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Hey..My names Shelby im a Junior in highschool. I love my boyfriend ~*~AnDrEw~*~ I'm a cheerleader.My friends are the shit..((you know who you are)). And yea I'm pretty much the fucking shit =P jk..so yea if you need advice dont be afraid to ask.
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advice

k, i tan outside rather than at a salon
so since its the summer, how do i get the perfect tan? what oil or lotion do i use, which do you prefer and how long should i stay out there?
also, how long do i do my back and front for?

for a summer tan you can use the same lotions you use in the booth..it actually works better outside i think. If you want a dark tan use a oil with an sph of 4 in it if your already tan and 8 if you aren't. I prefer the lotions you use in the tanning bed because they are meant to get you dark and also have bronzers in them. If you are fair skin 30 min will do on each side. If you tan well and hour to and hour and a half on each side. If you get burnt you can put vinegar on a clean towl and rub it in to your burn let it sit for 15 min and then wash it off. I gaurentee youll be sunburned free by the next morning. Better to do it at night. Hope i helped hun.

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i really want my hair to look like miley cyrus's. my hair is extremely straight, and i want it to come out like in this picture.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=85881757&albumID=0&imageID=3056560


any tips? thanks

hey, I cant see the picture of hannah montana that you gave but i know the kinda curls she has and i can give you tips on how to get those curls

1. IF you want wavy curls use a curling iron and spirl curl your hair. make sure you dont use to much hair spray and make sure you dont go all the way to the top of your scalp. Best done a day after the shower.

2. IF you want hannahs super curls take a shower get out and scrunch your hair with moose or gel. Wait til it drys (you can use a towl just make sure its scrunched) then curl the scrunched pieces with your curling iron. You can use hair spray but i wouldn't because you have gel AND moose in your hair.

3. IF you want a different kind of wavy look take a shower scrunch your hair have a friend braid it in 2 french braids (if you have a side bang keep it out of the french braids) it doesn't have to be perfect. Keep them in over night. In the morning when you wake up blow dry them if they are still wet then let them out. You can also curl pieces to give it that extra affect.

Hope i helped

p.s it doesnt matter if your hair doesn't scrunch the mouse and the hair spray should make it kinda stiff so when you curl it will stay hope i helped again lol

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What is a hair diffusor for??

The hair diffusion is for when your hair is wet it makes your curly when you scrunch it without getting crazy and frizzy. It kind of forms curls. Hope i helped hun.

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is blowdrying your hair better or worse than straightning it? i take showers every other day and i blowdry it, so it keeps it nice and straight which works. i don't know if i'm damaging my hair though. am i? is blowdrying your hair bad for it? thankss.!

Anything with heat on your hair is bad for your hair. Striaghteners, blowdryers, curling irons, crimpers...etc. If you do want to blow dry your hair here is what i suggest.

1. Put A LOT of syrum or whatever it is you put in your hair to protect it from damaging but alot only on the ends of your hair not the top though because it will make it look greasy

2. Buy a blowdryer that has a cold blow part. If it blows cold hair on your hair you can still dry it, it might take longer but your not damaging your hair.

3. Blowdrying isn't as bad as straightening in most cases.

Those are some tips for you. I know a lot about blowdrying and straightening because i have super curly hair and thats the only way to get it to look good and it sucks because your hair frys all the time. But those are some things i do. Instead of blowdrying your hair EVERY other day trying letting it air dry sometimes. That would be not so harsh on your hair as well. There are so many products you can buy to help damaged ends. Make sure your buying salon products. A lot of shampoos that aren't have chemicals that make your hair feel soft but that doesn't mean its helping your hair all around. Hope I helped hun. Have anymore questions just ask.

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ok i have REALLY THICK AND CURLY hair and i might get my hair permantly straighten tommorrow. are there any cons to this especially with how my hair is(thick and curly)? Do you think it will look ugly because my thick hair?

thankss

I know exactly how you feel. My hair is so curly and thick and ive wanted to get it permantly straighten so many times. I found out though that it fries out your hair and not only that it make it puffy. You get a lot of damaged ends. My friend use t o have curly hair to then after she got it perm. straightened she can never curl it with a curling iron, scrunch it, nothing. The positive is that you wont have to deal with straightening it and it wont be sucha pain in the butt. No it wont look ugly. Hope i helped hun.

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os so i have blonde hair. i have had it ever since i was like about 1. other wise i was a red head. but i turned blonde. lol. well the thing is is that in the winter it looks darker but its not. its just i guess because of the way the sun chines or something but when im inside or something its liek it normally is. is htere anyway i can get my hair to be more blonde without using dye?

Well theres always lemon juice..but i heard from my salon that it kills your hair because if the acids in it and stuff. I would try to go to a salon and see if they have any shampoo that will keep the color in your hair or bring out the color of your hair. I know they do because ive used it before and it works good but your hairstylist should know whats best for you. Also theres Blonde spray that your spray it once on your head not close to your hair but kinda far and it makes it shine and it really brings out the blonde. I hope i helped hun.

Heres some shampoos

john frieda's blonde range is good brings out all the tones and keeps highlights


Vivid Color Golden Blonde Shampoo

Shikai Color Reflect Gold Shampoo


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i have a question i was wondering what u can wear to look more preppy please i need help asap and also how to act it!! and i need anything possible that has to do with being preppy thankyou so much in advance!!!

Abercrombie, Hollister, American Eagle, Coach, Gucci, Prada...etc. Skirts, polos, jeans with holes, accessories, high heels or cute shoes, french manicures, curled or sometimes cute straight hair...you get the picture. Preppy isn't really an "act" its more of..the style of clothing or atire you wear. Be bubbly and fun and smart. hope i helped hun.

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I have this beautiful dress for holloween but i dont know what to be. it is a floor length dress and it strapless on it is pink with a brown sash. i dont want to be anything scary either.

You could be miss america thats always cute. Hope i helped hun

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I was just wondering how to get into modeling for like local stores that sell clothes and stuff. anyone know?

lol i modeled for fashion bug it was really fun. Ok so you go up to the counter and ask if they do fashion shows for the store or how you can sign up to become a model. Sometimes people come and you can get noticed. Hope I helped hun!

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OK, I wasn't exactly sure where to put this, but, I just have a quick question. I work in food service, so, I have to have my hair up the whole time. Well, tomorrow I have somewhere to go right after work, so, I will basically be doing the "quick pick me upper" thing in the bathroom before I get off. I was just wandering, how can I get rid of my pony tail bump fast before I even leave work? It is a hugh bump that I can't just brush down. Any ideas? Thanks.

when you put your hair up dont put it back tight. put the ponytail in so its not sufficating your hair..that way it will be loose around the hair and wont let it cause that bump.after that brush it and put spray or sterum in it that will help relax is. hope ihelped

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Ok heres the deal, my sister ALWAYS does my hair for all my dances but shes gonna be on her honeymoon the week of homecoming. I'm going to a salon and getting my hair done. does anyone have any sites that has good hairstyles??

go on google..i always get my ideas for my hair on there go to pictures and type in cute updo's or homecoming updo's...etc hope i helped!

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Hey there, my hair is about two inches below my shoulders, medium thickness, layers, and wavy.

I want to get it super straight, at home, it'll be REALLY straight, then by the time I get to school the ends have all curled up and its frizzy. I've tried mousse, creams, and hair spray.

Any other tips on keeping it really straight?

Shampoo. Have you tried Paul Mitchell Straightening Serum and shampoo? O-M-G it works AMAZING it seriously smooths it, straightens it, and after awhile your hair is more controlled. The other products by paul mitchell work well too. Try the shampoo if that doesn't work then let me know i have more tips.Hope i helped!

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