Hello ! My name is Kim. I am 29 yrs. old straight female, I have 3 kids and a boyfriend, I have been through quite a bit at my age and have alot of life experience. I love giving advice and getting it. You name it I've probably been through it. I am a very caring and understanding person. If your a teen in trouble, if your man is cheating on you, if you've been hurt emotionally, if you're a single divorced mom, I feel your pain. Nothing bad lasts forever.Always remember that.If you want a face to go with the advice look me up on myspace at kimberly7777@hotmail.com...
Gender: Female
Location: Cleveland
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Age: 29
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I figured out that I'm a lesbian. and i'm so afraid to tell my mom cause I'm afraid that she will hate me. What do I do? (link)
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I am a 29 yr old mom of girls ages 10 and 9. I have always told myself that if they are bisexual or lesbian i will accept them no matter what and will be fine wtih their relationships. As long as their significant other treats them and me with respect and love that is all that i want for my daughters.I wish that all mothers could have my free thinking. Unfortunately that is not the case, I agree with fishing the idea around with her for a while rather than coming straight out.Keep your relationships low key, just let her think you are too shy to date guys for now and have sleepovers maybe??? You have to feel the situation out for now... if she loves you there wont be any love lost..
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my mom and older brother constantly tell me how i was a mistake and how i was the worst one and im only here because the condom broke. my mom even said if there was a chance to save my life, and the 2 dogs life, she'd save the dogs. my brother is constantly calling me names, ugly, etc. and when i was younger he used to hit me when my mom went to work. not like little hits, like punching. now he just verbally abuses me. my real dad isnt in my life, the memory of him is fading in my mind considering i only saw him one time. my stepdad is extremely lazy and is annying. i used to just accept what they said to me, and how my brother hit me but i cant anymore. i fight back-ish. i'd rather have my mom hit me than talk to me like that. i kinda edge her on to. such as her: "dont get that attitude with me, i'll back hand you across the face." so i just say "do it". she has a couple times.
everytime i hear my friends talking about how mean they're parents are by calling her "weird", but she really is weird. so im thinking "shut up." or "ohh. howww horrible" and its annoying.
after my mom usually says mean things to me and same with my brother i got in my room and cry secretly and listen to music. then like i think about everything and my wrists feel extremely weird like they are screaming "CUT ME" but i dont. i usually hurt myself some other way to release everything, but something that doesnt scar, like scratching, hitting myself, i just cant help it.
is it bad/mean how i cant stand my mom, and brother? and is it like bad for me to hurt myself other ways to relieve everything?
i cant talk to my mom about it, i dont talk to her at all about anything. same with the rest of my family. and its not like im a horrible person. my family doesnt really even know me, like at all besides facts like birthday, etc. and i get really good grades and try my hardest, im not doing drugs or anything or even in a bad crowd.
i mean like, do u blame me?
sry it was long, ANYTHING could help. (link)
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Oh my god i was so you as i was growing up. there were 5 kids and i was labeled the black sheep. the retard, the idiot, ugly, moron. you name it. my mother also hit me.On a daily basis. there were wrestling matches in the living room with my brothers and sisters beating me up. When I would cry, she would call me a wally whiner whatever that is. Turns out she was constantly drunk. Eventually my way out was attempting suicide. I went to school counselors for help and the dumbasses would call my mother. when i got home she would beat the hell out of me. It is a proven fact that verbal abuse leads to physical. Please go to the police yourself. they will get you in a new home be it with a relative or a caring foster family. Your life will get better. Now I have 3 beautiful kids and a wonderful fiance. And there isnt anywhere we go where people dont walk up and tell me Im beautiful, guess mom was drunk. now shes a withered old bag. charma does exist. good luck sweetie. write me if you need to. kimberly7777@hotmail.com.
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I'm in a bit of an awkward possition. My girlfriend and I have recently been doing some exploration with our bodies and have stopped using condoms all together. A few days ago I found out that she wants to have children and that she doesnt want to wait till we're out of high school. I've also heard rumors from my friends that she's planning something. I want to know if, well, its alright to have children at a young age. (link)
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Unless you have a great job and your own home in a nice neighborhood and a fat bank account do not do it. Your parents will be raising these kids, 10 years down the road you will wish you had been able to party with friends, travel, and just plain have freedom. Are you ready to wake up every 2 hours to a screaming baby? Are you ready to pay up to $500 a month for child care,can you stand the thought of your parents having to bear the burden of helping to care for this little one.It costs on average $7000 per year to raise a child and that is on the low end. You will have to work full time and go to school.Please Think. You cant give this child a good life at such a young age. And as for your girlfriend she is trying to trap you and is using another human life to do it !! Put the condoms back on!!!Smile..Do not use any condom she has given you because teenage girls poking holes in them is not uncommon. If you decide to have a baby anyway,remember if your relationship ends it gets even worse, CHILD SUPPORT. If you make $300 a week at work, half of that will go to this girl, Your life will become more miserable.You cant live on$600 a month no one can.Then you will have to quit school and get two jobs, gosh that sounds like fun!! I have been there I had 3 Kids by the time I was 22. I have never had a social life, and I wont until they are 18. Tell her this is not a good Idea. I didnt mean to give such a harsh reality check but go to college, make something of your life, get that good job, marry that great girl and give your kids that great life they deserve, be their hero.And for god sakes PUT THAT CONDOM BACK ON !!!!! Have a nice day!
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My boyfriend is getting the magazine Maxim or whatever. I've seen it but it always has pretty ladies on it. I dont want him looking at like a magazine that contains stuff that no girlfriend would want a boyfriend to look at such as naked people and what not. Cuz that just makes me self consious & fight to be even more prettier so i dont feel so ugly & compared to those girls.
Please just give me details on whats in that magazine, it'd be must helpful!! (link)
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Tell him how you feel. He wont know unless you do. If all he wants is one magazine thats just being a guy, thank your lucky stars he doesnt have thousands like mine does. My man is an addict. That is incredibly hard to live with. This is simply a guy thing. Just like we like to read cosmo and others, they have an instinct in them to be a guy. I promise you it has nothing to do with you or his disinterest in you.Tell him and Im sure he will reassure you of that. Take care hun.
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What do i do with a husband who doesn't believe he is cheating on me since he insists the relationship isn't physical? We will be going to marriage counciling soon but have to wait for an appointment. He has written love letters to her that i found. i can't just dump him, i have a 9 month old daughter to think about. He still wants to hang out with the girl and won't stop, even after i said it would hurt me and our relationship if he did. he doesn't think he is wrong. What would you do? (link)
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I am in the same situation except he is looking for a relationship online. Emotional cheating can be more destructive than physical cheating. He is sharing his heart with another, while physical can be just that, phsyical. If he has written love letters to her, he is deeper into this than he is letting on. I know that a counselor will agree that this is indeed cheating. But don't end your marriage over it. Go to counseling for your daughters sake. My feeling is that if he is willing to go, he does love you, if he is hesitant, he can't respect you and does love having his cake and eating it too. Your daughter is young and if you do take hold of your self esteem and leave, she wont suffer too much at her age. Never stay in it for the children, they in time will suffer too. Because this will breed long loud arguments, and she will be sitting there listening to it all! That will damage her. If he can't respect your wishes he has got to go. Good luck hun.
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