well im 14 years old im from chicago Ill, im a kinda shy person but sometimes i can be loud to. Im in the 8 grade love music, and love to sing im a great friend and always listen to people whenever they have a problems im always there.
E-mail: rocketta@juno.com
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: March 9, 2007
Answers: 54
Last Update: June 7, 2009
Visitors: 5168
Main Categories:
Love Life
Families
Friendship
View All
Favorite Columnists
iiloveyou
|
| |
|
my sister in law really hates me... ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months and he recently got kicked out of his house and is living with my family and me...it wasn't entirely my fault though is friend was in on it to and he wasn't forced into anything...but his sister has been threatening me and saying that i fucked up his whole life and just making me feel like shit [[she lives in Idaho,were in Anaheim]] but still evrything she says makes me feel bad my boyfriend says to ignore her because she hormonal and pregnant but like i realy feel like telling her to shut the fuck up because she doesnt know what living in his house was like [[he was adopted..and hated it there]] so yea i kinda wanna yell at her but then i dont because my boyfriend and i would like to get married and i dont want to have an "i hate you bitch" relationship with her...so how can i tell her to butt out in a way that straight but no like fuck you kinda way?? (link)
| |
You can tell her in a more caln way instead of like cussing her out. And be more genlte with it but at the same time tell her straight up of whats whats. Make her understand that you love her brother you wouldnt do nothing to hurt me.
|
female
My step sister is turning 16 this weekend and i am having my biggest birthday too, the next week. And I am totally left out. This birthday is really big for me. And believe me I am totally happy for her, she has gotten a mustang and money and a that. But I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick. I have tried telling poeple how i feel but they said that I can have my chance to shine.... but thats ALL poeple talk about... yes her b-day is tomorrow but mine is a week from saturday. Mine is big TOO!!! why can't poeple just see that.
please help me. I dont think that I am jealous or anything. Cause really I am honestly happy for her. But what about me. Tomorrow we are going out for a "birthday lunch". How come I dont get one of those??? PLEASE HELP:(
I feel so bad about this because i also want to be happy for myself, and i dont want to come across as a brat or anything
Because when I turn 18 she will be the big 21... so i can't get away from this...
HELP
thank you for taking the time to read this and I do rate and comment... thank you
(link)
|
well i understand how you feel and well what i can tell you is that when people turn 16 i guess its a big thing its like a sweet 16 holiday were people always talk about and probaly the best birthday year.And the other fact can be that hers is tommorrow and yours is next week which dont mean nothing but maybe they are just trying to focus on one birthday at a time.But dont worry cause when your time comes they will be focusing on you and you will have your shine. So just hang in there till your birthday comes.
hope i help!
|
26/f
My boyfriend is 29, we've been dating two years and we're getting married in three months. He has a nine year old daughter in another state. She doesn't know about me. He only visits her once or twice a year because she lives really far away, but he tries to call a lot and always sends money to her mom. I'm just scared because I've read articles about how a lot of kids have a harder time dealing with a parent getting remarried than they do dealing with their parents getting divorced in the first place! What's the right thing to do? I don't want to make her accept me as this new "mom" if she doesn't have to, but I also want to be honest, and I feel like I should get to know her if we're family now. The most important thing is that she's not emotionally traumatized... how can we do that? (link)
|
well for one try to spend time with her get to know her and stuff. Do something fun like going shopping or take her some place like to the park of watever. Make her feel comftable around you. It may not be easy thought cause some kids have a hard time dealing with new parents so you and your husband and his daughter or yalls do somthing that a normal fammily would do. try to have fun.
hope i help
|
i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..
alright well..
one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.
i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.
i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.
i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?
thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice. (link)
| |
well i have two suggest you could just erase everything on myspace, your page,your acount everything and just dont tell them but then again you dont want to lie to them so you should just have a myspace but dont put anything on there that might get you in trouble. Just explain to them what myspace is tell them that you are carefull of what you doing then maybe they might understand.
|
|
my sister just came out to my parents that she was gay. my dad and mom dont even talk to her any more and my dad said he wanted nothing to do with her. i dont care. i love her no matter what. but my sister wants to run away or move out. she wants to live with my principal whos are really close friend but i dont want her to move. shes turning 16 monday and she said that its legal then to move out. i told her i didnt want her to but she keeps saying that she cant live at home anymore. not with parents who dont even talk to her anymore just because shes gay. i dont want to loose my sister! any advice would help! tanxs(im 14 if it helps) (link)
| |
well what i can say is you are right you should love your sister no matter what even thought she is gay that dosent change nothing becasue she family and family take care of each other. And being gay isnt bad or wrong its not good but ite not bad also. You need to talk to your parents confront them, one of you has to, tell them that being gay is not a crime and as parents they should be by her side not turning agianst her over something like this cbecause its not right. And for your sister if she really want to move and think its the best way then she should just not live by her self but maybe a family member someone that actually really. good luck with things.
|
|