[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xmastaassgrabbax answered Thursday November 1 2007, 6:50 pm: 1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that he will lean towards you.And if he falls and/or almost poops that is definatly good!
2. Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
3. Talk a lot. Does he seem happy to see you?
4. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, he may be shy.
5. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
6. Keep an eye out. His pupils will dialate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
7. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
8. Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
9. Smile. A big smile in return is a good sign.
10. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
11. Notice the way he treats you, does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
12. Have a friend of yours should be your bestfriend just not any people who is basically "unknown" to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls, soon come to you (as one of his questions) and tell her to pay attention to obstacles and what he says about you.
13. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Also study their reactions to your presence. Do they smile? Do they turn to him? If so, then there's a good chance he really does like you. Also if you call his name... note if his head snaps around right away or does it turn gradually?
14. If the guy wants to talk to you all the time there is a good chance that he will like you!
15. If he starts acting nicer when you're around him then he probably has a thing for you.
16. He'll say yes to all the things you ask him to do.
17. He'll treat you differently than other girls. See how he acts with other girls compared to how he treats you.
18. He looks at you alot everytime you smile or laugh.
19. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you. Watch out, though, because if the topic is something serious like a death or whatnot, he may just want to know for no aparrent reason.
20. Sometimes boys will yell and run away whenever you see them this is probably a sign that he likes you but it often means hes a bit childish too.
21. A boy may act immature around you, like poking you or teasing when he is younger or immature as a way to show he likes you. But there is a difference between flirting and being just plain mean.
22. If the boy seems to always want to hang out, he may like you.
23. Normally, most guys try to keep you in view for as long as possible. He may tend to look around a lot, and stop when he finds you. Or if you happen to be looking at him when he does this, he'll look over you and pretend to be searching for something else.
24. All of the above can help you figure out if he likes you. But, what if you just met him and don't know him enough to get him to start openly flirting with you? Here's how to figure it out, but its not easy to see.
He may subtly look at you but almost always make it look like he is looking at the girl next to him. But, if you look at the black part of his eye and it points at you not at the girl, he's looking at you.
25. If he ever goes out of his way to talk to you, like if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
If he just comes up to ask you a question and he is obviously looking at you, there is one technique that always works but you have about 5 seconds to do it. When he asks you the question look into the black part of his eyes(takes about 3 seconds) then stare into them(the last 2 seconds) then answer him and remember if a guy likes you he will stumble his words
26. If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you.
27. If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles
28. if he tries to make you laugh and/or if he tries to copy you.
29. If you talk to him about something unusual or funny, he might tell some of his friends.
30. If he is talking to a friend or someone else and walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you, hug back! He's saying "yeah im interested"
31. Dances are a great place to test the waters! During a slow dance he might ask you to dance. If he does, this is a good sign! Also, pay attention while you're dancing. Do you look at each other, then smile and look away? Does he seem happy to be dancing with you? This is very good!
32. Also during a slow song. if you ask him to dance and he says yes, this is good.
33. If he just plain looks at you, or offers you something it is a good sign
34. Tell if his smile is real, if he is faking it just to be nice, that is not so good [ xmastaassgrabbax's advice column | Ask xmastaassgrabbax A Question ]
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