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*Name- Kayla
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*Age- 16
*Grade - 11th
*Status- single and lovin it :-)
*looks- Blonde Hair Blue Eyes Skinny 5'6ish...
*hobbies- love dancing, chillen w/ my friends, shopping, giving advice, getting dressed up, meetin new people, and i love swimming...
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OK on Friday I'm going to my boyfriends away game. His mom is driving me there with her and I know im going to be so nervous. I dont want to say anything thats going to make me look stupid, but I know im going to end up doing that.. I always do. I was just wondering if you guys had any adivce on what I should do to be less nervous or not say anything dumb that I'll regret. Thanks SO much!!
you want my onest opinion...be yourself, dont try to be something your not! answer the questions she asks you onestly dont lie to her, because if she would happen to find out she isnt gonna like that! but be politet! good luck..rate me
xoxo Kay
ok i really need some help with this. ok well i have this friend "betty". shes not like my BESTEST friend but i can keep my secrets with her and i tell her who i like n stuff. well theres this one guy that i like A LOT and hes only a year older than i am. and i told "betty" a few weeks ago that i liked this guy and she was just like oh cool n stuff. well he told one of my friends that he MIGHT want to go out with me so i was EXTREAMLY happy bc this would be my first b/f in jr. high. so i was telling "betty" the story and i was like omg im so excited and she was like "oh well im like madly inlove with him" and i was like ur kidding right? and she said no so i was like well why didnt u tell me a few weeks ago that u liekd him to when i told u that i liked him then? and she said idk i guess it was kinda a secret or something. so im really mad/sad now. this isnt like the movie mean girls where i would get revenge bc shes like such a nice friend n all. but what if this guy asks me out...what do i do or say bc i really like him???
XoXoXo me
tell your friend how much you like him and let her know that you dont want to hurt her by going out with him and all..tell her if you would of known a couple weeks ago she liked him you would of backed off more but now you are really crushin over him...i dont really know what else to do in this situation i guess you are just going to have to follow your heart!!
okay there is this guy that i think is pretttty hot....ok REALLY hot, he liked me last year, but now theres only one problem, HE LIKES MY BESTFRIEND! HELPPP ME!
aww im very sorry about that hun! i would talk to my friend about it let her know that you still kinda like him (or think he is hot w/e) and see how she feels about him..if she likes him there is two choices you can do
1) get pissed at her say things you dont mean and tell her she is a bad friend for liking someone you like
2) Tell her good luck that you always here for her and you want her to be happy
yes i know it might be upsetting to know that your friend likes the same guy you do :-/ i had the same thing happen to me only i got really pissed at my friend and now were not friends and i miss her terribly..i would talk to her and see how she feels about this boy and just try to be happy for her if she does like him..and Does he know you still think he is hot or w/e? if not maybe you should tell him you never know maybe if he knows you think that he will start to like you again there is always that chance...hope i helped hun! (tell me how everything goes)
hey .. ok .. here is the thing ..i have 2 best friends.. lets call them elle and iris.. we're really close..we're in 9th grade.. in school, we usually like guys our age or 1 or 2 years older.. there's an important guy at our school and he needs a bodyguard to stay with him. my friend, elle, likes this bodyguard. not offending anyone..but, we're upper class girls and as you may imagine, not only
this guy isn't from the same socially "priviledged" class as us, but he's also around 30 years of age. this is hardly the problem, the guy stares not only at my friend, but at iris and me. iris and i have become very fearful of what this may end in. some dude used to call elle to her cel phone (without telling her who he was
and he asked her sexual things and implying stuff he shouldn't imply. she answered and took things very lightly. anyways, i asked her if she would date him if a relationship would occur (cuz she HAS NEVER had a conv. with him..!!)
she told me she would, and not only date him but have sexual intercourse with him. as you can imagine, i'm very worried because i have no idea what this pedophile freak is capable of. he looks at her with these provocating eyes and she looks back at him, responding.
i dunno what he could do to, not only her, but us. i have this feeling. i dunno if he's capable of doing something to her against her will- as in raping her. i talked to my mom and what she told me was that iris and i needed to talk to elle urgently to tell her what she could get herself into before this goes too far.
SHE TOLD ME SHE LOVED HIM. iris is talking to her mother right now to ask for advice. this is a great deal to both of us so i would REALLY appreciate your advice. thank you so much for reading this long .. thank you ..
wow, that guy is way to old for your friend.. i mean you only in 9th grade..so what your 14 or 15 and he is 30..that is just way to big of an age difference..if i was in the same situation as you i would sit down and talk to my friend about what she might be getting herself into i mean he could be some kind of rapeist, you just dont know what people is capable of these days.. and he must be a pretty weird guy anyways because most 30 your old men dont look at 14 or 15 year old girls that way..thats a red light saying something must be messed up in his brain! but if i was you i would sit down and talk to your friend about what could happen!! hope that helped good luck. (let me know what happens)
xoxo Kayla
I like this guy from another school and my friend told him that i think he is hott, and said he didnt say anything back. what should i do? do i ask him out front and risk everything or do i let it slide and hide my feelings. please dont answer this unless this has happened to you and you can tell me what happend between ya'll. thanks -*lost*
well i have had that happen before..and i didnt hide my feelings or anything i kinda flirted around with him.. and he flirted back, well we started talking more and more and became really good friends.. then he asked me out and we dated for almost 7months..
I dont know if i would just ask him out not knowing how he feels but dont hide your feelings because then if he likes you he might think you dont like him anymore so he might move on! but i would start talking with him and stuff and i mean if he ignores you or avoids you he is an asshole because he could atleast tell you if he is interested or not... hope that helped sweetie.. good luck!!
Much Love
ther is this boy who i know he keeps asking me out but i dont really like him. he is my friend and i dont want to hurt him. also everyone else makes fun of him and they call him gay. he is really nice but i dont know if i should go out with him what should i do.
hun, if you only like him as a friend tell him.. but be nice about it tell him you think he is really nice and everything but you just dont see you two as more than just friends... if you tell him nicely that shouldnt hurt his feelings or anything he might act weird around you for a few days but im sure everything will go back to being normal.. i have been in that situation before and now we are like the best of friends..
hope i helped...
Much Love
this girl had liked me for a long time. and i liked her too. we hung out a lot. then one night i asked her out and she said that sh'll think about it and then 3 days later she is goin out with one of myu friends. what should i do?
first of all im sorry about that hun! but maybe you should ask her what happened..i mean if she truely liked you she would of never gone out with one of your friends.. and if your friend that she started going out with knew that you liked her he should of never gone out with her because i dont feel friends should do that! thats just shitty....
MuchLove
Hey, i dont know wat to do my ex-bf broke upwith me and this kid i know that likes me and i like him just got outta jail my ex already got a new girl should i wait 4 them to break up or go 4 the one dat just got outta jail.
Jason-17 just got outta jail
Justin- 15 new girl
HELP ME NOW PLEASE WAT SHALL I DO!!!!!!
well babe!! if the kid that likes you was in jail for a really bad reason i dont know if i would date him! but that is your decision.. if you really still like you ex maybe you should tell him! you never know what might happen if you tell him how you still feel..but go with what you heart tells you to hun! "everything happens for a reaon"
-Hope That Helped If Not Im Sorry-
*Much Love xOxO KaYLa*