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Well, about 3 years ago, i moved from my moms house to live with my dad because my mom was a real bad alcoholic and abusive and i couldnt take it anymore..well i had a little brother there that i protected all the time when she would get like that and im still worried that since im not there to protect him anymore, is he still getting the same treatment as i was? And for some reason, everything is hitting me now..I'm starting to really miss everyone in that family, even my MOM! Now thats messed up especially after all the hell she put me through..Why do i miss her and everyone? and should i worry about my brother and do something? Should i go back to that just to protect him? B/c i feel soo giulty..I'm to the point now where i cant eat, cant sleep, and just start bursting out in tears for no reason b/c im worrying..For example, me and my friend were watching PNH and i starting crying b/c i guess i was thinking about it..What do i do..please, i need HELP! (link)
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hello. im not sure why you miss them. i guess you had a connection with them. even tho they abused you. anyways your brother is in danger. you have to tell your dad to go get him. tell him how you feel. express your feelings. go to the mall toshop. get it off your mind from time to time. or even get a mani and pedi often. hope i have helped. please rate.
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yea, its me again..I forgot to ask this..Well, i know that EvErYoNe argues and fights..Since i grew up in a family that everytime someone STARTED to argue, it blew out into a fist fight and cops coming and me getting hit, so everytime ANYONE at all argues, i get REALLY shaky, crying, and everything like that! I live with my dad now, i have for 3 years and nothing like this has happened before until now, or atleast i havent noticed it..Like a few weeks ago, my dad and step-mom got into a big arguement over something and i was in my room with the door shut, but i could hear them b/c they were only on the other side of the wall..and i know that this would NEVER happen b/c they're just not this kind of people, but since everything before happened, i was scared that they would hit each other and come after me and the police would come, but i know it wouldnt happen but i still get scared..can anyone give me any help on what i should do?? I really need help on this b.c its getting so bad that i actually hated them for a minute b/c i pictured it being my real mom..i got HORRIBLE flashbacks..Please help me!! :( (link)
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hello. explain to the both of them how you feel and then ask them to tone it down a little. also tell them ot to fight around you as much. its perfectly normal to get sensitive around fights since you grew up with them. if it happens at school just walk away and try not to think about it too too much. hope i have helped. please rate. and always express your feeelings. and its okay to cry.
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well i feel so left out of my family cuz somehow someone except for me is really smart. like my sister she was supposed to skip a grade. my brother is supposivly smart, i dont kno how but then my mom is smart and my dad is smart but with me i feel like i'm the only one in my family that is good at sports. it feels like everyone else is smart except me. and it shows. my parents just somehow show it. help me plz i dno wat to do (link)
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hello. okay so your not as smart as everyone else and your good at sports. well god gave you talent in sports. so you may not be a scientist when you grow up your might be a pro soccer player. explain that to your parents and family and tell them you arent smart and school just isnt your faovrite subject. maybe they will understand. but also dont fail just because you dont think your smart. keep your grades up to bs and cs. maybe you will get a better relationship out of all this. as they always say oppisites attract. hope i have helped. please rate
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hi.. i have a twin sister and were idenicle.. this brings us close together and far apart.. she is 14 minutes older than me adn because of that she think sshe can boss me aroundd.. like she will be right next to the fridge and ask me to go and get her a soda or something like that and if i dont she gets really mad.. the otherday she threw a hairbrush at my head and i had a huge lump! dose anyone have any adivce dfor me on how to stop this from going on?
i rate well! =] ***((haily))*** (link)
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hello. tell her how you feel. always express your feelings. also talk to your parents about it. next time she asks you for a drink dont get it. say get it yourself. just pbecause she is older does not mean she can boss you around. lay it on the line. let her know. your not gonna take it anymore. if that doesnt work get counselling for her. hope i have helped. please rate.
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well at a family reunion i got to see my cousins that i havent seen in a long time. well i got to know a male cousin of mine and we became good friends. but the whole reunion i mostly hung out with this cousin and another female cousin and we been kinda tight. well i dont get to see this cousin very often because he lives in a different state. and so whenever i see him at church its kind of a surprise and i go talk to him. but i think i like him and it's weird and i cant help it. even though he's adopted into the family hes not really a relative and its not like hes my 1st 2nd or 3rd cousin. hes a little out there but hes still my cousin. and i dont want to seem nasty or anything but what should i do. because i think its kind of gross that im starting to like him. and i dont want this to go anywhere (link)
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heyy .. umm dont worry about it stuff like this happens alot and just i think after a while you will forget about him because he lives far away and meet a new guy and your not really cousins so its not gross or bad
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Okay i have this grandma and she wants us to go every where. My mom wants us to spend the night there to night but I hate spendining the night at her house.She snores and she gets on my nerves. And I dont want to go. What are some good tips on how i can make my mom give my grandma A excuse to get out of spending the night I hate it,and every time I go over there I get a head ache and she is sooooooooooooooo boring some tips on how i can get some excuses would be great i will rate high for good answers but people that tell me what I spell wrong i will give you a one.
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heyy .. the best thing to do is just to talk about it with your mom and tell her how you feel about the whole thing or make plans over the time your supposed to be going over there and just say that you promised the people who you go with 1st that you would go out with them and that you were planning these plans for a week or pretned your sick and that you do not feel well and that you need to stay in bed at YOUR house because you like YOUR comfy bed but i would just talk because i dont think its good to make up excuses and if she ever found out that you did make up excuses you would probably get into trouble
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my parents are being soo mean to me and i cant stop crying.! i havent gone anywhere on a friday since june 7 and they say i always ask for everything.. its not true and i cant stop crying..please sont say talk to them! i dont know what to do.. they wont let me go to my best friends surprise party and he is moving in 1 week help me please (link)
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heyy .. uhh if you cant talk to them there is really nothing else to do that is the only way of comunitcating and telling them how you feel maybe you should try family concelling or even like a plan like you can go out on a friday everyother friday or there always sneaking out but i dont recomend that im just letting you know your options cause sneaking out could probably get you into trouble and then you def. coudlnt go anywhere
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Dear advicenators,
Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do? (link)
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heyy .. my dad was abusing my mom a long time back but she consulted with the police and they arrested him for one night but then he got out but no matter what if you call the police saying someone hit you they have to go to jail even if they have no proff for one night and next time he hits you just take a picture with a camera or a camera phone and then show them the proff if you decide to call the police and if he abuses you even more after he gets out call again and then they will realize he is bad and hopefully get dss on him and come check it out
hope i helped
try to stay safe
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today, i found a bottle of valtrex in the cabnet.. which is herpes meds by the way. so n e ways, i asked my mom about it and she got all defensive.. im not sure if it my sisters or my moms.. and if so, why didnt she tell me about it? i mean, its like i never knew my mom would have herpes, and i never seen that meds before, so is she cheating on my dad? she did before.. im just.. confused.. please help (link)
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heyy .. ask your sisters about it 1st and the chances are she isnt cheating on your dad maybe she even got them from him no offense but that might be the case but you really should sit down and talk with her about it and tell her not to be offened
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My brother is 18 and has nowhere to stay. he is always in and out of jail. When we were little he used to threaten me. he is 5 years older than me and my half brother. I really don't want him to stay at our house because he is a CRIMINAL! I'm scared please help!!
P.S. I already tryed confronting my parents, didn't work.
Thanks!
Sincerely,
Gjohndoe (link)
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heyy .. i would be scared too so dont worry its not just you and i guess you cant really do aynthing about it so just stay away from him and dont make too much contact with him
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what web site can i go to to find out how i can turn some one in to chid welfare (link)
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heyy .. umm im not sure but check the yellow pages or the interent
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kay i thkn my whoel family hates me > my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places > she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!
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heyy .. okay go to family conselling it helped my family stay together and after that if it doesnt work just call your other family members that live two hours away and have them come pick you up in the night but try the conselling 1st
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My mom gave me a pair of earrings a while ago. I wore them all the time and I loved them. The problem is, I lost one of them somewhere in school. It was a total accident and it must have came off while I was running/playing sports. I have still have one of them, but I don't know whether to tell my mom. I have alot of other earrings and the lost earring is probably already stolen. Should I just let it go or fess up to my mom? If they were expensive, I would be in deep trouble. Also, my mom would think I was very irresponsible and wouldn't trust me with anything anymore. (link)
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heyy .. uhh the best thing to do would be to tell her because chances are there will be a time where she suggests or asks you to wear those earrings and you will not have them she is going to find out anyways so just tell her and that your really really sorry
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I'm 13 and my brother is 15. He picks on me a lot and sometimes makes me mad but i love him very much. I just wish we were closer. I try to talk to him but he don't talk to me much. How do I get my brother and me to be closer? (link)
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heyy .. do or talk about the stuff he likes to do like example start a conversation like "hey (hisname) what video game did you buy last night" stuff like that
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I dont know what to do. My dad lives in Georgia, and I live in Mass., with my mom. Ive been thinking about how much i miss my dad, and how i want to live with him. But, I dont want to leave my mom and my friends here. How should i bring this up, and what should i do?! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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ask your mother if you can visit your dad and take a flight to see him for a week or two
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over the past few weeks me my mum and brother have been getting into arguements over stupid reasons. like if me n my mum argue my brother gets involved and if my mum and my brother argue i get involved and we keep shouting at each other. what can we do to stop the arguements. (it happens like every 2 week for 2-3 days) (link)
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just sit down for a family chat .. talk about the things that you could maybe do to stop the fighting or if that doesnt work you could look into anger managment for the person or people that usually start the fights
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Well first I would like to say hi to everyone! I just found out about this place. But i was wonderin if u could help me out. K my family wants to move but i don't want to move so far away from my friends and when ever i try to talk to them about it they tell me to ignore it cuz i have no say in it. Wat should i do? Thx (link)
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sit them down for a family chat and tell them how you feel about the situation see if that helps
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