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MY mom is like super emotional and my dad is horrible to her. He yells and screams at me and her. I have nightmares about him and I'm like really scared of him. please give me some advice, he is very mean to us. One time I ate an apple that he told my mom not to touch and I didn't know it was his but he like screamed at my mom and all. Then he went to slap her so I told him it was me. I got a big beaten. Help! (link)
ok...well i hate to break it to you but your dad is abousing you and your mom and you need to tell someone. When my dad hit me I called my mom and the next day i was on a plane home. You need to tell someone before it gets a lot worse. I know it is scary...but in the end you will be glad that you did it. trust me...i was glad I told my mom. hoped I help.


Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and I think my 13 year old cousin tiffany might have anorexia and iam really worried.my cousin tiffany weighs 100lbs and is only 5 foot tall and thinks she's fat all of her family including myself try to tell her she's not fat,but she dosn't listen right now she's going on a diet in which she only eats one meal a day and iam really worried is this crash dieting and these meals are mabey like a bowl of soup or something is she anorexic?please help me.my cousin and I are like sisters even if she is only 13 and iam 17 age dosn't matter how do I get her help? (link)
ok if i was you I would confrout her. tell what you think. I think that she might be anorexia. If she is she needs to get help. You should tell her mom and dad. tell her that you are scard and worry for her. Just confrount her. hope i helped.


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my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself... (link)
ok not to be mean but i think that you overreacting...alot. a lot of people watch porn, and masterbat. It is normal. Whatever you do not kill yourself, just because your embarrest cuz ur mom caught you. Thinks are going to be a little werid between you two for a while but after some time I think you and your mom will get over it. hoped i helped.


Well my brothers girlfriend is like, a total whore. And I'm not just saying that. I have a really strong hunch that she also likes my brothers best friend. (Whom I like, but that means nothing.) The other day, he was here, and she came over, even though my brother was sleeping. Then she went out to get ice cream with him, and didn't ask my brother to go. THEN, she asked him to visit her when she goes on vacation, and not my brother. I realize that this shouldn't be any of my business, but I find it ridiculous that he's still with her when she's already cheated on him once. Plus, my older brother who's 9 years older than me told me that he heard some stuff about her from some people that he didn't like too much, and he'd have to have a talk with the other brother. I know they must have had that talk by now, and I know that he looks up to him, but they still haven't broken up. Even if she is on vacation. Really, I just don't know what to do. I need help. I hate the girl and I don't want to kill her, so I need ways to:

1) Not kill her.
2) Get my brother to break up with her.


Once a cheater always a cheater. (link)
if i was you i would talk to my brother, ask him why he is still with her, and bring up the cheating, like you said once a cheater always a cheater. hoped i help!!


I've caught my dad in porn and sex chat rooms so many times. Everytime he talks to me its not the same anymore, we used to be sooo close and now i cant even look him straight in the eye anymore. Hes always out of the house, and my mom works at nightt. I went to his work one day he wasnt there, and then a lot of people called the house asking for him. When he got home I asked him where he was at, he said golfing in the morning with the hugest smerk ever it disgusted me and i wanted to just cry. Then i was like what about later he said he was at work. But those people that called me at like 5pm said he wasnt there. Then he always locks his computer, and one day i caught him using a web cam, then i found lub. and a vibrator. He gets home so late on the nights my mom works. What i want to know is what should i do, cause for all i know he's just a guy looking at porn. (link)
ok not to be mean or anything but i think he MIGHT be cheating. if i was you i was ask him stight up. he will most likly say no, but if you really think he is cheating on your mom then you have 2 choices

1) do nothing about it
2) find proof that he is cheating.
it won't be easy. but if you really want to no if he is or not when he is not looking see who he has called on hs cell and see who has called him. see how many times a day a woman calls for him that is not ur mom. and stuff liked that. hoped i hepled.


Hey,my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is ruining my life I know that she is 88 years old,but I don't think this is an excuse for what she is doing to me and the rest of my family.my granny tells me that iam to fat for my own good and talks really bad about my mom and my sisters.on my 17th b-day she made me cry becouse she told me that my mom didn't love me or care about me.I know it's not true,but it still bothered me that my granny would say something like that to me her youngest granddaughter.my 36 year old cousin helped me feel better when my granny made me cry.my granny also tells my aunt how to do things in her own house even though she is 68 years old and she stands over my couse like a hawlk while she folds dirty clothes.If I don't make my bed or fold my dirty clothes she yells at me what should I do.I have to deal with this every weekend all weekend and Iam fed up with her nonesince what should I do? (link)
i would say something. Don't yell at her and don't say it in a mean way. just clamly talk to her. tell her that she is hurting you and she has no right doing that to you. Ask her what you ever did to her. that should get her attention. then just go from there. hoped i helped!


well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do



Help me!!! (link)
I know how you feel when my parents got divorced my dad used me to meet woman...it pissed me off so much. So what i did is that i told my dad that if he wouldn't stop useing me to meet woman then the next time i would as rude as i could. he didn't belive and the next time he did i was so rude. then my dad stoped using me to meet woman. i would try that if i was you. hoped i helped


i hate my mom. we fight constantly. and she bugs the crap out of me. she makes me take ADD pills so i dont eat as much. and i need them to help me pay attention in school. w/e not really. anyway i was like why shud i take them in the summer and she is like i think it helps ease out your temperment. which just makes me more mad. and then i was like wat if i dont take them. and she is like i think you will gain 5 pounds if you stop taking them in the summer and get headaches. also i like peanut butter. i hav peanut butter sandwiches for lunch like every day well not everyday but enough tht we need it. and then we ran out of peanut butter and i asked my mom if she cud buy some cause she wuz going shopping and she was like y dont we take a break from peanut butter we r going thru it too fast. she also grounds me for the dumbest reasons.
i get grounded like all the time. like if i get in a fight with my bro or her or didnt do something for her like mop the floor cuase i forgot or didnt hav time.

she is so annoying plz help. and also do any of u think my mom is acting normal? cause i think she is fucking BITCH!!!!!


help me i rate 5's. (link)
omg i no what u mean, my mom blames me 4 everything that goes wrong in her in life. What i do is i try to stay out of her way, and least much as i can. I only talk to her if i have to. try that. hoped i help.


okay i know i havent said this before but i've been thinking about it a lot and i guess i just want some opinions or something.

so i've never lived with my parents...most kids who dont or something their parents arent very close by and if so not REALLY close. (just what i've heard about) anyway...i live with my grandmother and believe me i love her and all but i guess it bothers me how my parents dont have me living with then when they are the next house over...also they are still my legal guardians. which does not make sense to me because if my grandmother grew me up and everything why do my parents get to decide what i do i mean they dont even know anything about me my. yeah sure they buy me things and when i was little and sick my mom would come over but i never even spent one holiday at their house and im 13...weird? or no...
(ps: i've probably slept at their house 10 times in my whole life...if that)
~thanks - Rosemarie (link)
i would say it is a little werid. If they live next door to you then I think they should let you live with them. I think if you want to live with them, then you should talk to them, and your grandma. That is what i would do. Hope i helped.


i really cant stand my sister. like anytime she says anything, i like want to kill her. she gets on my last nerves, and its at the point that i cant even be in the same room. shes yougner than me, and thinks shes innocent, but she bugs the hell out of me, and i really cant take it. any suggestions to like get her less annoying (there is ab-suh-lutely NO way im going to a therapist) (link)
ok well i what i do when my rother is being annoying is i stay away from from, or i go to a friends house.


First off, i appreciate anyone who can answer this. second, this is going to be somewhat long but here goes nothing:
On saturday my mom told me my boyfriend could come over. she wasn't home for 30 minutes and he came over during that time which she said she was fine with as long as we don't go upstairs to my room. But we went up there. while we were up there we had sex for the first time and while we were doing it, she came home. so we raced downstairs and acted like nothing happened. and she didn't suspect one thing at all. then the next day *sunday*, one of my friends called me and asked if i had sex with my boyfreind. i told her yes along with the story. while i was telling the story my mom picked up the other phone line and heard EVERYTHING. she knows now and is calling me a slut, and trash. now she is telling me i am not allowed to see my boyfriend ever again and if he steps foot into this house she will call the police because he's 18 i'm 16 and still a minor. so i guess she could have him arrested for him having sex with a minor.
i still want to continue to see my boyfriend but now we are going to have to sneak around. i know that isn't right but that's the only way we can see each other. any advice on what i can do to get my mom to let me see him without her freaking out and calling me a slut??? (link)
well here's the thing....i get why your mom is mad at you. you can't blame her. If i was you i would ask your mom if the ONLY way he could come over to your house is she was there the whole time he was there. it sounds lame i know but is is better then nothing.what my friend did was she sneeks over to his house while her mom and dad are sleeping. *hint* just remember if your gonna keep having sex with him do not come home pregant.




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