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So, my best friend forever is a little opinionated, close minded, and loud. Picture Paris from Gilmore Girls, for example. She's a lot like that but a little more feisty, if you will.
My boyfriend is opinionated about peoples opinions. He made her cry today by bringing up a past relationship problem.
We were hanging out today, the three of us, and she's really trying to be his friend. She even gave him one of her birthday cupcakes! But she's probably given up by now.
He almost didn't kiss me goodbye after I walked him home.
I just feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place here.
he's my first real boyfriend, and we haven't fought so far--its been a month and a half.

Any ideas? :/

i really think you have to confront your boyfriend. tell him he needs to cut your friend a break! Tell him to cut back a little,not be so mean. and well if he gets mad then it just prooves how much you really matter. and what he is willing to do for you. and if he is even worth your time.
if you have anymore questions PLEASE feel free to ask me.
hope i was able to help in some way =]
yvette

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I would really like people to explain to me, what you personally feel like love is. I'm not saying I'm in love, I just want to know what everyone thinks it is and how they describe it. I would like to know maybe stuff he does, or the way you feel, did it last? did you get hurt?

I know this sounds completely pointless, but everyone askes if their in love, I just want to know how other people see love through their eyes.

Thanks sorry if this makes no sense :)

this makes complete sense
some see love as a beautiful thing
some feel love is pointless
some have never felt so believe it doesn't exist
it just depends how love has affected you
like for me im never really sure what love is sometimes either because i've been through the good happy together part of love and i've seen the sad heartbreaking love
but there is many kinds of love
their is the love you feel for your family
their is the love you feel for your friends
then their is the love you feel for a boy
and that love i think is the most confusing
one minute you will think he's the greatest thing in your life and the next minute you wonder what you ever saw in him
so in other words
Love is patient
Love is kind
Love is slowly loosing your mind
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hope i helped u understand love a little better

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I need some good break up music. ANY. Genre opf music is good, thank you!(:

well there are a ton i've heard becuz im forever going through breakup lately so here are a couple
aly and aj:
potential break up song
flattery
division
avril lavinge:
complicated
my happy ending
hate[i really dont like you]-plain white t's
bleeding love-leona lewis
tattoo-jordin sparks
hate that i love you-rhiana ft.chris brown
need more just let me know

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lately, i have been cutting my arm.. because i get really drepressed and, my boyfriend found out. he told me to stop but i cant.. its the only thing that releaves me.

what should i do?
(and im not emo)

i had that same prob the exact thing happend to me my b/f found out after a while i realized how worried and concerned about wut i was doing so i gave him the razorblade i had been using and he told me to watch him throw it in the sewer and it kinda made me feel better after that every day b-4 and after school and he said if he saw my arm with cuts on it again he would tell my parents we broke up 3 months later but we stayed friends and it continued but after a while he only checked every other day it's been almost 2 years and i haven't cut myself since just depend on people you really care about and you know care about you to help you out i know this is long but i hope it helped

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How do you break up with someone who really really loves you, without hurting them? How can you let them know that they're really great, but you just can't be with them?

i really think there's no easy way to leave someone who really loves you but if you dont love him then your hurting him even more by being with him un willingly hope this helps,y-vet

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I've liked this girl for as long as I can remember.We went out once but it just kind of ended.Since then she's gone out with a bunch of guys,and I get sort of jealous every time I see her with someone else.She's the one person that fully understands me and everything and it feels like we should be together,but I have doubts.

Should I ask her or is it too late?I'm afraid that after the years of building our friendship,it could get in the way.I just don't know what to do and I know I won't be satisfied until I at least let her know how I feel.

i think you should let her know how you feel and see how she reacts to what yyou tell her and if it doesn't seem like she's reacted in some sort of nnegative way then you can try to see how she would feel about going out some time hope this helps y-vet

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when you ask out a girl what's a good way to do it, how do i ask her out, and when should i know i'm ready

make sure your by your selves when you ask her make sure your as far away as possible of any interrupptions be totally cool about it and dont come right out with it cuz you might freak her out ask her a couple questions like how was your day? or some thing like that then ask her in a polite calm way and just hope she says yes hope this helps,y-vet

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i feel like im ugly or i am too pushy or my standards r too high...idk i have only started dating when i was in 5th grade the longest relationship i have been in has only lasted 3 months.....now i had a bf that i really loved and really cared about and i still do but he didn't want to be tied down cas basically he wasn't finished fooling around and well our relationship lasted 3weeks and 1day i still having feelings for him and i tryed goin out with other ppl but it just didn't work out i don't know what to do.

so basically i am asking what should i think about if i want to have a long lasting relationship and how should i act towards a guy?

plzz answer asap

it sounds like you've got the issue i had there was this boy that i really liked we went out for two weeks and he dumped so i moved on i never got over him but the guys i went out with treated me pretty well and i usually kept him out of my mind while around others so maybe you just need to surround your self with ppl you no can make you feel better who knows maybe he'll start liking you again after a while cuz my guy did and wel have our third month anniversary next sunday so hope this helped some, y-vet

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there's this guy who has liked me for a long time, and i'm going to tell him i like him too tomorrow. what do you think his reaction will be? i want to prepared for anything.


thanks in advance!

well if he likes you already than he will probably be real excited and he might ask you out unless he's one of those dudes who hates to rush he might take a couple days to make some kind of move if he's shy try not to rush in to anything serious to quick hope this helps good luck y-vet

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soo me and my bf have only been going out for a little more than week. we've made out and yeah i like him but when we made out i just didnt feel any chemistry. does that mean i dont rlly have strong feelings for him? i dont even think i really like him that much. should i break up with him or wait and see what happens? i wanna try to go for a month but idk if i should even bother. please give me the best advice you can. thank youu guys

its all up to you and if you think about it try to balance things out what you like about him and what you dont like about him if you find far more likes than dislikes maybe it's time to move on but if you find things seem to even out than give it the month and see how you feel hope this helps,y-vet

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lets say this guy I like is leaving a classroom. we are in the same class. Well it was time to go on the next hour and there was someone in front of me, he opened the door and waited until i got out.

does this mean he likes me??

I've had a crush on him for a long time and I think he might know... but what should i do?

maybe and maybe not because it could be he is just being polite but if you notice he does it often than maybe he does like you hope this helps,y-vet

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