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Hi, I'm 19/F. I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend of almost 2 years now but our relationship has been kind of private due to my parents. They are not allowing me to start dating until I get at least a bachelors degree but I love my boyfriends so much. He wants me to tell my parents about us so do I but I'm scared that they'll get mad and start drama. His mother knows about us and I just want to be able to tell my parents about anything. What should I do? (link)
Alright, I recently broke up with my boyfriend. Now don\'t get me wrong I absolutely love him. I broke up with him because neither of our parents knew and I didn\'t like lying to them. He WOULD NOT tell his mum and I did ask him several times.. I ended up telling my mum about him after we broke up. Please, please, please do not make the same mistake I did, tell your parents. I swear its worth it, love.


I was texting my boyfriend last night and I asked him why he hadn't been talking to me much. He downright told me that he wasn't sexually attracted to me because of my weight. What should I do? Should I break up with him? (link)
Most definitely break up with him! Boyfriends should love you for your true self and who you really are. You should not have to change yourself or anything of that nature. Now I know this sounds like the 'perfect guy' and there is never anyone like this.. But I can promise you, there is someone out there for you. Specifically for you, no one else.


There's a boy in my class named Brian. He always sits with me and my friends and makes jokes and always makes me laugh. He always pokes and tickles me in the side a lot, pretends to take my stuff and just mess with me, and recently I've started to like him. I always can't wait to get to school to see him and talk to him. One day he was telling me how much he liked my best friend (she doesn't like him) (she doesn't sit with us) I felt crushed when he said that but didn't say anything. I also get mad with another "friend" making fun of me and saying if he did like me, he'd just want to sleep with me. I don't want to ask him out because I'm afraid that he'll hate me and not want to be around me anymore. How can I get him to like me? (Btw I'm almost 16) (link)
If you want him to like you, be yourself. I'm not just another one of those "type" of people either. I'm just saying if your not yourself and you start going out you still have to act like that person your pretending to be.. Now thats hard right?


im 18 and a girl. i hate feeling horny almost everyday. if i do this will the feelings go away? i hope so cause i dont need to feel horny as i cant see myself in a relationship for years. at least 5-10 years. so theres no reason for me to be horny. i feel so dissapointed with myself every time i cave into the urge.. like once every 1-2 days. but if going cold turkey for a month will solve it i'll commit to it (link)
Hi.. Don't have advice for this.. Sorry. I just wanted to say that I feel the same thing sometimes.. I don't like giving in to it.. But anyways, I just wanted to let you know because it feels good to know your not alone. The names Savannah by the way (:


I met him online and the first time he saw my picture he said I was pretty and afterwards, would call me pretty when necessary. So we started talking and asking each other sexual questions. Once, I asked him what he would choose and he said "of coursr you! I think you're beautiful!" That wad the only time he called me beautifull and afterwards, he started using the term sexy.
He usually initiates contact.
The question here is: does he mean what he says or is he just saying it for his own benefit?
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Ok, im sorry.. But im honest.. This is my opinion and usually applies to me, may not be happening to you.. Guys on the internet are total jerks. They send you pics of their stuff and flirt with you, make you feel good about yourself, blah, blah. For example: I started to date this one guy, he was cute, nice, sweet and all that.. I was busy one day and didnt text him. I wake up the next morning to find he blocked me. Didnt say bye, love you or anything.. I thought it was a common mistake and waited a while to see if it was a mistake and he would unblock me.. Never did. I soon got over it but still wonder why he would block me... I never knew and never found out.. That's just my story though...



hey there, ((sorry if longg))
my name is jess and i have a little problem. i have always liked my best friend as more then a friend..well i do not like him...i am in love with him (link)
Well.. Since he is your best friend, you would know him more than anyone else.. If he still talks to you today, thats good and means he was true and was not just "caught in the moment". If he doesn't talk to you anymore... Well then you know what that means babe.. But I take it from the way you talk about him you are still talking today (: (i know this wasn't the best advice but that's all I got, haha sorry..)


Hey,
15/f
I have known this boy since I was a little girl. I guess you could say were friends.Now in high school I have got feelings for him. He is kind of popular now and I think he likes one of the perfect girls in my year.

I really like him and want to ask him out but I'm afraid of rejection. (link)
I am in almost the same situation right now. What I would do is I would start talking to him. Not about anything sexual unless he brings it up though. If you talk to him then you will become closer to him. You will know each other better. Show him that he can trust you with anything. And when you say that you'll keep a secret, that means you WILL keep it. You can't tell anyone not even your closest friend. He will start two tell you more and more.. It might be a good idea for you to tell him things also (obviously) You'll know when the time is right and you should tell him your thoughts about him..




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