Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
E-mail: eric.april@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: strykersville, new york
Occupation: stay at home mom
Age: 30
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I am 14 and my mom won't let me wear thongs. My sister is 16 and still is not allowed to wear them. Alot of my firends wear them and some don't. Sure part of the reason I want them is because alot of people wear them but that not the whole reason. I don't want panty lines when I wear sweats of whatever. My mom has always been overprotected, she didn't let me or my sister wear a bikni until last summer. Last weekend I tried on a really cute bathing suit and all she did was say how it was to low and I need to wear something more modest or I will be sending the wronge message. She thinks if I wear a low bikni someone will come and rape me, to make a long story short she is inpossible to shop with. Anyway If I could get a thong it would make me feel that I beat my mom and won. Don't get me wrong I love my mom we don't have a bad relaship at all. It just she very religous and hard to talk to. Oh and even if I did buy a thong behind her back. I've never done my own laundry in my life so she defintly know something was up. Sorry that it was so long, guess I got carried away. (link)
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If your getting one because your friends have one shouldn't be your reason to wear one. Ask your mom why she won't let you wear one. Maybe she thinks that your not old enough to wear one. Your still 16. Talk to your mom about it if she tells you she'll think about it then wait and don't ask again because she will. then wait about a wekk and adk again and she'll probably let you get one.
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Okay so I need to get on my sister's good side. I was kind of a bitch to her this past weekend. She wanted to wear one of my skirts and I didn't let her. I had a good reason though--Last time she wore one of my skirts she cut it because she thought it was too long.
Anyway, the mom of this family she babysits for just got a boob job and can't fit into any of her new designer shirts. I'm talking like Gucci, Chanel, Burberry, you name it. And they're like still brand new, tags and everything.
She says that since I was such a bitch to her that she won't give me any of them. I need to know how I can make it up to her fast so any help is appreciated. And I know that I should always be nice to her even when I don't want anything from her but too late for that.
If it's any help, I'm 17 and she's 15.
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Well if your trying to get on her good side because she's getting nice cloths that bad. You should appoligize to her and tell that your sorry of being such a b---- and explain to her if she barrows your cloths that they have to come back the way that you lent them to her. Maybe she'll let you borrow some of the skirts. Plus you could take her out for dinner or a movie or buy her something that she wants. Hope that helps.
Good Luck
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My dad made me cry my eyes out today. This is what happened.
Well last August I was asked by my cousin to be a bridesmaid for her wedding in April of this year. I said yes, and at the time was unemployed. Well I have a job now at a really good company. But I'm still on a 3 month probation. My grandma (who is paying for the wedding) was expecting me to take 3 days off on a weekend this Febuary just for a dress fitting!! She lives 6 hours away, and I would have had to take the greyhound bus. I told my dad this and he started screaming at me, saying that I was going to lose my job over this. I have a mental illness, and this is the first job I've had in 5 years. He said I would never get another job again and that he wanted me to drop out of the wedding, and that the job was too important. Well I started to cry because I really want to be a bridesmaid but also don't want to lose my job. I asked him if he could phone grandma and make some sort of comprimise, like maybe get the dress fitted her. Then he said "the fact that you're crying shows how delicate you are". He was really mean about the whole thing.
I still want to be in the wedding. I talked to my grandma and she is going to send up the fabric for me to get a local seamstress to make the dress so I won't have to take time off work until the wedding. But I'm still really upset at my dad. How should I act around him? And does anyone else think what he said was out of line? (link)
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Your dad was some what out of line. Even though you got a job your employer would work with you and help you out if you asked. You could find another job don't let him tell you that. If your grandma is sending you the fabric that's nice because they still want you in the wedding and will help you. talk to your dad and tell him that you want to be in the wedding and hope that he'll understand that.Plus you could talk to your boss and let him now ahead of time that you'll be taking some time off in april for a wedding and give him the dates so he can set the schedule for when your gone. That will help you keep your job. hope I helped.
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Well last night my mom and I had a fight and she said well if your dads so great go live with them so I started to cry, I sent a text message to my dad and step mom and I was like well if it comes down to it can I live with you. They havent replied and so I sent them another one about a hour ago. Still no answer my mom has been a real bitch lately and I dont know what to do somtimes I want to go live with my dad but I really dont like my mom just its my friends and the skit we are doing for the variety show that makes me want to stay. Please help.
♥ Tiff (link)
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Dear Tiff
Parents say things when there mad. I don't think your mom would really want you to go and live with your dad becaue she'll miss you. It's might be even harder when your at your dad's. Try talking to your mom and tell her how you feel and see if you too can work it out before you make the decision to go and live with your dad.
I like to be firends with you. If you want you can email me at keemkick@hotmail.com or white_grey_wolf@yahoo.com. Hope to hear from you soon.
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My mom keeps giving my dad crap about how he doesn't pay the child support, but she keeps going and spending the money on stupid crap.
The question i actually have is, when does a parent have to stop paying child support? Does he have to pay till the child is 18 and legally an adult, or does he have to keep paying until the child has graduated from high school? OR, is it determined differently for each divorce?
I'm 18 and in California. If anyone knows the actual details on this, i would GREATLY appreciate it. If your info is right, i'll give 5s (link)
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Well for me, my son's father has to pay child support until my son is 21. It depends on what the court or your state has for the age of the child. That money that your dad sends is for you. Not for your mom to spend. If you are little then she should be paying for cloths and stuff for you. I have been putting the money in the bank for my kids for when they get older they have it. I have three kids that get child support,so each one of then have a bank account. I hope that I helped you.
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My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me? (link)
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I still believe in santa claus and I'm 29. I feel that he might not be real but his spirit is still there. I have three younger children and they beleive that he is real and that is what the believe and when they get older they will understand the whole thing about santa claus. Don't let anyone tell you there's no santa claus.
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Im in 7th grade, and my friend in 8th smokes. she isnt a bad person at all. well, at the end of the school day, we hugged and everything, when i came home,my mom smelled smoke on me and i think she thought i was smoking,even though id never do anything like that. she does know abt Jenny and everything, but how do i convince them that im not smoking or anything? (link)
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I would just come out and tell her. Tell her that you hug one of your firneds that smoked and that how you smell like it. If the trust you they will believe you. Hope I helped.
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Ok last night my sisters bouyfriend raped me. He said that the only reason that he was dating my sister was to get closer to me and that he watched me all the time. I haven't told anyone yet because I am scared and my sister is always telling me how much she loves him and that she wants to marry him. And I know that I should tell her because he is a jerk and I dont want her to make any wrong decisions but I can't because I dont want to break her heart. How can I tell her and my family that he raped me?? Because everyone in our family thinks he is a great guy and he wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone but he hurt me and I don't know if my family will believe me and my sister might think that I am just making this all up because I am jealous. How should I tell them??
Thanks!!!! (link)
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First of all if this guy was so great then why did he have to rape you. I would tell your parents and your sister right away before this guy tell your sister that you were hitting on him and that you had sex. He might forgive him and she will hate you. If your sister really loves she will beleive you
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hi..
Iam 31, i have 2 kids one 3 month old and a 9 year old ..my oldest has a different dad{happens}
i have been w this man for 5 years and he has always treated my son like his own..his father is somehow thru manipulation turning my son against my boyfriend all of a sudden he doesnt want him at any football games,, which he paid for if it wasnt for him he wouldnt even be on a team... his father and i have been apart for 10 years he has a girlfriend that calls me on the phone and says i can have him back and that sort of stuff i will call there house and she will hang up on me..i dont really kow how to go about handling this situation ... i think it boils down to his father being insecure about my son and his relationship since i have had the baby! why since then? like i said it has been 10 years! iam thinking of professional help! thanks ! torn mother/torn child
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This girlfreind that your ex's has is probably trying to start stuff with you, don't believe her. I have the same probablem with my ex husband. He has a girlfriend and I can't stand her. I remarried and my two children have the same father and my my youngest has a different father. Your ex is only jeoulous of you and he probably still loves you but he knows that he can never be with you again. Your son knows that your boyfriend had been there for him and he's probably only acting like that because that's his father and he doesn't want to hurt him. My children are the same why with their stepfather. You might want to get help for you and your son. I might help your relationship with your son. But always remember that your kids with alway love you and their father.Hope I helped. keemkick@hotmail.com. If you would like to chat some more.
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i need some good advice to give to my little brother, he is madly in love with a girl alot younger than him. she is 16 and he will be 22 in dec. they dont have a physical relationship, that i know of, god i hope they dont, but anyway he has asked me if i think it is wrong to be in love with her. i am trying to not be to sisterly and bossy about my answer to him i just need some advice on how to tell him how i feel about it. i think it is wrong, but at the same time i want him to be happy. please help (link)
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I think you should tell your brother what you think. Because in the long run if your brother get's involed with her and her parents don't like if he can get into alot of trouble. He only thinks he's in love with her but he probably isn't he needs to get out and meet people his own age or older. Maybe you could help him before it's to late.
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I'm not allowed to hang out with my Best friend 'Michelle' because we had a little fight and she left a baad message on my answering machine; not my cell my house and my mom heard it. This was like June of last year I mean all summer I snuck over her house and met her places and now we're partners for a Social Studies project and I can't tell my mom I'm going to her house. Without her I have no friends and she asked me to sleepover her house. I said no but if I keep avoiding that situation she might no be my friend anymore. What can I do I really want to chill with her and how can I explain that to my mom?
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I think that your friend should go to your mom and appologe for the message that she left. Even if it was last year. Your friend probably matured a little and she should act like an adult and go see your mom. Then I think she might let you start hanging out with her again.
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