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♥BASiCS
Emily prefers to be called/a.k.a em,emz,lili,mimi,lee or emi
13 from England living in Spain - loves; giving advice, making friends, music, photography, the color pink&more ..
hates; racism, terrorism, poverty , animal testing, cockroaches, darkness, sluttyness, being tired


♥MUSiC
+ : r&b
+ : rap
+ : hip hop
+ : reggaeton
+ : slow jams
+ : acapella
+ : pop


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msn&email :: myxboo@hotmail.com
aim :: siimply x emily
yahoo :: emilys0tempted


advice

hey,im going to my school dance (they play r&b,rap,hip hop) (13/f)
i wanted to know,,,what are some good stores to get dance tops? (not fancy) tops like babygurl,southpole,cute tops like that.Also,what kind of hair style should i have?i have medium,light brown hair,bangs to the mid. of my neck,and layes.Should i wear jeans?
thanks so much!! !i'll rate 5!!
(ps-)im (kinda) flat in the chest..and im skinny,im short (4"8)

If you're able to shop online you should try www.drjays.com

They have brands like Southpoul, Lot 29, Rocawear, Ecko Red, etc.

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ok well this is for the guys... is there a certain hair color that you prefer on girls? like do u tend to go for blondes...brunettes... red heads... please give me your opinion because i'm thinking of dying my hair and i'm not sure on what color but i want to see what guys like first. thanks! *i rate*

Different guys like different things.
You can't expect all guys to like one hair color.

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I was wondering if you had any makeup tips or any sites that had makeup tips and stuff like that!

http://www.ultimatecosmetics.com

The site in it's self is awesome but if you join the forums, you can get all your questions answered by everyone from everyday people to trained professionals.

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at school there's a 70's spirit day. i don't know what to wear.. i wanna find something at a regular store and not the internet and i rate 5's

13/f
Thanks!

Search the internet for pictures of clothes from the 70's and see if you can put something together by DIY'ing your self.

If not, still look through for ideas and head to the thrift store.
Thrift stores might not be your thing but belive me, you can find the best of stuff there.

- Emily x

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i got this shirt and it says "better forget it cause you'll never get it" ..is that a bad shirt, would people think im wierd?

Who cares what they think?
But no, it's by no means a bad shirt and it's the exact opposite of slutty.

Besides, you make the clothes, the clothes don't make you.

- Emily x

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hey well i have really annoying nails, and normal nails are hard and don't bend, but my nails bend! and they always start peeling and everything, and it's so annoying! and everytime i get a manecure or put on nailpolish, it comes off in like 2 days!! my nails are sooooo annoying! do any of you know any way to help these problems or why this keeps happening?! also, i have hyperhydrosis, which is something when you have really constant sweaty hands that never go away, so do you think this might have anything to do with it?
please help i rate high!

It could have something to do with your hyperhydrosis, see a dermatologist about it and see if they can recommend anything.
In the mean time buy a nail hardner. You can usually get them in drugstores.

For the nail polish, try a long lasting nail polish something by L'Oreal or something. Make sure you put more than one coat on.

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okay so i really want paris hiltons long blonde hair should i think about getting extensions or should i just grow out my hair the problem with growing my hair out is i have blonde hair so my roots would constantly show. let me know and i will rate good thanks

I think Paris Hilton's hair is actually short but she has hair extensions (I THINK)

If you wanna wait a long time you could wait till it grows but if you wanna spend loads of money on hair extensions and you want to have it fast then you could do the extensions.

♥Em

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what if you are in the orchestra and can't get fake nails cuz it will mess up your playing..but i REALLY want some for school..so what should i do?!!?!

Just wait till school is out because having fake/long nails makes you play really out of tune. I know that for a fact.

You could either
- get fake nails
- quit orchestra

Your call.

♥Em

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i have brown light hair i want to dye it blonde with lemon juice would i look better blonde

Uhm, we wouldn't know, we've never seen you.
But you won't be able to dye it with lemon juice.

Lemon juice doesn't DYE your hair, it makes it lighter. There's a bit of a difference.


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i bought these nail tips and nail glue and i wanna try to put the tips on myself. has anyone tried this before? is it safe to do at home?
thanks! *i rate*

It's perfectly safe to put them on on your own, at home. I've done it loads of times.

Make sure they're straight because if you screw up they don't come off easily.

If you don't like them after and wanna take them off put your fingers in warm water and it should soften the glue helping them come off easier (or at least that's what I've heard, I can't say I've ever tryed it)
♥Em

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I'm so confused about my style...I like all different sorts of music, and I have so many different views. One day I'll be wearing Abercrombie, the next day Hot Topic type stuff...how do I find a style and STICK with it?

You know what?
You DO have a style.
Your style is being you, end of story, no questions asked.
Who cares? If you wanna wear a tee from Abercrombie with some pants from Hot Topic then it doesn't make you a poser.

It means you have enough common sense to be who you want to be and dress the way you want.

Please don't change your style just so you can be like everyone else. People like you are like indangered species.

Just be you :)

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Hey, I want to get my lip pierced. The lebrae (sp?) kind. (You know how it's in the middle and what not) But my fear is that it will hurt extreamly bad. If anyone has gotten theirs pierced could you tell me how bad it hurt? Or any other information I need to know? THANKS!

It's labret, dear.
Well, according to a friends personal expierce and a couple of people I have asked online and to a magazine article
70% of mouth piercings (whether it be labret, tounge or whatever) go wrong causing chipped teeth, swelling, pain and teeth migration.

With a labret piercing, the piercing will rub against your gum causing it to eventually (whether the word 'eventually' means in 10 years or in 5 years I do not know) wear away part of your gum. Which will cause your teeth to migrate and become uneven which can cause chipping teeth, uneven teeth, pain and gum swelling. This may not happen to everyone though.

The best thing to do is go to a piercing studio and ask them to tell you everything about labret piercings that you should know.

The pain can be different on people but depending on how well you handle pain chances are it's going to hurt.
It may also be red for a while but cleaning it two or three times a day with warm water and sea salt should help it heal.
Unless where you get it pierced tells you to clean it with someone else.


There, I think that pretty much covers it ;D
Please note though, not all the information I gave you may apply to you. Like I said, people are different and you may not have the same effects as other people. I'm just telling you what people with personal expierience have told me.

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I am going to be staying in a small village in Northern Italy this summer as an exchange student for 6 weeks! I know I should dress modestly there as to not offend who I am staying with, but what are some cute ways to dress and stay in style while abroad?

I think if you just dress in some cute jeans or capris and tees and the ocassional skirt or shorts then you should be fine.

You could wear whatever you wanted as long as it's not too revealing seeing as the family may find it offensive.
♥Em

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is there anyway to keep my eyeliner on longer.. like so it will stay on and not get off.. i dont want a type of eyeliner i just want tips

There's no way to keep it on except for buying a better brand.
If it's coming off it's probably because the brand is shitty or because it's not waterproof.
Get a waterproof one and see if that helps
♥Em

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Well I'd been using clearasil ultra on my face and chest and they got really really dry and tight. my face is getting better but it's still a little pealy and nothing i do will help the skin on my chest, its all red, splotchy, and tight from where the medicine was. I've stopped using the medicine but it seems like even moisturizing doesnt even help. I have graduation in a week and i'm wearing a strapless dress help!

Use some aftersun on it.
When I get sunburnt my skin feels tight and weird so when I apply aftersun it losens it up.
So hopefuly that'll work. If not just keep moisturizing it, it won't work overnight.
And if the splotches are still there for your graduation use foundation over them.
♥Em

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I was wondering if anybody knew how to get very wavy curls that look natural? Exactly like the ones that Mischa Barton always has. Any help is greatly appreciated..oh and no rude comments, please!

Pantene Pro V scrunching hair gel works.
I think it's called that o_0 something like that anyway.
Also if you buy heated rollers (which I admit aren't always cheap) you can use them and if you buy a set rather than one or two on their own you can get different curl sizes :]
♥Em

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So when I wear eyeliner it always seems to go into the side of my eye and goop or w/e. help me!

Try wearing a waterproof one :]
♥Em

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K, so theres these kids thta always calls me flat, my crush hears that. Ok so i bought this bathing suit thta has padding in it, should i waer it even tho thye will now theres ometihng in it not noticeable but the bathing suit just makes me look big


Thnakyou
And any helpful advice ill give a 5!

Hey hun, if it's really noticeable you might be better off not wearing it because they might tease you (if they do they're immature jerks 'cause there's nothing wrong with padding) if you think it's that noticeable buy a different one that isn't so noticebale.
Also, if wearing padding makes you feel more confident about your self and you don't mind if someone might tease you then you should go for it :]
♥Em

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i AM punk...(i hate that punk, goth, prep thing but..its the only thing i could think of!) but i live in a small town with absouloutly NO stores with my kind of clothes and stuff. so everyone thinks im a stupid prep. so...does anyone kno any stores with punk clothes? thanks so much

Go to a thrift store. Yeah, not somewhere many people would think of but there could be something you could redesign to make it more to your style or you might find something you like without even redesigning it.
Or you could go shop online. Google it for some clothes websites or go to hottopic.com.
♥Em

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Okay, I need to know if this outfit matches for a party coming up, and if it doesn't, let me know.

1. First of all, do BROWN and BLACK match with eachother? (I hope so)
2. My whole outfit has to revolve around my BROWN sandals that I just bought.
3. And I want to wear my BLACK cardigan sweater (REALLY BAD!)
4. Can I wear my brown sandals, a (white or brown?) shirt underneath the black cardian sweater? And a skirt...but what color skirt?

Tell me if any of that matches. Basically I want to wear my black sweater and brown shoes, so what color shirt and skirt should I buy?

THANKS!

Okay so try your brown shoes your black cardigan a brown shirt and a black skirt.

Or: brown shoes, black cardigan , white shirt, brown skirt.

Or your best bid (not to diss you or anything, lol) would be to buy black shoes and go with black cardigan, black shoes, white shirt, white skirt.

Hope I helped
♥Em

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