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My parents are making me go back to counciling again! UGH! NO. I went before and the counciler was USELESS and i'm going back to the same one. I hate going, councilers are POINTLESS especially when you don't want help and I honestly think there is nothing she can do. My parents are making me go because I fight with them too much and I'm not as perfect as my brother and they hate that and me. Yeah, well, now i have to go back and I have to miss social studies every Thursday. People WILL catch on. Theyll ask me where ive been, like before when i used to go, and I don't kno what to tell them! i cant say i had a dr's appintmet, EVERY THURSDAY. Plus, i'm going to end up failing that class! i havea C already, so if i miss class it'll just get worse. MY MOM TOLD ME THAT IM GOING BACK IN FRONT OF KIDS AT MY SCHOOL AND MY TEACHER. WHat a bitch.
how can I prove to my parents that she doesn't do jackshit and its a waste of money?
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Make a compromise witht them. lol Tell them that you'll go to counceling only AFTER school because it's too embaressing and you care about school! Hope i helped1 xox Ariella
OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!!
okay if you love your mom then go live with your dad for a while and try something new. because to tell you the truth i fight with my mom a hell of a lot(even though i LOVe her and she LOVEs me back..lol we talk about EVERYTHING..lol its complicated) but i cant move in with my dad because i dont really concider mysaelf as having one. lol dont ask. anyways good luck hope you straighten things out! xox Ari
my mom and dad have basically failed in bringing up a good family there idea of a good family has screwed with our heads. none of us plan on being mormon (my parents religion) my brothers shoplift do drugs drink. my sister has a kid and a boyfriend who used to beat her. my little sis. is spoiled and i am worried about her. i smoke drink and am just screwed up in the head. my parents try so hard to keep us together and happy but they don't get that they can't do anything anymore so they might as well give up. how can i get away from there useless attempts to make me the good kid that doesn't do anything wrong when i do and i can't stop myself? also how can i stop my brothers and sisters from reminding me i am the last chance? it makes me feel guilty.
iitsz not ur job to "Make ur family qood" but ifu y taht its all ur moma nd dad's fault then try and make and effort to behave .
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hey, i'm 15 and live with a brotehr and a mom and dad. well i get in fights with my brother and parents alot but they end up in fist fights. When me and my brotehr fight, it is really bad, and i end up being the one getting hurt the worst (he's 18) and i am the one that gets in trouble and he gets in none. but me and my mom get in major fights. she hits me a lot and kicks me and hits me with just random things. i dont know what to do about it. but of course i fight back, cause who wouldnt even tho its my mom. and my dad sees it alot but he doesnt help me to get her away. I have been hit so many times and even given a black eye by my family. i dont know what to do. i have called dfacs, but they didnt do anything and the police have been called out to my hosue too. but nothing seems to work. and there are fights about everything and it ends up with me in the middle of it and in a bunch of trouble for htings i had nothing to do with! i need serious help before something major happens! please... i hope someone out there can help me!
omq . i know a girl who hasz the same story as you and lemme tell you somethinq u should take you and your family to a psycologist and try it out , try everythinq before even thinkinq about fister bcuusz my friend (who;'s also ym cousin) was beaten by her mom and called foster care and ii havent seen her for a while now . just trsut me iits not a good life to live . just think about doing this..next time u sence a fight coming lock yourself into a room and put the music on loud or call a friend . hope i helped i reeeally care about how u turn out. qood luck
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