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I'll start off by saying my names Sam. I live in southern New Hampshire, it's not that bad, haha. Im 15 years old & im going to be a sophomore in the fall. That's a picture of me and my amazing boyfriend Jesse. He's showed me true love like i never thought I could imagine!



I'll answer any type of question. I've never done anything like this before, but I think it would be good for me to give it a shot. If you need opinions about anything, I'll help you out but don't get offended if I may offend you or anything. Understand that I'm just being honest. I'm easy to talk to and I love talking to people so if you talk to me, please don't annoy me. I love helping people out so leave anything in my inbox. :]



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Well, in all honestly I would say that I think I'm a nice girl. :] Im a pretty genuwine person-im not about being fake. I know who I am and no one can tell me different. I hate stupid girls. You know, the ones that are all like omg omg omg.. Yeah shut up. I can also be judgemental, so if I think something bad of you, prove me wrong. I love origional people. I don't like when everyone dresses the same. I hate drama & the people that come with it. I'm all about simplicity. If your the type of person who's all about complicating things, & making more out of the situation, I wont like you. Sometimes I can be really open with people, other times I just keep to myself. There's times when I can be too honest & I don't think before I speak. The truth is I dont care who you are. If I have something to say I'll let you know. I'm not very meterialistic. I wear whatever I feel like it and I love it. I can be immature, a lot & I don't mind that about myself. To me lifes all about being spontanious & crazy, & just doing whatever to have a good time. I like having a lot of different friends. I think cliques are really dumb. I have too much in common with people, yet I'm still different. I have a strong believe in respect. I respect myself as well as everyone else. I don't lie unless i truely think it's best. I keep my promises & secrets, no matter what.



I don't have a "label". People will judge other people, I'll admit that I do. Call me a bitch, whore, ugly-whatever you like, it won't bother me. Don't act like you know me & be all buddy-buddy with me because you want something from me. I have a lot of confidence in myself so don't bother with trying to lower my self-esteem. Im not shy, nor scared to say what's on my mind. With that being said, I love meeting new people and making new friends.



I get inspiration from music. My mood can totally change just from the song I'm listening to. Odd, I know. I like lyrical songs with deep meaning, but I also like songs that come easy to me.



I actually have expieriance with death. My dad died when i was 11, due to lung cancer. I'm still dealing with grief, but it's actually really not a touchy subject for me. Go ahead & ask me anything. Im all ears!

advice

i want to know how to become a better kisser. i am 13/m and everytime i make out wiht someone they tell me i am not good at it. what can i do?

Hm this is easy..
save it for highschool

samx

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Alright. Well, I sit with my one friend at lunch and basically only know a couple of people at his table. My problem is is that there is guy that sits there too, and he's really nice, but the problem is is that he is really quiet. I try to talk to him, and he kind of talks to me but I really have no idea what to do. I've never had a boyfriend or anything like that, unlike ALL of my friends and I have no ideas what to do. Please help.

Try your hardest to get to know him. He just sounds shy is all. Break the ice! Ask him about his family and his house, what hes interested in.. that kindof stuff. For instance some good conversation starters could be;
"heyy, did you see that new movie ___?"
"i really dont know how to do this problem, do you think you could help?"
"so yeah theres this concert coming up.."
"what kindof music do you like to listen to?"
"heyy, what teacher do you have for ___ class?"

have confidence girly! change the fact that youve never had a boyfriend before! be yourself and im sure you'll impress him! good luck![:

samx!

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Stupid question, but...I'm 14, and my bf is 18. I was wondering if he could get in trouble for the age difference or anything. If so, what would happen? Do you think we should stay together?

It really depends on the state you live in. Im from new hampshire and i know that if the girl was 15 and the boy was 17 or vice versa you would need parential consent to go out. You need to be atleast 16 to date someone older than 16- if that makes sense. Im n ot sure how bad the consiquences could be.. it would probably just result in your parents being really pissed.. at worst a restraining order.

samx

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so i thought i loved this one kid. but i know now i dont. and then i started liking this other guy but no i never did. he's sort of a jerk but then i met this guy and he's amazing but








he's gay =[


what should i do. i know i obviously wont have a chance with him but ugh. thanks for any advice

It sounds like you like a lot of kids? Just try to be good friends with him.. or maybe make him reconsider being straight?

samx

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So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months.

I really think you should confront him and let him know that you feel its really important that you get some "me-time." Also recomend that he spends time with his friends as well as his family!

Samx

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