Hello, My name is Kelly, I'm 15. I'm no expert on anything, but I've been told I give pretty good advice. If you have any questions or need help with something give me a shout. I can't promise that I can solve anyone's problems, but I'll do my best to help.
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Location: Wouldn't you like to know?
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Age: 15
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Member Since: April 24, 2005
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I have been wondering if the person you like or you keep thinking who'll end up with you in marriage would usually be the person you'll really get married to. Because in my situation, I've always thought that he'll be the one and don't get it wrong, I have deep feelings for him. But there's this another guy who last time cares for me but now i think not anymore. i just think. But I'm afraid maybe the person i think would be the one for me, wouldn't really be? I know it sounds complicated but it's really giving me a problem. Pls. help me. (link)
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Well life is full of millions of twists and turns , and sometimes when you take a certain path you'll feel as if your at a dead end. But the thing is you are the one who determines who your with for the rest of your life. The decisions and choices you make now directly effect evrything from you love life to your career. The main thing to keep in mind is to date around and try to see whats all out there before you devote yourself to one person. And when you decide to devote yourself to one person make sure that they feel the same about you and that it will make you happy because if your doing it to make them happy and not to make yourself happy as well...you will be miserable.
Just remember, Life is not a mystery to be a solved, but an adventure to be lived. So Live life to the fullest and try to have all the fun you can.
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Im gonna buy my boyfriend some stuff for his birthday, but then i also want to make him something creative. I have no idea what to do! Can someone please help me???!?! (link)
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Maybe you could find out what his favorite band is and *lets say if he really liked Nirvana* You could get a heart shaped box and put your picture on it. and on the outside you could write *I've been locked inside your heart shaped Box for weeks...* those are lyrics from one of Nirvana's songs, and its just sweet and creative. You could do something to that effect. Hope I helped you.
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I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...
What should I do? (link)
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Well if you really like this guy I think you should go for it! Who cares what your friends think, its you who is making this decision not them. You know what you want, and if this guy is nice then like I said go for it! And plus lets say you two did decide to get together, the time that you two spend apart will give you two a chance to miss eachother so when you do see eachother there will be alot of excitement there. And I have to give you a million cool points for going for this guy NOT based on his looks. To many people are shallow these days.
Hope I helped you.
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this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN (link)
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Well us girls are mysterious creatures. We sometimes make our actions speak louder than our words, and we always expect guys to pick up on that. But to me it sounds like this Olivia girl likes you, but she's just alittle shy when it comes to being with you in person. You said you've talked to her about it so she knows how you feel. But maybe you should ask her out on date or something * she'll think its the kind of thing were its ok to show the other person you like them because your on a date and they wouldn't have asked you on the date if they didn't like you* and maybe she'll start acting like herself. But before you do any of this The real thing you need to ask yourself though is do you really like her? If yes, then go for it.
Good luck to you and I hope I helped you out some.
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There's this guy I like... he's amazing. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend. Hes a good friend of mine and he used to have a crush on me, and we still flirt but I keep reminding myself hes not single. I don't know what to do. On top of this he and his girlfriend never kiss, or hug or do anything girlfriend/boyfriendy stuff with eachother..and they have nothing in common.Do I wait it out? Or is there some other thing I can do to stop driving me crazy every day? (link)
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Well theres one thing that remains a fact in this whole situation. He has a girlfriend. Unless you want to stir things up with him and her, I suggest you wait it out. They might not be doing so well, but let things end before you try to fit yourself in the picture, because if not you could end up in a bigger mess then you are now. Its hard to watch the person you like , be with someone else, but if you wait patiently and you and him end up getting together you won't have to feel guilty for breaking him and his girlfriend up. Well I hope that helped you out hun, goodluck to you.
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ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop? (link)
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Well man, It sounds like your in a tough position. If I were you I would 1st talk to your girlfriend and tell her you don't like it when all these guys are hitting on her, and then talk to the guys who are doing so. If they continue to hit on your girlfriend after you've told them to stop, do what you feel is needed. *rather it be fighting them or not*
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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what? (link)
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Well normally when it comes to that sort of case I've never really known of alot of guys who are shy about kissing or showing affection, but if I were you I would just either kiss him, or maybe call him and ask him what he would do if you kissed him. If your shy about bringing it up just try using it as a game. Ask him if he wants to play 21 questions and in it you both get to ask eachother 21 questions a piece about anything and everything, and in the process of asking "what would you do if I kissed you?" to him, you can get to know eachother better and ask other questions about him that your dying to know.
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okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
thanks!~ (link)
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First of all like you said your active, athletic, and so on. There's nothing wrong with you! Its them! Believe me. At the age of 13 and 14 is when all the guys 1st start coming around. As girls, we tend to mature faster in some areas than guys do so it takes them alittle longer to get intrested in the same things as we are, like for instance relationships. But your only 14 chick, believe me you have a LONG time to find a boyfriend. Just go out there and have fun, and you'll find one. Most of the time they are right beneath your nose and you don't even know it. But another tip if you seem like your desperate for a boyfriend some guys find that unattractive, but if your just out there flirting and having fun, your a guy magnet. As for all the other times you've come close to having a boyfriend, maybe it was just a sign that those guys aren't boyfriend material for you. But like I said just have fun, a guy will come around when you least expect them to and sweep you off your feet.
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