is no one to replace her....
hope i helped!
-Amber Nicole-
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hey guys...im really scared!! ok...i used to be really good friends with this guy and then we didnt really talk for a while, and in the past few months we have been talking alot and become really close again, well about 45 minutes ago i found out that his dad killed himself...what do i say to him? i mean HE doesnt even know yet...his mom called me before she told him...i used to be pretty close to his dad too...he didnt seem the type to do something like that...i have been crying my eyes out since i found out and when this guy does find out, what do i say to him? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wait till he brings it up. But dont tell him you know about it, and just comfort him about it...
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we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.
if you arent in sports maybe you should get into sports wen skewl starts back up....or get more involved...and then you usually make really good friends with the teammates...or maybe express your self more in school, if they have sumthing new go out for it and try...people always watch and stuff soo then they will see what you can do and start to talk to you...lemme kno how it goes wen you start back skewl!
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There are these two boys and they came to live with us they are getting on my nerves hitting my sister yelling in the house and being mean to the animals I need some help any one that answers this question I will give you a five please help me
well, you put your foot down to them and tell them whos house it is. tell them that its an abuse for hitting, there is no need to hit. Also if you are a teenager, you should tell an adult but if you are the adult of the house ahah then well you gotta do what you got to do. Tell them its your house and its not cool to be lik that and dont act all hard
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