I dont really know what to say about myself. But, I guess I'll just say some stuff about me.
I'm 15, and my name is Melissa.
I'm 5,4 and 105 pounds!
I have brown hair, green/gray/gold eyes, LONG legs, and freckles! But not alot of freckles...more like a bandit mask of them. Lol, like in the shape of a raccoon mask.
I go to CAT pickering, and while there i take Culinary Arts. Then after that, I go back to Downingtown East High School for the rest of the day. I LOVE IT!! I only take like, THREE classes a day and i'm in tenth grade!
I love all music, except for creepy country, (no offense to all you country lovers out there!) and I love to draw!!
I'm not really punk, preppy, goth, or anything like that...i'm more like....me? lol, ANYWAY,
That's all I have to say!
If you need help, feel free to ask me. I dont mind answering your ?'s! Or if you just want to talk, my AIM name is Samarawntstoast. IM me if you want to!
Peace!
~Melissa~
E-mail: tdrod4@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
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my sister is a bitch...she's 10 and i'm 14 my parents always pick her side and like her better they say they don't but they do...all of them are being bitchy...my sister makes stupid and unneeded remarks..like if i do something she says you better and it makes me mad because she does it all the time and she even hits me and scratches me...and goes and tells i started it then my parents get mad at me be cause they think i started it and i hit her....and then i show the scratches and hits she does to me they don't say anything...it bothers the crap out of me..i can't stand it...wat can i do to make my sister stop!! (link)
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Well, i'm sorry to say this, but parents are like that. They love to baby the youngest, and its just because they know their not going to have anymore children. I would suggest that next time, instead of going to your parents after the conflict, ignore your sister, and go straight to them. She'll most likely be so mad that your ignoring her, that she'll follow you. After you find your parents, just sit down and tell them, that you feel like their favoriting your sister. Dont let them end the conversation, just keep telling them of all the things she does. Make sure that they understand before you let the conversation drop. Everytime your sister attacks you, just hold her hands away, and call your parents. You cant get in trouble for making sure that she cant hurt you.
I hope i helped a little.
Good luck
From,
The middle child
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What do girls do when they flirt? like how can you tell when they are flirting or just being a friend? any girls out there who can answer this quesition? how do you flirt? i want to know cause i like 2 people and i sometimes think that they are fliriting with me but i'm not sure. thanks!!!!! (link)
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Well, when a girl flirts, she may touch your arm, or give you like...the most random hugs in the world. She'll laugh at anything you say, or she may get mad at you for no reason. If she does get mad at you, it'll be over somthing stupid, and she'll say stuff like, OMG, YOUR SO MEEEEAN! in like...a really high voice. Girls just get like...really attentive, and touchy-ish...yeah..^^
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I have been married for almost 20 yrs and we have 2 teenagers. I was 21 when we married, at 22 I was a mom(this may sound crazy but I know he got me pregnant on purpose). He is very affectionate to me especial in front of people. My husband is an alcoholic and that has always been the source of our arguments and my anger towards him. Of course the next day he would always apologize and say he loves me more than anything. Around 13yrs ago I believe he had been unfaithful but he adamantly denies it. About 3 yrs. ago I was suspicious of his activity on the internet(always clicking off pages when I walked into the room). I got a program to track this activity and found that he was sending intimate pictures of me to porn sites and exchanging them with others. This for me was the ultimate betrayal,disgust and I was totally embarrassed. At the time I didn't confront him with what I knew, but I did tell him our kids were getting porn pop ups. I destroyed the photos and the program.After that, I promised myself that if he ever screwed up again that I would leave him. 1 1/2 yrs ago we sold our home and he moved out of state to start a new business, I followed with children when they finished school yr. The busin. was not going as expected, I think it was more work than he thought it would be. With me pressuring him to get a job, he went searching only to find mediocre jobs. A family member got him a great paying job back home and off he went. I went to visit him with children and dog for the holidays and had a great time, when I left to drive back (15 hr.drive) I would call every few hrs just to let him know we were ok. After 10pm I didn't call until I got home (4am) called his cell and it was turned off, called my mom told her were got back safely. I asked "how could you turn your phone off knowing your wife and children were driving thru the night" and he just said "sorry I always turn my phone off at night"....Well he screwed up again! So now I'm angry, I was now responsible for selling off everything from the busin.,which I ran some great sales and fortunately brought in a lot of money because even though he was making a lot of money he was also spending it(at bars). I started thinking about how unhappy I was in our marriage. I struggled with the idea of divorce because of the children and the rest of our families. I finally confronted him with everything and the fact that I wasn't happy and I didn't think I loved him anymore. With that, he flew down and begged for forgiveness, promised he would change and do anything I wanted him to do. Our families were shocked at what I said to him, everyone thought we had the perfect marriage. Of course they ran to his side feeling sorry for him, not knowing the whole story( cheating, porn site,mental abuse). During all this, my brother died suddenly from cancer...Because I have been so distraught over losing my brother, losing over $100,000. in a failed busin. and the strain of living apart from my husband for months a a time, I agreed to take him back and try to save our marriage. We took a vow almost 20 yrs. ago and morally feel that I should try. Its been over 4 mons. and I'm very depressed, still very angry with him, feeling like I again gave up on myself for everyone else's sake and out of fear of being on my own financially.
I am I disrespecting myself or being dramatic?
Mz.R. (link)
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First i want you to know, that you are not be at all disrepestful to your self, nor dramatic. Personally, if i had found out that my significant other was selling pictures of me on the internet, i would have broken it off right there. But i think you did a good thing in trying to make it work.
What you need to do, is first sit down with your family, and explain your side of things. Hopefully that will make them understand where your coming from.
Because your with him right now, and your not happy, you should consider getting a divorce. Part of the vow you took, was meant for you both to be happy, not just for one person to be able to do whatever they want, and for the other one to have to suffer. Its not fair that your being loaded down with everything.
I think that you've done everything you can to try to make your marrige work. If you still think you love him, then by all means stay, but if you feel like your just with him, because you dont know if you have anywhere else to go, then thats a relationship you want out of.
I really hope that this all works out for you!
love,
~Melissa~
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so i have some all right parents but wen it comes to cleaness im lyk every kid im dirty. lol i hate doing chores and cleanin up. so when i do im not worlds best cleaner so everything doesnt come out perfect & my parents flip out and they scream at me telling me to get out & how they dont need me and are sick of me.... but they dont know that this is hurting me so much & im getting sick of them... i mean if i coulda chosen my parents i would of and it wouldnt be them.... i've been crying alot because of this, i dont wanna talk to them cause its just goin to be another fight so what can i do about this thank you (link)
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You obviously dont want to hear this, but you need to talk to your parents about this. You could be cliniclly depressed, all because their alittle over testy about some not clean-ness....but anyway, aproach them and explain your feelings. Tell them it hurts when they say that, and you are the way you are.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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ok well 3 years ago i went on a cruise and i was hanging out with 2 guys and my cousin, my cousin's name is Lexi, my friend i met on the cruise were Matt and Reily. I started to like Reily, and Matt liked me, and Reily liked Lexi, and lexi liked no one. We were playing truth or dare and Reily was dared to kiss me but didnt, then he held my hand! i was young and it was the first time a guy ever did that, i was melting in my seat when my aunt *Lexi's mother* comes in and we quickly pull away from eachother and she yells at me and Lexi cause we were supposted to be in this one room but we left- with 2 guys! so we werent aloud to see them again, i was crying on my buncbed cause she had ruined my first holding hands moment with a guy i liked, the phone rang and with relief i answered it, It was Matt! Matt said the only reason Reily held my hand earlier was because he was drugged up! so my grandma was listening on my phonecall and the next day told everyone that i was hanging out with druggies!!! Reily was taking benidryl because earlier on the boat he got sick! so they said i couldn't see them, i ran outta the room and Lexi and my other cousin after me, my cousin pinned me against the wall and was choking me! and Lexi was watching and was scared, some how, i got away and then they dragged me all the way back the whole public saw me!! So then i was known as the "hellchild" and my one aunt said that my other cousin, Caitlyn had it before me then i got it, BUT WHAT ABOUT LEXI?! the ages are Caitlyn, Lexi, then me! THEY SKIPPED LEXI! and they didnt give her a label! So now 3 years later i still feel bad for that day and i'm mad still and my aunt just recently asked me to go down *where all my family lives .. the same neighborhood!* i dont want to, cause i know that to get rid of my horrid label is to let them walk all over me, and if i act like "the hellchild" i'll be miserable. What the hell do i do?!?!? i'll rate high!
*Jill* (link)
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Go, then be a bitch, if they wanna label you as a hellchild go with it! I know i would! Do everything in your power to piss them off. If there gonna be mean, give them a reason. Dont just lay there and take it! Bitch, and piss people off, and just be down-right mean. And since you dont even want to really go, then hopefully you wont get invited again. Hope this helped.
P.S. The person i'm with says NEVER SAY YOUR NAME ON THE INTERNET!! JILLIAN MACKANIA DOHRTEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (sp?) heehee GOOD LUCK!
From your annoynmous friend,
Melissa
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umm well my grandma is so annoying! she wont leave me alone! she follows me everywhere and says bad stuff about my sister and others. i hate her so much. shes visiting until tuesday(from N.C.) how do i get away from her!!!
thanx a bunch! (link)
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I'm sorry to say this but your just gonna have to stick in there. Dont worry, if she starts to annoy you to much then just go up to your room, and listen to music or somthing. As for her making fun of people, tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable, and to please keep her opions to herself. Good luck!
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my birth details
name: charu
sex: female
dob: 01-01-1975
status: married since 6 years
place of bith: jhansi, India
time: 13: 42 pm wednesday afternoon
QUESTION: 1_) WILL I EVER BE ABLE TO CONCEIVE ? IF UR ANSWER IS YES LET ME KNOW THE MONTH AND YEAR OF CONCEPTION ALONGWITH THE SEX OF MY CHILDREN
2) BIF U CAN TELL ME PLEASE THEN LET ME KNOW WHETHER IT WILL BE A NATURAL CONCEPTION OR ATEST TUBE CHILD?
TYHANKS
REPLY SOON
REGARDS
CHARU (link)
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I'm sorry but none of us on this website could ever decide that. It is all up to whether you and your husband are able to have children togeather.
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Hey,
Ok well 3 years ago i was at my beach house and my dad told me i had a half sister, Elisabeth. He said that she was coming down to visit and like the rest of the family wanted to meet her, like EVERYONE in my family was there. So she came, and she was sooo beautiful and we saw eachother and ran and hugged ^_^ We were so happy knowing we had a sister cause our whole lives we wanted one! so she saw ALL of the family and was upset, she thought it was going to be just me and my dad *big surprise for her* so then we switched aim adresses and numbers and we still talk, but she never talks to my dad anymore and dosent want a relationship with him now cause he was bugging her to go to college. This year she's enrolling but i dont get to see her- at all.. all cause of my dad *whom i live with* and she dosent even know my mom, so it's hard for us to even BE sisters. Does anyone know what i can do to cope with this Fued?!?! Thanx a bunch, i'll rate REALLY, REALLY high for good advice *tear* ... thanx!
*Jill* (link)
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Okay, I can see that you care deeply for your sister, as well as your dad. But you have to let these things work out on there own. For coping though I would suggest talking to your dad and your sister about it. Or you could talk to your friends. They would probably be awesome during this type of conflict. I just know that everything will work out and your gonna feel better soon. So dont worry, and hang in there! Your friends are here for you Jill! ^_^
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