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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
♥BLAiR

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Alright, so, my sister and I have a great relationship with our mother. We talk to her about everything and anything and we love being around each other. Well, most of the time that is. Yeah, we have arguments and sometimes we don't get along just like other mothers and daughters. But, within hours, sometimes even minutes, we make up. That is, unless her sisters are around, then she turns into a bitch.


When they're around my mom nitpicks at everything we do and lectures, yells at us about it. It's insane because she's NEVER like this when they're not around. When they're not here, she only gets us in trouble when she feels she needs to but when they're around, it's for EVERYTHING it seems.


My sister and I argue about clothes all the time, we're sisters, we do that and usually, if she was wearing one of my shirts that I wanted to wear that day my mom would take the shirt and tell both of us to find something else to wear. Well, around my aunts, she tells us to go to our room and doesn't let us go out that day.


And today, my sister got these new Coach shoes that I've wanted as a birthday gift and never got. They're the white, turquoise, and pink wedges with the bow around the toes if anyone knows what I'm talking about. So anyway, I went to my mom and asked her was up because I was the one that wanted and asked for them. I made the mistake of asking in front of one of her sisters and she rolled her eyes at me. Then, my mom started bitching at me so I asked her what her problem was and she said "I'm so sick of my two irresponsible, disrespectful, ungrateful daughters!" After that I just went up stairs.


When we talk to our dad about it, he says he'll talk to her but of course he never does. And he doesn't notice because he's always at his office. What do we do? If it helps any, I'm 17 and my sister is 16.

When i read this it seems to me as if when your mom is around her sisters she wants to impress them by diciplining(sorry for the spelling) you to prove shes a good mother maybe? my advice to you is to maybe talk to her when her sisters ARENT around one day and tell her how you feel that she acts different and treats you adn your sister different when she is around her sisters rather than not. let me know how it goes =)
♥BLAiR

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well my wife dumped me my dog ran away and my truck broke down wat do u think i should do there blair??

Haha this sounds reaaally familiar and kill me because i have a bad memory i have no clue, well i do but i dont want to seem stupid if its not the right person. lol
♥BLAiR

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ok so a few days ago i caught my almost 16 yr old brother looking at porn on the internet...and he caught me spying on him. and i promised to him i wouldnt tell cuz god only knows what my parents would do... so idk what to do like is this normal .. it probably is but what should i do its just kinda freaky ....
help!

teehee this is normal hun, i have TONS of guys friends and one imparticular and they are always talking about porn and stuff, i promise its normal. But i do understand where you are coming from its probably awkward, believe me i have found stuff of my dads =0
♥BLAiR

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my parents are SO paranoid!its not even funny. well i have been hangin around my friends-boyfriends-friend since my friend and her bf have been going out. well anyhow, he invited me and my friend (and a bunch of others) to cedar point this summer. how can i talk my parents in to letting me go?

PS:
*im not stupid and i dunno why they dont trust me
*when im at my friends house i hang out with him so they dont know him
*last time a guy came to my house my dad interrogated him!!
*embarassing*

Well i know if i were in your shoes, i would ask then my parents would want to meet the guy, so bring him by the house or invite him and someother people over to your house and introduce him. daddys are ususally very protective of their girls, i would know because my parents sat down with me and my boyfriend( at the time) and had the sex talk, when i had no intentions of doing it and had expressed that to them.
hehe hope i helped somewhat? let me know =)
♥BLAiR

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My mom keeps on intruding on my life. Heres a perfect example: Im sure some of you have an AOL screen name right?? For instant messaging? Well, I have it. And it has something called a log manager whice saves all of my conversations. So anyways, She READS MY MESSAGES I SEND TO PEOPLE. And then shes like, "YOU SWEAR TOO MUCH YOUR BANNED FROM IT!" And ITS SO GAY. AND IM FURIOUS. SOMEONE HELP ME!

i have the same problem just my parents are worried about the sex predators and stuff...except they have a spy thingy on my computer just that not only my conversations but everything i write emails...websites...everything! but maybe try talking to her and say i would like a little privacy with my friends.
♥BLAiR

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my dad wont let me get a cell phone because he think i will talk non stop and waste minutes. How do i convince him i wont do that and keep my tlaking time to a minimum? i rate high!

tell him to get a plan thats free nights and weekends or somethin...and tell him you will only talk majority of the time during that time.
♥BLAiR

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hi im 13 and i bought this one thong and i havent worn it yet because if i wear it it will have to be washed and if it gets washed my mom will see it and if she does i think i will bein trouble because i dont know if my mom is alright with me wearing thongs. Everyone wears them in my school but idk if my mom will be alright with it and im afraid to ask her. What can i do to wear one without getting in trouble?

its just a different type of panties...i dont think there would be a problem...just say you dont want a panty line.
♥BLAiR

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Ok...how the hell can i get stress out. When it is caused by my family...and im grounded for a while, so im stuck here? PLEASE help...im going crazy!

write it down on paper...whats bothering you, or maybe they will let you take a jog around the block?

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well my wife dumped me my dog ran away and my truck broke down wat do u think i should do there blair??

wow this sounds like a story i used to tell...lol i would say find some bitch off the road because im sure she would marry you JUST to get off the street, get a cat put it on a leash, and get ur ass outside adn fix that damn truck!
haha love ya!
♥BLAiR

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Im going to visit my family in california and im going to disneyland. Do they have water rides or roller coasters there?

yes.
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