I am very good at giving advice. I've been an "A" student since my first day at school in kindergarten. I am Student Body President of my school. Currently single, but TONS of guy friends. I love the color green, and last year I lost like 30 pounds. I am very good at health questions.
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I was invited to my sister’s house warming party and she was trying to hook me up with this guy she knows. He was cute and nice but nothing clicked between us. I told my best friend about it and she got jealous of him! She told me that if I get a boy friend we won’t be close anymore. I explain to her that I wasn’t interested to this guy and I told her “nothing happen we just talked. I don’t think I am ready for a relationship at the moment.” When I told her that she was all quite she didn’t reply to what I said. I then change the subject about a movie I saw and we talk about that the whole day. Why was she quite? And why she wanted to change the subject? She’s the one who bought it up!
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You have a very good friend. I can't read her mind, but I think I know what she was thinking: She doesn't want to lose you. She think you are going to become one of those girls who just hangs with her BF and know one else. She got quiet because she didn't want to start a fight with you. I have a feeling she might have been a little mad at you beforehand- spend extra time with her, I think your friendship might need it.
**bUt just remember she loves you and simply doesn't want to lose you***
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I have this friend. She is amazing dont get me wrong, but she has another friend. I am not mentioning any names. She tries to hang out with both of us but when we are together her other friend always pushes me out of the way. Now everytime i want to hang out with her i have to hang out with her and her other friend or i dont hang out with her at all. What should i do? should i back off and let her other friend take over our friend ship? i dont know.. Help me!
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Now you know that is not the right thing to do!!! You cannot let this other girl get between you and your friend. Explain to your friend that you just want some "us" time. You feel a little jealous when she hangs out with this other girl all the time. Tell her that you think your friendship is suffering because you two don't get to just hang out together anymore. Don't even bring the other girl in it. It will all just turn into a mess.
Hope that helped!!
XXD
Love,
Lys
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my friends are always so mean to me but the next second nice what should i do? (link)
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First ask your little "friends" they are doing this to you. I say "friends" because that is NOT what they are. They are the girls you hang out with. They are the girls who will one day talk about you behind your back (if they haven't already.) I am not trying to sound harsh, but these people aren't there for you! It's time for you to dump them and find some new friends!
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theres this friend that i have. she is like a sister to me, but lately shes been acting very...messed up. for example ill tell her that im going to coney island whatever and she'll start talking about how shes got a boy friend, got new nikes, going to six flags, etc. so im like okay...cool? nd then shes like y did you tell me that? and then im like,...cuz i wanna. nd then she'll be like, well i dont care. nd then ill say whats up with you and she'll be like you shoved something in my face so im shoving sonething bak. i didnt really mean for it 4 seem like that, but yea. ill tell her that and shes like true. then she'll be like you never invite me anywhere. and of course i do, i just dont go places much, so i tell her that. shell be like ok, true, im happy 4 ya. so yes, ill be very pissed by then. i dont know, she has done so many hurtful things to her, and me? like one or two mistakes. but her "gurtful things" arent mistakes, its the way she actually is. so im very confused and mad and hurt, its just a mixture of feelings. i know i luv her very much(as a friend) but i just dont feel like her friend anymore. i dont know what im asking, but i hope you'll be able to know. i guess im asking what i should do. so yea, any advice would be highly appreciated. thankx! (link)
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I have a friend exactly like that! The thing is, she is jealous of ya girl. She feels like she has to counter comment everything you say just so you pay attention to you. Jealousy is bad in a friendship. Very bad. For example, my friend got so jealous, she would call me everyday and almost force me to do EVERYTHING with her, so I wouldn't be with other friends. ANd even THEN she would say we didn't spend as much time together!!! I got sick of it. I spend less time with her, much less.
As you said, you still love your friend, so I think you should take her out somewhere and be like,"What do we need to do to make our friendship work?" She'll tell you. If everything doesn't work out like that, than you are gonna have to drop the relationship. =( Jealousy will kill you emotionally and physically if you don't stop it.
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Well I have this friend who is a girl and her birthday is this Sunday. I'm planning on making something for her..but the thing is not sure what. I also want it to be very special because she became my SECOND FRIEND ever since I started highschool and she helped me break my shell so now I have a couple of more friends..Real ones this time..Also I have a crush on her so I want it to maybe possibly, maybe a tiny bit make her fall in love with me or maybe get the hint that I have a crush on her. Any suggestions what I should make or can anyone help me decide what to do? I'm planning on maybe making a birthday song/poem and put it in an envelope along with maybe a stuff animal. Or is drawing a portrait of her good? I'm not sure because I don't quite know her that much and I don't want her to feel awkward. So anyways any suggestions what I can do? (link)
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Well I am a girl, and I would LOVE to get a poem or a song with a stuffed animal. That's a really good idea. I am gonna say stay away from the portrait of her because you might come off a bit stalkerish... I am gonna say stick with the poem and the stuffed animal. (Try finding an animal that is a little unique, but still really cute. Bears can get a bit boring. Maybe a puppy or an elephant that is pink or somethin...You get the idea. However, a bear is good, but in my opinion, a little boring! XD)
Hope she like your present =)
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I have problems holding conversations with people. I will be talking with someone and they ask me what I want to talk about and nothing pops into my mind..... im scared Im a dull person to talk to. How do people just come up with things to talk about? Im also very shy when Im talking to people face to face like I have problems looking at people in their eyes as well, any suggestions would be greatly apriciated! Thanks ahead of time! (link)
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Well, first I want to help you with the eye contact.. Instead of looking at their yes, look at their fore heads or their nose. It will look like you are looking right into their eyes! Some conversation starters:
-The weather is nice today...
-Ask somebody about something that happened to them in the past that they told you. (If they talked about their cousin's B-Day party, ask how it went.)
-Ask the person if they think you are a dull person to talk to (you will find out the truth & will have something to talk about.
-COme up with a new word and use it in your everyday vocabulary. People will ask you what it means!!!
I hope those helped, it os some of the things I do when I am at a loss for words!
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Well, since it's the end of my sophomore year and a lot of people are moving away to different schools and whatnot..I decided to write each best best friend a letter describing all the memories and good times/bad times we had this year. It's a really touching letter and I don't know how some of my friends will respond. Should I do it? To show how much I care?
Also..do you think it would be a bad idea to do this for an ex boyfriend that I still care about? (he cares for me too.) but I don't know if it would be the right thing to do and I definitely wouldn't know what to say. But I wanna show him that if there's a chance, we could try again next year (we broke up less than a month ago).
Thank you in advance :)) (link)
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I think you should do it. If I got a letter from me, I would be so happy and thankful I even knew you!!! And if you and your ex have a chance on being with each other again, why not go for it? I am sure he would be happy and suprised to get a letter from you also!!
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