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I have just found out that my father is cheating on my mother.
This isn't the first time.
My mom came very close to catching him but things were okay after some time and now its happening again.
I was going to use the phone,and when I turned it on,I heard my dad saying the groses thing[if you know what I mean]
I can't believe it!!
My moms been wanting to have another baby for like 5years and now my dads cheating.
I can't stop shaking.
After what happened the last time I know I CANNOT tell my mom.
But what do I do,I can't let this go.
See,when I was a few days old as a baby the women who gave birth to me abandoned my and my dad.When I was 3 my dad married my mom[step mom]and she's been there for me as a mother ever since.
If she found out she'd probrably take my little sister[shes 6yers old]and leave.Then I once again won't have a mother anymore.And I can't let that happen.
So what do I do?
Broken Record right here.
but talk to ur father and tell him you think this- and that ur pretty sure he is cheating. and see what he says and if he denies it be like "well just think if you are and Mom finds out she's gunna leave hence last time, and I wont have my Mom or my little sister... and I was just wondering because I love them and you. And I know that you've learned."
Dont yell at him! play the guilt trip.. be the loving daughter he always has.. =]
hope i helped.
and i hope everything works out. and if doesnt the way you hope just now everything happens for a reason...
My little neice "Sally" well call her, is turning eigh next staurday. Great! But me and my bff are in charge in planning the activities (its a sleepover) But Sallys being really bossy about everything and she "wants an enterance" and shes entering and dancing to that song 'fabulous' from HSM2. Shes acting like one of those girls on "My Super Sweet Sixteen". She really thinks shes hot stuff. "I want this and that NOW!" Its so crazy and selfish its actually funny. Me and my bff are doing this out of the kindness of our hearts. Any ideas on how to please Sally?
Threaten.. not death but if she's being really demanding and if your doing this out of the kindness of your hearts then tell her she's going to like what you give her.. and if not tuff shit.
ok, im 14/f.
my parnets are racist and always have been. my sis and i are the only ones out of 6 people in our family that dates out of our race. my ? is how can i get my mom into getting to know my black bf???? holla at ya snowbunny lata/./.
abby aka Az
Ok, i know its hard growing up in a racist family but there not ganna change there opinion on diffrent colors. Im glad your not racist but just tell them that he makes you happy and they should understand because they love you
I hat my mom.She wants me to get new friends because she thinks that all of my friends are horrible (ugh i HATE her)so I wanted to go somewhere with A friend and she won't let me go b/c there is gonna be drinking but i see it all the time...even my dad drinks she is so stupid she alwayts thinks that she is making the Best disision.So my question here is how can i get her to let me go places????
she is making the best desions...i mean shes thinking of your future...so you need to respect her and telling people that you hate her isnt the way to do so.What would you do if you get in a fight with her tell her you hate her then she dies before you can tell her your sorry..Drinking when your how old is illegal if your not over the age of 21 being in the same house with beer and you have posession...what would schools or collages say to a kid with posession...She is really thinking ahead where your like thats in a billion years only now counts get good grades do your work everything i know it may seem weird cause when my family told it to me i was shocked but edication is first not friends so dont go to that party cause it is illegal!!!
hope i helped
katie
My mom said that if I live with her while I'm in college, I'm going to have to pay her $300 a month on rent. When my mom told me that, I was shocked. Come on, I can pay less than that to share an apartment with one of my friends. Who could do that to their child right out of high school? She lived with my grandparents free of charge while she went to college. They even bought her a car. She isn't doing this because we're poor, because we aren't.
Anywho, is my mom acting like every other mom or is she just being really selfish? She KNOWS that the job I have doesn't pay much.
She's getting you ready for the real world im sorry but 300 is really cheep a apartment alone is now maybe 1000 so be thankfull she wants you to know that you need to learn how to have a budgetits like 300 for room and board.which is food so what she is doind is telling you that when you fall in the real world that you dont have pillows to fall on you fall on sharp edges so shes showing you how to put your own pillows down shes giving you a great life lession and you dont even know.While you are living woth your mother save up money for a car or apartment when your out of collage
hope i helped
katie
tootsierollsweet
Hopes it all works out
And remember if you pout your own pillows down the fall wont hurt to much
On July 25th my mom and my step dad will be leaving for iraq for a year and a half. My dad and my step mom are now going thru a divorce. My dad is moving us from waterford to clarkston. My dad had 2 kids with my mom, me and my brother. he also has to kids with my step mom, my younger sister and brother. Now he has to pay child support along with bills, house payments and gas money. This forces him to go back to his old job where he has gotten 3 surgerys in the past 2 years because of it. i have the option of west bloomfield or clarkston schools bcuz i can go under either adress depending on what i choose. Im just not sure were i should go. I know it would be so much easier if i went to clarkston and im VERY sick of my friends trying to guilt me into going to wst bloomfield. plus ill only be going to clarkston for two years, ill be ack with my friends in 11th and 12th grade. SO i gues im saying, what do you think i should do, what would be easier? I really would appreciate if you guys could help me.
Go to the new school meet new people make new friends theres no harm but keep in touch with your other friends they could come in handy haha well and if you still cant decide think which one would be better fallow your heart.
no one cna run your life but you
Hey,my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is ruining my life I know that she is 88 years old,but I don't think this is an excuse for what she is doing to me and the rest of my family.my granny tells me that iam to fat for my own good and talks really bad about my mom and my sisters.on my 17th b-day she made me cry becouse she told me that my mom didn't love me or care about me.I know it's not true,but it still bothered me that my granny would say something like that to me her youngest granddaughter.my 36 year old cousin helped me feel better when my granny made me cry.my granny also tells my aunt how to do things in her own house even though she is 68 years old and she stands over my couse like a hawlk while she folds dirty clothes.If I don't make my bed or fold my dirty clothes she yells at me what should I do.I have to deal with this every weekend all weekend and Iam fed up with her nonesince what should I do?
Tell her how you feel and i know that it most be completly insane with her i know that you most love her but things she does can get on your nerves.Tell her nicely "that if your mom doesnt tell me to fold close or clean this or do that i dont have to unless i feel the need to so untill you become my mom which will never happen dont tell me what to do.You breack my heart telling me that my mom doesnt love me or care about me cause i know that she would do anything for me where do you get off talking bad about my family ...." and if you wanna add more or take things out its ok im only trying to cover some of the basses that you told me you cant stand about what she says....
i really do hope that you solve the issue that is hurting you.
Hope i helped
Katie->
MY grandma's in a nursing home...more like a home for people who are aged or sick and don't have any one to help see them and stuff. Today wen I went to see her she was crying a bit and I'm really worried. She got a stroke and it's really difficult to understand if she really likes it or not because wen we ask if she's comfy she always says yes and we can't go ask the nurses cause of course they will say yes or something. Also as I said before I think my uncle just wants her to get out of the house so he can do what he wants since the money is on his name! I don't want him spend out the money and make us poor and I don't want my grandma to die or be unhappy. I've told my aunt away and she said she'll come soon and so I'm waitin until she comes....what should i do for the while? How do I let her feel more comfortable since my uncle won't allow me to move her...n how can i get my uncle to have a heart for his own mother!?
ur uncle is a cool guy he is waiten for that old bitch to die so he can by a boat and as you wait for your aunt you can give ur uncle head now i hope that old ass bitch dies so you can stop written these stupid ass things
my mom beats me up all the time...she has problems with my dad and takes them out on me!!..when im sleeping sometimesi see her put her hands round my throat and try to choce me ..i love her so i dont want her to go to jail...what do i do??
omg can i report this
my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!!
well yes i would deffenatly call it abuse and yes i think you should do something about him no one has the right to touch you do somthing call the cops the next time he does something like that tell the cops you father is out of control and they come .then if they make you goto a guidence consler say i love my father but he needs to stop hurting me im getting to scared to go home .........................or somthing like that
take care of yourself !
I'm married, and my husband and I rent a house from my parents. I'm 20, and my husband is 21. They've been pretty generous by offering us the house over other renters, and giving us a lower rent. They insist of holding a copy of the house key for emergencies, which is fine with me.
Here's the problem. Lately, they've been letting themselves in without knocking. After my husband and I come home from work and put the baby in bed, we tend to sit around...not completely clothed. More than once now, they've caught us like this; once just walking around naked and twice being intimate.
But maybe worse, they let themselves in when we're not home. I don't think they mean any harm, but they come in, look around, borrow our stuff, and clean.
I'm afraid that they'll find something they don't like and kick us out. I feel that we're adults, and we pay rent, so we deserve some privacy. Am I right that we should have privacy? If so, how should I go about talking to my parents? I don't want to make them feel bad, since I think they're just trying to help.
ok not to make them not to feel bad just tell the "mom ,dad me and my husband need a little privacy we dont mind you coming to viste but could you knock .i dont want you to gte mad but i think i take care of the kid and the house pay the rent i can take care of myself so come when you want but please just knock im sure we'll be home and let you in but if were not home come in and write a note to call you so i can tell you were home.dont clean the house or do anything just write a note i think this will work fine ok ".
hope i helped!
tootsierollsweet999
.:katie:. :)xxoo
i have been trying for a baby for 3 years now and still nothing has happend. i have had a misscarriage last xmas would that be the problem.
no just keep trying to have a merical
i am just wondering on where i should go for a body check up for trying for a baby
the hostpital
my dad moved out of my house but my parents are still married. my dad has a girlfriend. he dosent think we know but we do. he always promised me he would move back home but he hasnt and a few days ago he called me saying that hs not moving backhome. he told me and my sister it was bc of my mom and how shes changed. he has gone to a divorce lawyer of whatever theyre called. my dog has a brin problem like he was born that way so he does stupid things and he cant help it. he chases his shadow and pases 24/7, literally. my dads a vet and said he mat need brain surgerey or be put to sleep so i hae been asking for a pug for like 3 months straight and my dad keeps saying no. right after he called and told me hes not moving home he said "you know, i was thinking that we should get another dog to keep him (my dog) occupied and so he has a friend. were gonna get a pug. " he is like trying to beibe me so im not mad at him !!!!!!!!! also my mom cries a lot and is so upset. my sister dosent cry when she s upset, she just holds it all in and flips out and goes to her friends houses anddosent come home for a couple of days. what should i do? my family is falling apart. omg and i forgot to say something. i went far away last week with camp from tues to fri and my mom went to the spa with her friends from tues to thurs. while we were gone my dad stayed at out house with our dog and my sister. people told me mom that my dad ahd another woman in my house. what shuold i do?! its his girlfriend. please gimme advice,..PLEASE!
im sorry but you should tell your mother that hes cheeting your better with out him im sorry but its the right thing and it would be what i would do
if you ever want to talk i will be able to im not trying to be strange but my friends went threw the same thing
im treibly sorry and i wish the best