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My name is Ashley Laskarin and i am sixteen years old. I have been through many different experiences in my life as many have, but i believe i have a gift for advice most of my friends and family come to me when they have an issue. im a good listener and love to help people. My life is the very essence of drama. I dont like it but ive grown up with it and know how to deal with pressure. ill answer anything with the best of my ability. so ansk me anything! :)
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when you use an eyeshadow brush, should you get a different brush for every color or use the same brush for every color?

if so, how do you get the previous color off the brush so you can use it for the next color? (link)
what i do is..if there are like 4 colors in one pack of eyeshadow like purple, light purple and white, i use one side just for the dark eyeshadow and then flip it for the two lighter shadows..but when i would be done with the light puprle for instance i would use that then scrape the remaining off on the side of the eyeshadow pack and move to the lighter color.


I live in an apartment and the family across from me love to party late at night. Almost every night they have a party with their friends. They have small children and the kids are left unattended in the hallway while the adults drink beer and various other forms of alcohol. The children run up and down the hallways, screaming and yelling, while the adults are inside drinking. Once in a while, someone comes and screams at the children to, "Quiet down!" but this only keeps them quiet for a few minutes. Sometimes the children even start to bang against my door--in the middle of the night!

Just for note, my mother works late nights so I am usually home with my little sister. I talked to my mother about this problem but she says she cannot do anything since she hasn't witnesses any of this yet.

All of this noise keeps me awake at night and it's difficult for me since I have school the next morning. I get little or no sleep, but I'm more concerned for my little sister actually. She has a sleep disorder and frequently has insomnia. She has enough trouble trying to get to sleep at night without all of this partying going on across the hall. Sometimes the partying will wake her up after an hour or so of sleep and then she'll be up all night long in a miserable state. The family isn't having a party right now and my little sister is finally sleeping, but they could start later (I'm hoping they won't have one at all) because they usually start later in the evening. In my city 10:00pm is the limit for any kind of noise that might disturb others. It's already 9:34pm now and they usually start around this time.

I'm not blaming the children, by the way. I know the noise is not really their fault, but it's their parents' fault for leaving them unattended. I just am not sure what to do! It was suggested that I call the police for noise disturbance and since the adults leave the YOUNG children unattended so often...should I?

How should I handle this?
Call the cops?
Confront the neighbors?
Tell the apartment manager?
Pretend it doesn't happen and hope it goes away? (link)
well since they leave their kids out in the hallway that isn't very good parenting and that deserves government attention. call the cops and explain the situation. you could tell the manager about the parties....but if they leave their kids out in the hallway then who knows what happens inside you know what i mean.


i have this science teacher,and he well....CREEPS ME OUT!!!! like in a sexual mannor. i know its not that big of a deal, but its really bad for me!! all my friends dont like him either. and once, he asked me to read a paragraph from the book, and i was so creeped out, that my voice was a little shaky, then he let me get a drink of water for my throat, and once i was out of the room, and away from him, i was fine. i seriously dont know what to do. i dont want to be afraid of him anymore becuase i have him for the rest of the year. PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
okay if he is sexually harrasing you then it is a huge deal and is very inapropriaye behavior. the same thing happened with me art teacher and i talked to the guidence councler. you need to tell someone anyone that has atuhority enough to do something about it.


I'm at college level reading. 14 years old, female.

I'm looking for any really good reads that anybody knows of. I like basically anything, just no historical fiction.

Please don't tell me to google or look on the "myspace books section".

Thanks in advance. (link)
well it really depends on your interests but i like to erad mark twain and howthorn...or how ever you spell it i'm not sure what level thely are but you can look into it,


how can you determin what size of a tampon should you get?
It's my first time and I only have enough money to buy one box..what if it's too small or big? (link)
It really dpends on how much you flow....if you flow a little everytime ry the small ones....if you flow a lot use the large or if u really flow A LOT LOT then you use the super plus and i would reconmend to by the varity box so you can step down becasue every day your period leaks less and less.


Ok when I'm mad I say OH MY GOD or JESUS CHRIST or when I'm surprised or something and people always say, don't say that! Is it because they hate God or something else? (link)
no they don't hate god alot of people take that as useing god's name in vain.


I'm really shy and I think I'm developing a crush on this guy.

How do I get his attention?

Should I wear my hair differently?

Because I already smile at him and strangely.. he smiles back. This rare cute smile.

Sometimes he comes up to me and tries to sit next to me.

Today, this lady handed out pens for everyone (math class~ to correct) and he didn't get a good pen. So he decided to take mine.. and he started to walk away. Then someone said something.. and he turned around and I gave him a /look/ .. he stopped and smiled.. and laughed.

I'm going to start to play this game (that he told me about) .. will that help bring up conversation? Like.. can you help me with the game. Explain it to me sort of thing?

Even if he doesn't like me. I'll love to have him as a friend that I could talk to and hang out with.

He's a year older than me though. He's a junior. Are juniors really interested in sophomores? (link)
okay from what i know most guy don't pay that much attention to stuff like how you do your hair or if you did your make-up diffferently. But i don know they LOVE attention and i think that if you talk to him and maybe do use that game thing as an exscuse to tlak to him it will help...i'm really shy to and that's how i got my crush to notice me was by giving him LOTS of attention. He absolutly loved it.after that he started oing stuff that he knew made me laugh just to get my attention. just give himas much attention as possible and TRY to talk to him just don't sit there like an idiot. that doesn't work that well.


i got a tampon in for the first time about an hour ago. it was ok at first and i didnt feel it, but now its beginning to hurt, mainly if im siting down, it burns. is this normal since its my first time using one? ive tried pushing it in/pulling it out a little to see if its not in properly, and that helps for a few seconds but then its just back to the burning. whats goin on? (link)
well for one you may be using the wrong type of tampon...my first tampon was tampax pear and it bothered me really bad...i had the same types of syptoms as you then i switched to kotex and i was fine so try switching brands...that may help


Okay, so I'm a girl...
Anywhos, okay, I get really aroused when I think about the whole rape, sexual harrassment things and what not.

Is this weird? (link)
no it normal it happens to the most of us it is just the fact of feeling dominated during the whole interaction. Espeacially if u have never had sex before


I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.

I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.

What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks. (link)
to me this guy sounds like one of those two faced jerks that tries to keep you kinda under his control withiut you relizeing it...i'd break up with him he may get worse than that. trust me that has happened to me.




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