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Well on October 11 it has been a year since my grandpa passed away and i am not ready for it at all but i am really scared right now because my grandma feel the other day and broke her hip and nows she in intensive care and they found fluid on her lungs and my grandma said she cant deal with it but i am really not yet ready for her to go i love her and would miss her so much so please everyone pray for her and my Question is how do i deal with this pain cause i have lost 99% of my friends this year?? What should i do??
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i know you probably hate i when people say they are sorry they understand because they dont .. but im sorry and i do understand .. this year my nono had knee surgery and my noni is at a nursing home inches away from death .. grandparents are the people that you figure will always be there no matter what and it sucks when you come to terms with reality. you need to tell her that you love her and let her know how much of an influence she has been to you let her know how you feel. convince her that even if she thinks she cant deal with it you know that she can.
-hope i helped =] keep me posted -helen
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I am sorry for your loss, and for your grandma's condition. It is scary to lose people we love. Why did you lose friends this year? Maybe a move? You need to make new friends, and keep in touch with the old ones if possible. Everyone needs friends, especially during rough times. Find a relative or even a teacher to talk to if no one else is available at the moment. Make sure to express all your feelings, and not bottle them up. Writing about this could be a good thing for you. Love & Prayers for Gram.
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Sweetie, there is nothing I can do or say that will take the pain away from losing your grandpa and possibly losing your grandpa..but I'll try my best.
Remember all the good times you've had together and the good times you can look forward to with your grandpa [possibly grandma] living within you. Knowing they are always there will ease the pain a bit and bring a sense of comfort. Know that if your grandma does pass away, she is in a better place where she is happier and doesn't hurt anymore. But the best thing is to pray every day, and God will always be looking out for you. There is always a good reason for everything that happens even though it might not be the happiest thing ever.
My prayers are with you and your grandma sweetie;; xx
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