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Thinking about suicide? Think about this
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out.
Fine--but before you kill yourself consider these facts:
Suicide is not usually successful.
You think you know a guaranteed way?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both his arms are gone.
What about jumping?
Ask John. He used to be intelligent , with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leapt from a building. Now, he's brain- damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he KNOWS he used to be normal.
What about pills?
Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun?
Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.
You might too.
But...
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job- -but SOMEONE has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned?
Your father?
Your mother?
Your wife?
Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will NEVER completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the 4 year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight, and he may do it ten years from now.
You DO have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend.
Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital.
Call the police.
They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it?
Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later.
And we'll work with whatever you have left.
I love you all LOTS
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im going shopping tomorrow and i want to go to deb because i heard that it had some pretty cheap cloths there. do they have jeans below the waist at deb? if so, how much are they? please help. (link)
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Yes it is true and they are about 15-29 $
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hey, i'm 15 years old, and i really want to dress like ashlee simpson. i just like her style. if anyone could maybe give me some links to clothes that she might wear or something? i'll rate. (link)
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I know she gets some clothes aeropastal becuz she wears shirts soem tomes that say aeropastal on them lol and abercrombia I think thats how you spell it
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I don't have a lot of money and I'm very small, so where can I get nice kids clothes. (Pant size- 10 or 12. Shirt size 10/12 or 14/16.) Thanks a lot and please don't say K-mart :/. (link)
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goodies they always have sales on tuesday and thursdays hope I helped
Megan
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When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?
thanks aton! (link)
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I put it on the bottom and I use pencil and there are allot of good brands but I use marykay it stays one all day until you wash it off just dont buy the really cheap kind at wal mart IT SUCKS
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does anyone know where to get jeans that are a little below ur waist and are about $15-30? someone please help and i may rate you a 5! (link)
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well goodies have some good jeans and they are about 15 some times 20 but they have really good sales on tuesdays and I think sunday but I'm not sure
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how do u shrink a shirt...please help! (link)
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wash it in hot water then dry it in the dryer. it will shrink about 1-2 sizes smallers
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my friend and i are gonna dye our hair with that non permanent stuff just for fun. OUr problem is we dont knwo what to do about our eyebrows. IS their any kind of non permanent dye for your eyebrows? or what do you suggest? (link)
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YOu can use the same dye you use for your hair too but read the instruction thing on the back of the box soem can be harmful for your eyebrows
hope I helped
Megan
p.s. hope you have fun dyeing your hair and hope you look good lol;)
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I have a problem with my clothes. I don't mind the way I dress or anything...I just feel I need to change something..add more style to me. I usually wear jeans, skateboarding shoes, hoodies and fitted tees/layeredtees, what can I ADD to this to make my clothes more......exciting? Lots of tips would be great, and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what. (link)
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Well the way you described your self is kind of the way I dress just add some cool jelery not nice just cool lol maybe paint you nails dark colors like purple or blue or green.
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I have darkish olive tan skin and really...I mean REALLY dark dark brown hair. But I want to change the color. I was thinking along the lines of WHITE blonde...I am dessparate for help! I rate! Thankx! (link)
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WEll white blonde will look so good if you have a great body and I think that a tan body like you said will look good with sandy brown hair with blonde high lights but they way you descriped yourself I think white Blonde will be good for you
HOped I hlped
Megan
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2. I want my braces to not stand out so much (right now I have hot pink rubberbands) and I was thinking about getting either clear or white rubberbands. But I heard that the white rubberbands make your teeth look yellow. And I heard that the clear rubberbands turn the color of whatever food you eat. Is this true?? Does anybody have clear or white rubberbands that could give me some advice?? Help!! Thanks!! (link)
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It is true about the white but I never heard about the clear but blue green and black make your teeth look really white and really bright but light colors look good too
hoped I helped
Megan
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I really love the laid-back, hippieish, original style of Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen...
Does anyone know where to get clothes that look alot like theirs for not too much money...I'm really not into spending 200 dollars on a teeshirt:-P (link)
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Wal-mart has them but I dont know if they will fit you there in the kids section but I never saw you before so you might be that size and they also get allot of there clothes from areopastale
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Hi.
If I don't wash my hair every night then my hair gets and looks so oily.I usually do wash my hair everynight but every once in a while i don't have time. Does anyone know any products that i could use to make my hair less oily or anything i can use so it doesnt look oily....please.
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They really dont have any products buy some one told me that if you put baby powder in your hair not allot but a little it will make the oil dry up and it works to
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does braces hurt when they tighten them and o yeah what are some good colors for them 2 and well not being racsit but i need some people who wear braces to tell but if anybody elese wants to answer feel free. (link)
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Well it hurts a little but not as bad as you first get them and some good colors are
red and blue
purple and green
pink and blue
green and pink
yellow and blue
orange and blue
green and blue
Megan
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So I'm just wondering...if you want to be a model and you are a girl, what are some basic requirements that most agencies want? (link)
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THey like the women to be skinny and smooth skin and to have a great body
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hey, well i am a 16 yr old girl. 2 years ago i was in a bad car accident and fell into a coma. i was in it for 2 years and i woke up a week ago. well, i am kinda out, and well i was wondering, what kind of stuff is in? stores, music, fashion, hair and stuff like that. i am kinda confused! thx! (link)
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Well lots of different things are in any punk music or rap fashion is easy to me just stuff like Aeropastal clothes any thing there. Hair is a different story I mean differnt things for different people
hoped I helped
Megan
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I'm getting a haircut and I'm not sure what kind to get. I have dirty blonde hair to my shoulders. Its straight and really plain. No bangs. Any ideas?!?!?! I rate good if u give me a real answer!!! thanks a bunch!!
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Well I like long liars The teen vogue magazines have allot of really cute hair styles so get one of those and look at them
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hey i really need help my hair is about 4 inches past my shoulders and the color of ashley olsens blonde hair and i have green eys and im 5'9 i need style ideas for my hair pleaze ill rate u good! (link)
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I like the body perm but if you dont want a perm you can still do that style and you can get it wave thats pretty for blondes
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does anyone know where i can buy or find instructions on making a duct tape messenger bag? i really really really want one. o and please dont tell me to try google :/ thanks to anyone who can help (link)
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I see them all the time at like Lowes or a gas station and one time at dollor store
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How do i get rid of zits FAST! im already doin the daily face wash and the hot water thing... but whats the best clenser to use that works really fast? Plz help, and to those who do... thank you som much! (i rate) (link)
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This might seem crazy but put toothpsat on it over night and sleep in it
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