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Okay, well when I was about 10 my brother started playing with me. I mean in my vajaja. Well, as I got older it started to give me more and more pleasure. Well, he told me to get on the floor with him one night and he 69 it. Meaning I had to give him a blow job and he started liking and tounging my vajaja. I think its wrong but don't want my parents to find out and I have to get birthcontrol pills and the doctor looks down there! Please HELP!!!
This is soooo Wrong!Were is this world coming to?!!!
I take it that you are not 18. That the age to have sex. Not 10 not however old you are now if your under 18. So like everyone said that is against the law. If I were you I would tell. But you don't want you mom and dad to know right? So I just tell him that you were going to tell IF he did not stop.I think that he's sick somewhere in his mind. If you told he could get help. But yes he would go to jail. I think that deep down you want this to stop, that your not enjoying it that much.Or why would have you ask for help? So now it is up to you honey. Don't let this get you down. june
i am 16 years old and my cousin is 15 almost 16. we were at my other cousins birthday party, who had turned 16. and we were drinking and things, and my cousin was talking to his guy justin. justin is 18 years old and has a gf who is away at college. my cousin really likes him, my family and i do not!! but she was completely ossified to the point where she was starting to black out, and they were kissing and things and i kept my eye on them. i went into the garage for about 10 mins without checking on them, so i finally decided to check on them, and they walked out the gate, i grabbed my friend john and chased after them because they were heading towards his truck. and my cousin was telling my younger cousin that she wanted to have sex with him. so obviously they went to go have sex. but we chased after them and i freaked out on justin. i promised my cousin if he came back id take her to talk to him. i also promised my brother that if he came back i would call him. justin came back i called my bro, i took my cuz to talk him. my brother and i freaked out on him and kicked him out of the party. my cousin was hysterically crying and was so mad at me. but shes almost over it now. but i was wrong to make him leave when noone wanted him there except for her? he has a girlfriend..and he always uses girls for sex. he tried talking to me in september and i was like no. not happening, i dont/didnt like him at all. plus, shes only had sex once in her life. just tell me...was i wrong? everyone i ask tells me i had every right too to do what i did because i dont want her getting hurt, or pregnant, or being a slut, or getting a profile.
Like ever one all ready said you were not wrong. What would have been wrong is to do nothing. Like someone said you should not be drunk when you have sex. What if in her right mind she would not have had sex with him? When it's done it's done no going back.And what if she got sick. Him seems to like to have sex with a lot of girl. And he has a gf! What a jerk.You were very right for right you did!:)Let her be mad. You did a good thing.
I'm 21 and my sister is 17. I'm fairly attractive, and a bit more attractive and popular than she is. When we were younger she very clearly had a crush on me, but I put an end to it and told her I'm just her brother and nothing more (when she told me she wanted to marry me some day). Now that we are both basically adults, its becoming clear to me that she still feels the same way.
She constantly seeks my attention, physical contact, and her body language is fairly obvious. Its a very weird situation for me to be in, and Ive basically been ignoring it, thinking she would grow out of it. I don't want to bring it up because it would just be weird. What should I do?
Oh come on already. She's 17! In till she finds in other man that she thinks is better then you(if ever. she thinks very high of you. you can tell.)she's going to like you. forget about it being "weird". If you don't want to live like this for the rest of you life do you? And what if she makes the move. Then you will just have to talk to her any way. That's why you need to lay down the law right NOW!!!! Tell her that your her sister and that's it and you mean it. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything but this is not the bible time when sister and bothers can just marry. And she's your sister.So you need to stop being attractive to her or all this is going to be a lot heard(er) then it's got to be. P.S.
Don't say it to her like I said. Be a lil more nicer. This is a girls feeling you know. Good luck.
Okay, I know I should have respected his privacy, I feel bad about it, but I was just so curious! My older brother (I'm 14, he's 19- almost 20) is my best friend. We are super close, I love him more than anyone else in the world, and we tell each other everything-- EXCEPT things that involve our love lives (kissing and sexual stuff.) We never talk about that kind of thing because it would be too awkward. My brother is the nicest person in the world, and I would never have expected him to do some of these things... even though I guess he's old enough.
Anyway, my mom instructed me to read his texts if I got the chance while he was home from college, because she said that she should know what he's doing. He left his phone downstairs today, and to my horror, he and his girlfriend had been texting about how he "made her underwear wet and sticky" and how much she loved his "crisp, hard dick." Ahhhhh!!! I was actually horrified. I did not mention these texts to my parents or brother, nor do I intend to, but I am honestly emotionally scarred. I can't look at my brother the same way. I mean, I know people his age do stuff like that, he doesn't know what I've done with my boyfriend ( nothing like that!) but still. I'm just having a hard time coping with this. He's the sweetest, most innocent kid. I don't exactly know what advice I want... just something that will hopefully make me feel less disgusted and traumatized. Haha. I don't know how far this means they've gone... Ugh.
So what you will do the same one day. One day some boy make your underwear wet. But your Mom was like so wrong. I don't care if he lives in her house she has no right to look in his phone because she just wants to know. And to ask you to do it...oh man don't get mad but I want to slap her! He's over 18 and he almost 20. So what he's having sex? He not under age . Let go of it. Forget it. Never ever do something like that again. I know it herd to so no to your Mom Love but some time's you have to do it. So something like this: You know Mom I think i can do that. If you want to know PLEASE do it your self. I don't think I can do it. But let me tell you something you thou you mother put you up to it you still had NO RIGHT.
Okay so i have a problem.
Im 13 and my older sister is 15.
My cousins(16 & 18yearolds)came to hang out and take us and my little 9 yr old sister shopping and to hang out.
So they went to pick up a boy, Brian(17) and we went to a park and ate some ice cream. Then they brought him home. They hid him under the bed and told my mom they were sleeping over(my cousins) and long story short Brian ended up having UNPROTECTED sex, the rest of us were watching a movie & my LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD sister, me, and my cousin walked in on them.
I feel really disgusted with my sister & cant look her inth eye. Then she BEGGED my older cousin to buy the 'after sex whatever' pills. And she never talks to brian after that. I dont know if that was her first time or if all those times she went to havesleepovers werent such a goo d idea. I want things to go back to nomal, i still love her ( she's my sister) but i really dont think much Of her, She used to be my idol but now i dont wanna be anything like her. But i feel really bad ( even cried a couple of times) but it was kind of my fault too. I picked the lock with my cousin because we just thought they were making out,we thought chrissy knew better then that. What should i do?
You mean the morning after pills? And further more no your sister is not 18 but the boy is not ether. So nothing with the law is in here if you know what I mean. And it's your little sister that you should really be worried about. I mean at nine you sister should not know how to have sex. How do you think we have 10,11 and12 mother's! And if your sister want to be dumb and have unpotected sex..don't be like her. But that is her bees wax. You should have not picked the lock. You should say you are sorry for doing that. But other then that? Can't do much about it can you?
I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do?
Honey you still tell them. What if one day he haves sex with you? Or say if he go's and does it too some other girl? How would you feel if by telling you could have stopped it? And by telling you are helping him. How? Because he will get what ever help he need. Bab you have it to tell.
My dad all ways tells me to do every thing and when I forget them he get really mad and when he tell my small bro and he forgets them he don't get mad at him why?why do I all ways show like I am none child why? I don't understand please help me pleaseNour this is my name Please give me advice please
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. Please Help me I really need advice
Like the other girl said. He going to want more out of you. Because you older. Some time this is not fair but most time's it's not because he dose not love it because he want me out of you then you lil bro.He dose not hate you.
Okay I'm 15 and to be honest I've about had enough of this. My mother is another story.Yes i love her but sometimes wow! I just wanna go to sleep for hours sometimes and not wake up. She has parental controls on almost everything! my phone now included because my friend accidentally was messing around and mentioned drugs in one of our txting conversations. My mom freaked when she read it and took my phone away. And my friend is no drug addict she is such a wimp i doubt she would but i havent told my mom yet. Also my ipod got taken away because i let some dude friends of mine use it and well they did some bad stuff on the internet and ya.. so they didnt close then window or erase thier history and my mom saw it and again freaked out!she thought it was me! and thinks im lying!! and kept it who then gave it to my father!!! and once i was watching the E! on tv watching the kardashians and of course she freaked and put locks on the tv. So my mother will not compromise im not sure what to say? Also now shes having trust issues with me about all that! so i need help with that to and to help her understand my side! because she will listen to what i have to say but she doesnt keep it in mind at all! also what do i do if she hates my friend i was talking about what do i do with that to?! Help!
OMG! My Mom is the same in some ways.
Your Mom dose not know when enough is enough(so do so many other Mom's)
Maybe you can get your friends to tell your Mom the true(talking about your iPod)
if that dose not work then really what can you do?
All so try talking about this with your Mom. Say that she is being unfair. And say why you think she being unfair.
All you can do is try and talk this out(If you find an other way give me a yell up. I can use it.)
If she still being unfair then you just know that you said what you feel and why you feel that way. And tell the true. I mean wouldn't the true come out in time?
That's all I've got to say.
Wish you luck.