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My name is Amanda and IM 14 years old IM experienced in divorce, abuse, illness, rape, separation anxiety, and other teen issues I no how to handle these thing not all from experience but I have best friends who have been through it all.

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i dont know what to say to my mother when she calls me a stupid lesbian, a worthless faggot, and other demeaning things. it doesnt hurt me like it used to (everyone knows my mom's a bitch, and that she's the epitome of insanity) but it makes me pretty mad. i really dont know what a can say back to her to get her to shut up and back off. bitch doesnt phaze her b/c people call her that everyday. i know i sound like i'm putting her down, but that's what she's always done to me since i was about 5 (i'm 16 now). anyway, i'd appreciate some suggestions on what i could do or say to make the situation better. i really cant take it anymore.

and please dont leave me an immature comment saying 'oh well why don't you just quit being bi' or somthing like that. it's just not that simple.

im also bi but i chose not tell my mom till im a lil older but you should just sit her down and tell her how you feel and that thier is no critisisim that is gonna change the way you are and that she and you should try to make the best of it and not 2 be immature about the situation i hope i helped

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I know this might not sound like that big of a deal but it is for me!

Well my mom and me have been fighting a lot lately..........almost like every day. But its never my fault like i would say " Mom there's no more laundry detergent." the she would blow up and say " Of course we dont because you have to use so much" and then she would start yelling at me bacause i ask for so much stuff and that she has no money to spend and i hate! I really dont want to hear about her problems then when i say that i don't want to hear it then she starts yelling at me again! please help me and tell me what to do! im going to start school on tuesday, and i dont want this to mess with my head so please help !

ok i think that you should let your mom cool down and then at a good time tell her that you need to talk let her no how you feel and how much you cry and maybe you will find out about what has her stressed

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Hmm, I don't know where to start. I'm 15 years old i have 2 older bro's 18 and 22 and a younger sister 13. Most of my problems is with my oldest brother. He doesn't do anything just sits at home, doesn't have a job and just gets everything from my parents and never works for anyof it. It pee's me off because I have payed for everything i have i'v been working since i was 10. Me and my oldest bro get into fights about everything and even the smallest thing leads into a fist fight.. every little thing i get yelled at by either my parents or bro/sis. I can't take getting yelled at everyday getting into fist fights with my bro everyday or going to bed crying everynight because i want to leave soo bad. Everything that i do my mom asks " what is wrong with you" an dnothing i do can be good enough for my dad. more to the story but no way i could explain it all. please help me what can i do, or try to do for the next couple years im stuck in this house.!?!?!?

well i think that mostly you should talk to your mom and or dad and tell them how you feel then maybe you should talk to your brother about how you feel also maybe you could try to call a family meeting i no that sounds really funnny nut it may work please let me no how it works if you take my advice

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what do you do when everyone in your family is leaving you? my mom and dad have been having problems and always argue. then my dad has a very short temper and always yells at me and makes me feel like shit. what can i do to stop it all?

please help me fast! :'(

i think first of all you should talk to your mom about everything and then have your mom talk to your dad and all of you have a conversation to work it out

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I'm 15/f, and my mum has a lot of problems including alcoholism which I won't go in to, but she split from my dad when I was 7.
They never told me why but by the time I was 11, I'd worked out she is gay. It scared me so much, I convinced myself I was insane so I wouldn't have to deal with it. And no-one else knew. Then, about 18 months ago, my mum told me and my brother that she's gay. It hurt to hear it out loud, but was a bit of a relief too.
We've never ever spoke about it since, but I know she has a current partner, and she's becoming more... open with her partner in front of me. Which I can't stand. I can't tell her how this gets to me, I just can't bring myself to mention her sexuality, it hurts too much. What can I do, apart from walking out everytime they're together?

well i think when its just you and your mom you guys should talk about it tell her how you feel about her and her parntner please let me no what happends

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