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my name is Rachel and my stepdad is always accusing me of talking to people I don't know on the internet and yesterday he told me to get off the computer becouse I was talking to one of my friends from school,but he thought I was talking to somebody in california what can I do to get him to trust me? (link)
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talk to your step dad and explain to him your not talking to strangers on the internet that they're your friends you know from school.
and if you are talking to strangers on the internet i can see why he's conserned.
Just tell him who you really are talking to and he should come to trust you.
hope it helps,
xshandix
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I'm 13/f. Whenever I sometimes pick on my sister or don't let her touch my stuff, my mom keeps calling me b*tch. Even when I do stuff that's not even that harsh, she still says I'm "b*tching" around. But I'm not a biatch! And I get hurt when my mom calls me so but I don't think she feels I am. What should I do? (link)
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talk to your mom and tell her that you really dont appreciate her calling you names when you don't deserve it. If you tell her that what she says hurts she might be more understanding and back off a little.
good luck
&hearts, shandz
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ok well the other day i went to my grams house that i never go to and she said that i can come live with her if i want. i havent said anything to my mom is cause she will blow up at me and tell me that im not there enough to wanna move in. but my grams rules are alot cooler then my moms. im gettin a new remodled room later curfue and more TRUST which is wat i want. pluz she is rite by my friends and my dad. so i wanna go there but i dont wanna hurt my mom or have her get mad at me so how do i tell her? plz help ill rate high.
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tell your mom as nicely as you can, tell her you love living with her and will drop by as often as possible but you feel living with your grams will help you create a better relationship with her and thats something you really want. Your mom will know your serious about this and should approve of the idea more.
hope everything works out the way you want it to,
shandz
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Anyway, whenever I drive with my parents in the car there always yelling at me, speed up, watch out, your gonna crash. They need to realize that I'm already nervous. All there doing is fueling the flame. They've gotten so nervous they haven't even let me drive for about a month now. Thing is i've never crashed and I know I'm not that bad of a driver. They say they expect me to get my liscence next year. I'll be 16. What do I do? (link)
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you should talk to your parents and tell them - in a nice way - to back off they need to let you learn to be a good driver, you can't be perfect straight off, you need to learn by making mistakes and you can't do that with them yelling at you and destracting you
hope it all goes well
xshandzx
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My mum and I just had a big argument.. we NEVER fight, but when we do it's pretty bad. Anyway, I told her I hadn't been sleeping lately, like it takes me hours to get to sleep because I'm doing year 12 and I'm very stressed. I have trouble concentrating at school and I'm having difficulty doing my work because of lack of sleep (I get 5 or 6 hours at most, but usually less). I asked her if maybe I could see a doctor or get something at the drugstore to help me sleep, and she got REALLY angry at me, saying it was my fault for not concentrating and that I was selfish and that there's nothing a doctor could give me ever so I just had to deal with it. She also made fun of me and acted like it was no big deal. Well, I know it's nothing serious, but I thought I could just ask her if there's anything I could get. I felt very hurt that she treated me like that when I thought I could rely on her to help me out. Now I'm starting to think that maybe it IS my fault, and she was right.
What do you guys think of this? We haven't spoken since then. Was I really making a big deal over nothing? Is my mum right? She's usually very wise, but I still feel kinda bad she said that to me. Is it really true that there's nothing you can for insomnia?
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ok you finding it hard to sleep is hardly your fault. Your right, you should be able to rely on your mum with things like this and if you cant i think you should talk to her about it, she needs to know you feel hurt when she makes fun of you and you should also tell her that you want to get help so you can sleep and consentrate on your work, if she loves you she would take this seriously and would want to help you any way she can
loads of luck
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My l/b and I fight ALL the time. how can I stop fighting with him?
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all brothers and sisters fight, it's the way of life, me and my brother used to be the same and sometimes still are but we get along much better now because we mostly stay out of each others way and when we do see each other long enough to talk there's nothing really to fight about because nothing has happened between us that gives us reason to fight. You should do the same, stay out of your brothers way, in your room or out with friends it might just help
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