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i've been having a lot of family problems lately. my dad is pushing me to get a second job and i don't want to, he's taken my phone and my drivers license away already. i have never cried myself to sleep for a long time but over the course of february i've been crying almost every night now. and the other day i was so angry and upset that i burned my leg with a steaming hot rod. to let all my fustration out... does anyone know if that will leave any long lasting/ noticable marks? and was i wrong to do it and i was just over reacting? i don't know what to do i'm just not good enough for anyone anymore. and everything that i do wrong now i get yelled at and blamed for everything even if it's not my fault. and i feel that i can't talk to my friends about it becase it might seem really stupid. but i'm scared and i need help. (link)
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Hey, first of all did your dad take away your phone and your liscense because he wants you to get a second job or for another reason? And why do you need to get another job? Thats too much work for someone to handle, especially if you are feeling so overly stressed out. Burning yourself is VERY bad and yes it will leave a mark. Hurting yourself is never good and it can get addicting. You should find a close friend to tell. If they are really a good friend then they will understand and not think its stupid. You are good enough, but you need to believe that first. If someone blames you for something that isn't your fault, then call them out and let them know they are blaming the wrong person. If you need anything else just write to me -helen
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Well on October 11 it has been a year since my grandpa passed away and i am not ready for it at all but i am really scared right now because my grandma feel the other day and broke her hip and nows she in intensive care and they found fluid on her lungs and my grandma said she cant deal with it but i am really not yet ready for her to go i love her and would miss her so much so please everyone pray for her and my Question is how do i deal with this pain cause i have lost 99% of my friends this year?? What should i do??
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i know you probably hate i when people say they are sorry they understand because they dont .. but im sorry and i do understand .. this year my nono had knee surgery and my noni is at a nursing home inches away from death .. grandparents are the people that you figure will always be there no matter what and it sucks when you come to terms with reality. you need to tell her that you love her and let her know how much of an influence she has been to you let her know how you feel. convince her that even if she thinks she cant deal with it you know that she can.
-hope i helped =] keep me posted -helen
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