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Whats up Ya'll, my name is Sara and what else can I say except the obviouse..Im here to help you! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Daniel for about 2 and 1/2 years now...and my GOODNESS have we been throught it ALL, anything you can think of, trust issues, love, hurt, fights, happiness, anniversary planning, trips, breaking up and making up...and not to mention he is my best friend and my partner in crime for LIFE!! So if you want a guys perspective, were the duo. I play the guitar, the flute and I love to sing, I even have a C.D. and I am a passionate painter. So yeah...Im always bored cuz I live in a little cow town for college right now, so Ill get to your questions FAST. No worries...Ive heard it all, and seen it all and my friends and I have been through everything too...so ya'll just FIRE AWAY!!!

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ok me and my boyfriend are both 15 lol and have been wanting to go to the zoo forever. we never got the chance because winter came, so we were planning to go in the spring, which just started. today he asked hey would it be ok to go to the zoo with my mom and david too? davids their family friend, who i dont like because he laughs really loud and picks on me for not wearing a bow. i used to wear one in my hair all the time and it was him that actually made me stop wearing them. but anyways my boyfriend didnt let me answer yet and he went and asked his mom the same question. do you think im being i dont know what word to use...selfish i guess? because i want to go alone instead of with his mom and their friend? would you feel the same way? should i go alone or go with them?

You arent being selfish at ALL!! My boy Daniel has some friends that are the same way (one even kept going on and on to the point where I broke down and cried) Talk to him, he should understand that although you want him to be able to hang out with his friends and all, it would just mean more if it was just the two of you going...tell him how this certain friend makes you feel (Daniel totally respects my feelings about his friend, and still hangs out with him...just on different days and times that he hangs out with me) Just explain that you had kind of been hoping that it would just be the two of you this time, and that it would mean more to you that way (if anything he should be flattered that you want to spend special one on one time with him) but next time tell him that his mom is more than welcome to come along...just so he doesnt think that you are blowing off his family (which I know your not, Ive been through all that too girl) I hope that I helped you! Have an awsome time at the zoo..no matter who ends up coming...

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When boy celebs talk about their chest hair, girls scream and stuff. What's so hot about chest hair and back hair? I think it's kinda gross..

I agree with you...chest hair is nasty..I make my boy shave his chest, or I just do it for him... but yeah...I think that they get excited just because they are famouse...I mean, if Orlado Bloom blew his nose and threw the tissue in your face, it would probably be sexier then some random guy on the street doing the same thing...(if thats even a good example...) But really, half the girls in the world would pick up the dirty snot rag and keep it in a box somewhere...just because he's a celeb! Some people...(well I shoudnt talk...I have Phil Vassars grape juice bottle in a box...and some other county stars gum...no worries though, its not used!!!!) lol, I hope I helped ya!!! and stay away from the chest hair!!!!

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okay i know i you will probably think i am a total idiot but i need to know. okay the last time i was on my period i accidentally had two tamponds in at 1 time. can that hurt by body?

This CAN hurt your body...although the chances are small, having two tampons in at once increases your chance greatly of getting TSS, or toxic shock syndrom, an often deadly problem that you can read all about in the little pamphlet they give you in the tampon box...I went camping once with a bunch of friends...(and lucky me it was that time of the month...) but when I went to change out my tampon, I found 2...(you think we would have noticed that huh? But hey, now I know its happened mistakenly to at least one other girl! And you do too I guess...) but besides the initial shock of "How did that happen?" I was fine, still kicken today! but yeah, as long as you dont do this regularly (which Ive heard alot of girls do today...NOT smart) then you should be fine....I hope that I helped you out!! Let me know if I did!

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Does anyone know any movies or books about the holocaust that have a nazi officer who helps out holocaust victims? I already have the pianist. Also, i don't want a link unless it has my answer right there... i've been looking on other websites already.

You should definentally rent out Schindlers list. Its very educational, and its also interesting and a GREAT movie!! Ive watched it at home as well as in the classroom...I love this movie, but it is really sad. I ope that I helped, and if you rent this one I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

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my cuzin said like this guy said BJ or something to someone and i was like umm what and apparently it means something that i do not know. could someone help me out


Thanks
(it might have been two other letters but i think it was BJ)

B.J. probably means blow job....or when a girl uses her mouth to sexually stimulate a guy....I hope that I helped??? I hope this is what you meant...

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ok, i've been dealing with acne since grade 5..i'm now it grade 10, have tried perscription stuff, didn't work, tryed noxema, tryed clearasil, and have been on proactive for about 2-3 years now. its not working all that great, any one have any other suggestions on what i should do? also, how do you stop whiteheads from forming on your nose??? i haven't been able to and its starting to really bug me. any tips would be great, thanks

alyssa

I know it might sound really weird, but try going on birth control pills. My friend struggled with acne for many many years, all throughout middle school and highschool, she tried everything that ou have so far, including pro active...well, her first year in college she tried birth control (her dermatologist recomended it) and I have never seen her with more beautiful skin. The birth control works with your hormones somehow (not 100% percent sure how cuz I dont use them) and can prevent breakouts. Just a suggestion, but I hope that I helped...let me know if I did and good luck!!!

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