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Sometimes I don't know who I am anymore. For the most part ive become a really sophisticated, goody good with really STRONG morals. I always do homework and go to church. I never -- cheat, steal, drink, cuss, smoke, do drugs, ditch school, party, sneak out, have sex, listen to rap, etc. But sometimes i get sick of being like that. Sometimes i just want to bust out my old dirty, rap collection and live life a little. But then later the goody/serious side of me DESPISES rap because its so degrading and disgusting. The thing is.. it's not about rap music. (That was just an example of how im like two different people within hours or days.) I really dont think i have a split personality or anything to that extreme. I just dont know who I am anymore. One part of me wants to stay moral, and the other part of me wants to break free and live. How do I find out who i truely am when both of these WAY DIFFERENT personalities keep showing? (link)
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You need to let go once in awhile...try to ignore your true thoughts for awhile and go out and act like a nut, we all need to sometimes, it's not healthy if we don't.
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I already saw someone with an ADD question, but I'd thought I'd make my own. Lately I haven't been concentrating on anything in class. I don't have THAT much stuff on my mind, and when some people get bored, they're still able to concentrate--just being bored. I can't even do that. My question is, what are the signs of having ADD, and what is it exactly?? I would tell myself in class, "Okay, I need to concentrate..." seriously like 10 seconds later, I'm off in space again...and I won't realize it until like a minute later, and even then I won't concentrate, I'll just keep thinking about other things. And that same pattern just goes on and on again...
Also, if you for sure have ADD, what are you supposed to do about it? Do they give you medicine or anything? (link)
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It doesn't sound like you have ADD. The classes might just not be stimulating your brain enough to pay attention, or the teacher is monotone, boring, studders, can't focus, or something else that won't keep your attention.
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When i was really little, i was raped by my cousin, someone i thought i could trust. i can no longer trust people anymore, it is very hard for me. What do you think i can do to help me cope with this and how can i explain this to my friends, who always want to know why im such a cold, hard shell of a person? (link)
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Your friends don't think your a cold shell, otherwise they wouldn't be your friends. And you should be older now and able to tell more clearly who you can and can't trust, if you can't try opening your mind a little more, you can't live on fear of something that hasn't happened yet, and probably won't happen again. And getting help might not be so bad, even if it's from your friends.
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this has really been getting on my nerves lately. and i just dont know if this should be going on. this is the thing: i could do anything little thing and i end up thinking about it for the rest of the day. like if i do something and it wont even have to be a "bad thing" then i think back on it and im like i should of done this or i should have done that and then i can never et it out of my system. its the most annoying thing ever. is somethin wrong or does n e one have advice for helping me loose this "concious" bc i think thats it... PLEASE HELP! (link)
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It's not as bad as you think, I am the same kind of person, it only drives me mad when i let it...I don't know about you but I have to be very bored to dwell on all those little things that you think went wrong or could have been done differently...I also...even though it took sooooooo much patience, started meditating just for maybe a minute of my day, during a boring class lecture or something...just breath really deeply and slowly...but not loud enough for you to hear it, and count your breathes, every time you start to think of something else just stop counting, and then start again but try to make your counting in your head louder than your very annoying thoughts that are driving you crazy...oh! and it takes awhile to do this...but dont think about what your doing while your meditating or it will make you think more...just try it...i hope it might help
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