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Hey my name is Kay....
I'm a senior in high school so I'm finally graduating this year! i love school and meeting new people. my hobbies are crocheting, math, and decorating! i someday hope to become a home decorator. I'm from Pittsburgh. i don't drink. i have a lot of experience with drugs and drinking...hence the reason i don't anymore... i may only be 17 years young but i have been through a lot in the past 4 years and i just keep getting stronger. i have a boyfriend whom i have been dating for 3 years and we are still working on some things but our relationship keeps building everyday. i love with my mom and my teenage sister..ya 3 girls in one house.. just think how that is when all of us are on our periods at the same time.. its a trip all on its own. ha ha. recently my moms new boyfriend moved in and he sucks! me and my sister both hate him but life goes on. i don't have many friends but i do have a lot of important people in my life whom i love and would do anything for.. if you want to hear a little more about me you can reach me on my IM. other than that i would love to answer any questions you have about love, sex, families, or anything else you wanna throw at me!

C ya!

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i am afraid my dad no longer loves my mother. he is nice to her, but it never seemed to me like he loved her that much, excepting that he buys her almost anything she wants. today i heard him apologizing to a woman for saying something at a party. i thought it was about politics, which he is very into. then i heard him say 'i dont know if it was that u looked pretty, or the dance moves, i dont know.' and asked the woman not to tell my mother. my dad tells my mom everything. this also reminds me of when, two years ago, i was looking through the favorites list on my family computer. i saw my dad had babe-of-the-week saved, as well as other sites of the same topic. when i asked him about it, he got really mad, yelled at me, and told me i wasnt alowed on that computer. what does this all mean??

well kisses answered your question a little blunt... i wouldnt pay attention to that.. it will just upset you.. but i dont think that you should worry about your parents relationship. things happen and yes people do get bored. your dad probably had that site on there because he is a man and men though we all know it suck and are gross and like to look at things like that.. maybe you should talk to your dad and tell him you over heard the conversation he was having with that person. you really should write him a note... it could all just be a misunderstanding. you dont know. but before you get to upset talk to him.

i know you might be scared of his reaction but if you are really worried you should say something.

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i am 14 year old female. ok so in the past 3 weekes my dad has been yelling at be for everything i do. like this morning he came in my room and started yellin at me saying you are so rude and you have to learn how to take care of ur self. and i was soo confussed on wat he was talkin about cause that is the first thing he said to me all day. i just wish i knew why his is yelling at me for stupid little things that i havn't even done. and i can't stand the stress right now and i am thinking of running out of my house cause my mom dosn't see how much this is hurting and she is a very hard person to talk to. and the only person i can talk to is my brother in college and he isn' around any more. so please help me deal with this cause i am ready to leave my family and go find my own place.

please help please


the helpless

well, what i think is that you should keep trying to talk to your mom because evantually shell want to know something and you will not want to talk to her, although you dont want to talk to her right now, you should. and with your dad, you cant be perfect. he might just have had a bad day. i know how you feel. my dad yells at me too all the time about stuff i dont or didnt even do. i think you shouldnt give up. you cant run from your problems. it doesnt stop or solve any thing. it may even make it worse. i would know. i ran away and it just made things decline for a little while then it increased to an even higher level and it was worse.so like i said, just keep trying and dont give up.
hope it helps.

love, Kays

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okay so i have two sisters and it gets hard sometimes; oh yea, and theyre both younger than me--now youre startin to get it..

anyways i find myself soo frustrated sometimes--by my parents, my sisters, and the world itself. its seems so unfair sometimes that i feel like packing my bags and leaving--but where??

i have tried to confront my mom about it before, but it didnt help much(it just started up another arguement)..this all happens bc my sisters do not behave, and i start to yell(bc there is nothing else i can possibly do) -no timeouts-no consequences-nothing!!

sometimes i think of moving in with my dad(since my folks are separated) but im afraid ill miss my ma' even tho i have so much hate in me...wat do i do about all of this?!?! please help..

i think that you should just take regular visits to your dad. maybe every other weekend. or you could stay there everyother week if he is in your school district too. or you could go into your room and play your muisic really loud and ignore it all. go out alot to get out of the house also.

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i am 19 and my brother is 18 and we dont get along he has a realy bad temper and when he is in a bad mood he hits me and i dont do anything to him like the other day he strangled me and though me on the floor i told my mum but she does not say or do anything about it so he is just gets away with it and then he tries talking to me and pretends like noting happened and i hate it what can i do to make my mum and dad listen to me please help me.

well this isnt GOOD advice but its advice. fight back. my sister is younger than me and she does the same. one of you will get hurt and your parents will notice but keep telling them about it. ** i dont rly think thats will help but its worth a shot.

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I am 14 and my mom won't let me wear thongs. My sister is 16 and still is not allowed to wear them. Alot of my firends wear them and some don't. Sure part of the reason I want them is because alot of people wear them but that not the whole reason. I don't want panty lines when I wear sweats of whatever. My mom has always been overprotected, she didn't let me or my sister wear a bikni until last summer. Last weekend I tried on a really cute bathing suit and all she did was say how it was to low and I need to wear something more modest or I will be sending the wronge message. She thinks if I wear a low bikni someone will come and rape me, to make a long story short she is inpossible to shop with. Anyway If I could get a thong it would make me feel that I beat my mom and won. Don't get me wrong I love my mom we don't have a bad relaship at all. It just she very religous and hard to talk to. Oh and even if I did buy a thong behind her back. I've never done my own laundry in my life so she defintly know something was up. Sorry that it was so long, guess I got carried away.

accually you can buy a thong behind her back and you washe it under hot soapy water. unless she sees she will never know. good luck.

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PLease help me fast. Today is my mommy's brithday and we don't know where to take her for dinner please could someone give me suggestion
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if you have a BRAVO around , go there i reccomend a chocolate cake for dessert. happy birthday to your mommy

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Help! Help! Help!

I used to have this boyfriend my parents hated to death. He moved all the way across the United States (I live in California) and emailed me his new phone number. While my parents were at a meeting, I called him and talked only like a minute since he had to go to a school event. Will his number show up on the phone bill? If so, my parents will see it and become suspicious, because we almost never call people out of state. I have a Panasonic phone with caller ID if it helps.
Can anyone give me any good excuses for when my parents round on me?

well i dont know if this helps but... you could tell her you are doing an extra credit thing and you have to call a pen pal and ask them what their school is like. and if she asks where you got the number tell her you got it from the speech or english teacher for an essay. i hope that helped you.


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