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okay the guy i like asked me out today and we were taking he said this"can i flirt with other girls?" and i also asked him"can i?" and he said yeah so i said yes to him is this okay?
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no.. this can cause problems in the future trust me it can lead to cheating and lieing.. you better stop it now before its too late
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There is this boy that likes me and im pretty sure i don't like him but wen i try 2 b nice 2 him and give him hugs and stuff he likes 2 feel on me and i like wen he feels on me but i don't like him cuz i go with his best friend and 2 day he came up and grabbed my boobs and another student told a teacher and now the teacher is questioning me about whether or not it happened. Should i tell?i dont want 2 look like a snitch. Also should i tell my boyfriend that his friend is hitting on me? (link)
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Dont snitch him out. Just tell him to stop and if he doesnt tell your boyfriend.
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how do you know when a guy likes you.... (link)
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1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that he will lean towards you.And if he falls and/or almost poops that is definatly good!
2. Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
3. Talk a lot. Does he seem happy to see you?
4. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, he may be shy.
5. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
6. Keep an eye out. His pupils will dialate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
7. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
8. Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
9. Smile. A big smile in return is a good sign.
10. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
11. Notice the way he treats you, does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
12. Have a friend of yours should be your bestfriend just not any people who is basically "unknown" to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls, soon come to you (as one of his questions) and tell her to pay attention to obstacles and what he says about you.
13. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Also study their reactions to your presence. Do they smile? Do they turn to him? If so, then there's a good chance he really does like you. Also if you call his name... note if his head snaps around right away or does it turn gradually?
14. If the guy wants to talk to you all the time there is a good chance that he will like you!
15. If he starts acting nicer when you're around him then he probably has a thing for you.
16. He'll say yes to all the things you ask him to do.
17. He'll treat you differently than other girls. See how he acts with other girls compared to how he treats you.
18. He looks at you alot everytime you smile or laugh.
19. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you. Watch out, though, because if the topic is something serious like a death or whatnot, he may just want to know for no aparrent reason.
20. Sometimes boys will yell and run away whenever you see them this is probably a sign that he likes you but it often means hes a bit childish too.
21. A boy may act immature around you, like poking you or teasing when he is younger or immature as a way to show he likes you. But there is a difference between flirting and being just plain mean.
22. If the boy seems to always want to hang out, he may like you.
23. Normally, most guys try to keep you in view for as long as possible. He may tend to look around a lot, and stop when he finds you. Or if you happen to be looking at him when he does this, he'll look over you and pretend to be searching for something else.
24. All of the above can help you figure out if he likes you. But, what if you just met him and don't know him enough to get him to start openly flirting with you? Here's how to figure it out, but its not easy to see.
He may subtly look at you but almost always make it look like he is looking at the girl next to him. But, if you look at the black part of his eye and it points at you not at the girl, he's looking at you.
25. If he ever goes out of his way to talk to you, like if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
If he just comes up to ask you a question and he is obviously looking at you, there is one technique that always works but you have about 5 seconds to do it. When he asks you the question look into the black part of his eyes(takes about 3 seconds) then stare into them(the last 2 seconds) then answer him and remember if a guy likes you he will stumble his words
26. If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you.
27. If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles
28. if he tries to make you laugh and/or if he tries to copy you.
29. If you talk to him about something unusual or funny, he might tell some of his friends.
30. If he is talking to a friend or someone else and walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you, hug back! He's saying "yeah im interested"
31. Dances are a great place to test the waters! During a slow dance he might ask you to dance. If he does, this is a good sign! Also, pay attention while you're dancing. Do you look at each other, then smile and look away? Does he seem happy to be dancing with you? This is very good!
32. Also during a slow song. if you ask him to dance and he says yes, this is good.
33. If he just plain looks at you, or offers you something it is a good sign
34. Tell if his smile is real, if he is faking it just to be nice, that is not so good
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okay.
well there this really sweet guy whos kinda shy, whos 18 and totally hot.
but he blazes,
and i dont really know what he expects of girls to do with him when they're together, or even just chillen.
so i asked him if hes just looking to fool around with girls or a gf, and he said neither really im just single,
now what does that mean ?
and, he always txts me saying babe and cutie and stuff :)
so idk what to do.
i dont want to come on too strong,
but i want to know lmao.
all my friends say i can get whoever i want,
but idk ! :P (link)
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Just tell him you like him and tell him that if you guys mess around you want to be the only one.
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okay so there is this kid named mike, and i have been on and off liking him, like im kinda confused cause he likes this other girl. But deep down i know i REALLY like him.
well last night i had the best dream,
idk where we were but like i guess i was cold and he like gave me his sweatshirt to wear and we were like holding hands taking a walk and stuff...
idk but this dream made me like REALLY really happy!!! and i have this like vibe that it meant something but i cant figure out what.
its making me mad cause i want it to be true so badlyyyy!!!!
so like does anyone know what this means or am i just wanting something so bad my mind is playing tricks on me?!?!
i really want it to mean something, i really want that to happen
P.S we are good friends we hang out and talk alot so yeah =]
helpp (link)
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Definitely go for it girl =]
Dont wait till its too late.
Tell him you like him and see what he says.
Dont be shy
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well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me (link)
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It probably just because you are 14 wait a few years and you will being saying different. If you feel that way then you haven't met the right person yet.
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okay i am going out with a guy named alex and i used to call my last boyfriend jeremy, jer. so i was wondering is there any thing like AT ALL that i can get from alex. and i kno i can call him babe and baby. but i want like something for his name (alex!). like i had for jer. (jeremy!) mmkay. thanks in advancee! :D (link)
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Um.. depending his last name.. call him like
AJ
AC
something like that but if its like mine
and
AF nah.. that sounds gay lol
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14/f nikita if u wouldent mind...
welll its sorta a longish story
well i went to this art work shop for school
and it was so fun
but i met this guy named peter
he was so funny
but long story short
we now chat on msn heaps
and we have seen eachother after the art works shop as friends
but think i really like him and i dont know what o do
coz' i dont want to ruin our frindship
but i dont want to see him taken away by another girl
HELP ME PLEASE!!!
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I know how you feel.. what you should do is one day mention that you think hes cute.. or something like that and if he says you are too thats an alert that you should ask him to hangout and see how things go. I have learned that you need to go for it when you have the change because I liked this guy for so long but never had the courage to say and thing and since i did we are together so it works out for the better believe me =]
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how can i get over my ex. i really liked him and im really have a tough time being happy. (link)
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- Get rid of all pictures of him
- Delete him from your contacts
- Delete him off of your aim / myspace etc.
- Dont answer his calls
- Dont txt him back
- Dont even look at him
- Get rid of anything he ever gave you
- Get rid of everything that reminds you of him
- Surround yourself with friends
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There's this guy who i met in my freshie year and we worked on a play together. Well over the summer we saw eachother at a store and he made a few complements that were very sweet. Well now i have a crush on him and he's acting increasingly friendly: He came up to me in the hall and gave me a huge thumbs up just cuz he saw me and whenever we pass by eachother he does a little thumbs up or points at me, even when noone beside me and him are in the hall. Now we are in a new play together and he threw his arm around me and he gave me this whole " eyebrow" thing when we were sitting down. But sometimes he is friendly, though he doesn't do the same things he does for me, with other girls he knows. Is he just being friendly or is it possible he could just like me a tiny bit as something else?
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It sounds like he's just being friendly.. but just look for other things that would make you think he has a thing for you like eye contact and stuff like that
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Okay well there is thins boy that I REALLY like and he Really likes me but the problem is that he thinks he is so cool and Hott and when he goes to give someone a high five or give a girl a hug than they don't even see him and walk right away. Then he gives me an attude and is very rude to me and I really don't like this and I think im in love with him and I know for a fact that he Likes me so what do I do he is not acting like himself and I miss the old him...:[ (link)
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Talk to him about it tell him how you feel and if he still acts this way you need to move on and find someone better =]
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Ok so yesterday my boyfriend told me he loved me when he saw me and kissed me and told me he never wanted to lose me. Then today I got a call from my ex-boyfriend his best friend now and he was like how are you? I was like not so good because i wasn't haveing a good day.. why did you call? He's like bill(the boyfriend) wanted me to call but I forget why! Then he hung up the phone..so I call our bst friend Jena and she three ways him and was like do you want to brake up with jazz and he was like yeah! So i was like don't worry about it and hung up. He knew how much i care and he was going to have the one person i hate the most brake us up so i told him to leave me alone and he is still trying to talk to me it almost seems like he still wants to be with me....what should i do because i just want to move on..this is the second time he's made me cry! I mean i love him and always will because he was my first true love but i am not in love with him anymore. Can you help me make sense of it all because i really don't know? (link)
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You need to decide who you would rather be and break the heart of who you don't want to be with i have had to do the same thing. You need to sit and talk with them and explain your feelings
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okay look i have a homegurl named sona and i been talkin to her boyfriend manuel alot like till 5:00 am frm 9:30 or erlier in the nite time does he really love her like he says he does does he like me to we talked bout how we cant do this to her but i feel a connection with him now what should i do (link)
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Nothing if you want to still have Sona as your friend than leave her man alone. He might just be being friendly, since you are her friend and all. I would recommend stopping it while you still can because the last thing that you want to happen is they break up and she hates you. It's just kind of a drama started I had a similar situation and I'm still having mad problems because of it. I wouldn't recommend it find someone whos single.
=] Hope I Helped.
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okay me and my X went out like a year ago and still very good friends. we hang out and talk about our love life and stuff. now i still like him a whole lot and i heard he still likes me well now hes a big flirt and i wanna see if its ferr sure that he likes me but all my friends say i cant cause if he says no i will look like such a loser. && that would rele suckk 2. but hes not making any moves. just calling every single nite and flirting with me nonstop and school. what should i do?!!
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Be honest with him and tell him. You guys were already in a relationship I don't see any reason to be shy.
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all answers will be appreciated but from a guys point of view. are they more attracted to innocent non experianced girls or kind of wild ones? thanks! =] (link)
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I think most guys like the wild ones justs because the wild ones seem to be the kind of girls that give it up... and be hoes. But thats not all guys some guys like the innocent girls that they feel that can trust with a relationship.
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how do you make a really good first impression on a guy you're just meeting who knows you are kind of wild. what should you do when you first meet him? like give him a hug and then kiss him later on or what do you say when you first meet him? help please! (link)
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Just be yourself that way when he gets to know you he knows the real you. You wouldn't want him to be like way hot and you act fake... than later he asks you out or something and you have to act fake for your hole relationship. As far as the kissing when you first meet him only do that at the end if you feel there is really a connection.
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14/f
SORRY THiS MiGHT BE LONG, BUT THiS iS A MAJOR PROBLEM.
Facts you need to know; I have a boyfriend, let's call him "Billy". (we've been together for 4 months now). And I have a best friend, let's call him "Bobby". Bobby's liked me for almost a year now. I just haven't noticed the things Bobby has done for me, until now.
The Story;
Me & Billy has been going GREAT! But, we have our ups & downs, but what relationships hasn't? My friends don't like Billy, because they say that what he seems to do is make me cry & mad all the time. But then, they don't see him as I do, he isn't all that bad of a person. And Bobby, my friend's seem to like him more, they say he appreciates me more than Billy does. So I'm going to get STRAiGHT to the point. I like Bobby now, but then yet I also like Billy. My friend's says I have to make a decision. Ever since Bobby comment myspace out of notice saying, "You're more adorable, sweeter, and I love you more! I love you hunny bunny." (Billy reads my comments). Billy doesn't know about Bobby, because I know trouble will be on it's way if he finds out. Billy said that I needed to tell "my little boyfriend down there" to ease the fuck off. Yes, those were his exact words. My choices are very complicated, it's hard for me to make the decision myself, so I don't want to make the wrong decision either, but yet, I don't want to regret it. Billy, yes he makes me cry & fustrated, that's true, but we get through it.. which makes our relationship stronger too. Bobby, he hasn't done me wrong at all, and he's always there for me. When he said "Whatever happens between us, you'll always be in my heart." WAS SOO TRUE. Billy's complicated because the way he treats me, I know him VERY well too. But then, he doesn't know me well, because he doesn't even know my favorite color. Or my birthday, he got the month wrong too. Bobby, he knows how to treat a girl, and he knows me well, and yes.. he knows when's my birthday & favorite color. Billy, he's more opened... so if something is bothering him, he'd probably talk to me about it. Bobby, he's kind of closed, so if something was bothering him, he'd probably keep it in, and not talk about it. So it's kind of hard for me to figure him out, because I heard some things about him in the past, but he hasn't told me about it. That's what makes him complicated. I get to see Billy more than I get to see Bobby. Because Bobby works, but he'll be going to the same school as me next year. Billy, will be moving kind of far from me, when he goes to the same school for ONLY two or three months, but I'll be able to see him on the weekends (if i have no homework, of course). I can't really trust Billy when he's with girls, especially if his only bestfriend is MY ENEMY. AKA also his last girlfriend before he and I started going out with me. But I can trust Bobby about hanging out with girls and stuff, because I'm already the only girl he's talking to. But then yet, if i do have to break up with Billy, it would be hard for me, because I still like him, but it wouldn't be fair to Bobbly. And because, I don't want to throw away the things we've been through. But not just that, I'm scared he'll find someone else, someone else that's better then me. Because the thing is, I'm his longest relationship, his second longest relationship would probably be a month and two weeks. I'm the first on everything to him, you know, first kiss, first to celebrate anniversaries, etc. He tells me that I'm the best girlfriend he's ever had, but I want to be his BEST out of all the girls he would be seeing, or meeting. Plus, Billy says that he's going to try to be the best boyfriend he can be. And he's actually improving, not that many problems, and he's actually taking care of me. But it still bothers me he's bestfriends with my enemy, and yes I talked to him about it, I understand. But yet, it still bothers me.
SOOO HELP?! (link)
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You can't choose someone's friend and you shouldn't judge people by who they hang out with everyone is an individual. If you are truely happy with 'billy' than stay with him.
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I'm a 19 year old female and I'm getting married in a week. I love the man I am marrying I do but last week we went on a trip to meet his family for the first time. I have tried so hard to please and impress his family but sometimes it feels like nothing I do is good enough for them. At this point I don't care anymore but since we have been on this trip my fiance has been acting differently towards me. He makes fun of me which sometimes gets annoying and a lil hurtful, and he wants me to do everything for him but whenever I ask him to do something he won't do it but throws a fit when I won't do shit for him. It seems like this is a completely different man than I fell in love with. What do I do? Should I still marry him or should we take a break? please help me... (link)
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If you feel like this I honestly wouldn't marry him. You guys need a some more time to make sure it's right. You don't want to get married and not even a week in you can't stand him. I'd push it off till you feel he can treat you right.
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14/f, 9th grader at a junior high.
Well there's this guy named Nick in my Computer class (we do like simple stuff with Microsoft Excel, Word, ect.) and I'm trying to find out if he's like flirting with me because sometimes I'm a little unsure. I walked into the class room and the first person I notice is him, and he looks at me for a few seconds and turns away on the chair. Our last names are close to each other's and we are seated alphabetically so I'm at the first computer and he's at the one right next to me on my right. We had to do this assignment thing and I was quickly finishing it and he's a really slow typer (lol), and he looked really bored so I whispered to him 'good luck finishing that' and smiled and he's like 'thanks' and he laughed. And then I mentioned something like 'so how's the work coming' and he wasn't very far at all into the assignment and he goes 'you know what, shut up' (jokingly) and I rolled my eyes and turned back to the computer screen.
Today, we were working on the assignment again and I was playing solitaire and he was still working on that assignment. The teacher had an announcement so we both turned to face her. His foot was like at the base of my chair (the black part, they're rolling chairs), and it stayed there the whole time that the teacher was talking. Then I also noticed that when I crossed my legs, my foot was like dangling to the side and my other leg was literally a foot away from his, and he moved his foot a little closer and kept it there, and then put it back.
He's kinda quiet and I don't know who his friends are, but he's shy and that's what I like about him because he's not like a show off or w/e, I'm tall, so it's nice to see that he's taller than me. He's not like 'omg the hottest guy on the planet' but he's not bad looking either.
Does he like me? I'm an OK flirter, you know, smiling, stuff like that. I've been looking up flirting tips online and it says to like gently touch his arm, shoulder, leg, w/e, but I'm kinda shy for that. :P How do I flirt without being so subtle? (link)
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Make sure you keep eye contact when talking that is the main key in it all. & smile laugh at his jokes just dont laugh hysterically or you might seem weird
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He moved when he was in the middle of sixth grade, i was in eighth. I havent seen him in two years but i did this past tuesday. before he left, i made out with him. hes my ex now, before he moved i went out with him and on monday he said that he's only my ex because we dont live near each other. but anyways i want to know about what makes a "perfect kiss" and leave him wanting more? +any personal experiences? (link)
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I think of it more like a tease type thing. You need to leave him with basically a idea boner.. or an actual one to make him want more... which shouldn't be too hard when you kiss him kiss him on his neck guy like it when you suck on there ears for some reason idk why but anyway... give him a little tongue too lol.
it should be all good =]
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