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Heyy! My names Anna! Im 14!! And Im a Freshman!! Im gonna try to give you the best advice possible!! Im Usually the person my friends go to!! Especially when they're talkin to guys and dont know what to say! And also to tell people off. hehe! My friends would say Im good at giving advice and Im a great listener! I usually get back to questions people ask me very quick! So if you need a answer to something hit me up!! Ill get back to you ASAP! x0x!! advice
Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not
Hey!! I think you should go out with him.. It shouldnt matter to your friends that hes younger.. why do they care anyway?! its not like they're dating him!! If you need anythin else just ask!! Good Luck Gurl! x0x
the guys who like me are normally nice guys but just guys that i don't have feelings for ~ like I don't think of them that way and all...but i never really say yes to anybody so i'm wondering if it's me? will i kno when a person who likes me is somebody i can like back?? i should have a gut instinct towards saying yes instead of no, right??
Ya You Will babe! Cuz if your not feelin the person you shouldnt go out with them cuz their is really no point to if you dont like them that way.. So you are right!! You'll find sum1 you like and who likes ya back!! Dont worry about it babe!! If you need antthin else just ask!! x0x
Woah... I usually GIVE advice here but now I'm asking for it. Because I don't know what to do. See... I started going out with this guy, Chris, on September 1. And I've known him since the first day of school (which was August 23). And I never really thought about it until I saw a picture of his family yesterday, but he's half Mexican (I'm white). And I don't have a problem with it, but my mom has this thing about interracial relationships. And she asked if he was white and I told her he was (that was before I saw a picture of his family -- he looks like a real dark-skinned white guy). Then my mom decided she wants to meet Chris, and she wants me to invite him to our Labor Day picnic/cookout thing. I don't know what to do... I'd love him to come here but I'm afraid my mom's going to say something about his race or she's going to make me break up with him or something. What should I do?
I say invite him.. But before you do.. I think that you should talk to your mom and tell her that hes half mexican and half white.. and tell her that you like him a lot.. and u want him 2 meet her.. (she'll probably b happy that u want her 2 meet him!) Cuz if you talk to her before you'll avoid problems like her saying sumthing in front of him. And if she says to break up with him just be like mom dont judge him just because hes half mexican.. they'res nothing wrong with being mexican.. hes really a nice guy. Be like if god didnt want interratial relationships.. he would of made one RACE! :0) Good Luck with ur relationship and your mom!! x0x!!
What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples.
Hey!! Well You can just say that your moms calling you, you need to go take a shower, someone called for you parents, people are coming so you have to help your mom, tell her that you cant stay on much longer your parents are angry! In the beginning of the convo just be like Hey.. in like 10 minutes i have to get off. if she asks y just be like idk my parents are making me!! If you dont want to lie. Just be like well ill talk to you later! I gotta go!! Those will all work!! Good Luck! x0x
im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....
Yah its perfectly fine!! I mean its ok when the guy is older why wouldnt it be for the gurl 2 be older! People probably will try to bring you guys down but thats because they're totally immature. My friend last skewl yr dated this 7th grader.. and people gave her shit for it.. Now the same people who made fun of her want him.. So yah.. People will get over the fact that hes younger and realize wat a kewl guy he is! Good Luck Gurl!! x0x
I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal?
ya it is cuz people r all different n start dating at different times!! my friend is 14 almost 15 and hasnt had one either!! dont worry you'll get one sooner or later!! x0x
does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me
Age doesnt matter!! But since its illegal.. it wouldnt be the right thing to do!! Just look for guys closer to your age!! Anythin Else Just ask!! x0x!!
is it wrong to be so in love that you would die for him?
no!! its actually veri sweet!! x0x
ill be 15 in dayz an last year i wen ta this new skool an when i tried out 4 basketball an made it this rummor got started that i had "did it" wit the coach ta make the team.. when of course i ddin
now this new year even before skool started..
there is now a rumor that i did it wit this dude i wen out wit las year named Criag when i didn an every1 belives it..
i donno what to do bc im not a hoe like that i mean he was my 1st kiss
an all these ppl belive i did it. how can i make it stop.. how can i jus get thro it
Gurl just keep your head up!! you know you didnt do it and thats all that matters. They're gonna believe wat they want to!! Theres no way u can stop people from bein immature!! Ignore what they say hun!! Good Luck with everythin!! anythin else just ask!!
You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..
HELP ME PLEASE!
*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*
Well If you think you'd be better off without him.. I say just move on!! x0x
How do u stop thinkin about a guy u really like and u know u have to stop ?!! help please!
Well when u start thinkin about him just go do something fun!! like watch tv, go out with ur friends, listen 2 music!! something that u enjoy!!! Maybe even find another guy!! ;0) x0x
see, i LUV this guy..and im pretty shure he luvs me too! & we are soooo close! we have tonz of insiderz n stuff but he just wont "pop the question!" hahah i mean b/f g/f not getting "hitched" hehehe! well anywayz! PLEASE HELP ME!
Hmm!! Why dont you just ask him!! But if you dont want to just drop hints that you want to have a relationship.. Talk to him about it.. Tell him how you miss having a bf!! Or just flirt a lot with him when you guys are out.. he'll get the picture!! Anythin else Just ask!! x0x
i am 13 (almost 14) and a chick. i am like realli tall for my age (5'9") and i look way older than i realli am but i cant help it. and i am also deffinatly not ugly. but alot of guys that are older than me (16 and up) like constantly hit on me, whistle at me, check me out, flirt wit me, etc.,etc. what can i do to appeal to guys my own age?
Heyy! Ha! That happens to me only im short!! (5'4!) Well I think that they're just intiminated cuz your soo tall!! Just be real friendly and smile a lot!! Be interested in stuff that they like!! Tell them that you like them.. or if your shy have a friend do it!! Anythin else Just ask!! x0x
Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed
Wow!! Those people are really immature!! Gurl it doesnt matter what race he is!! Like i said b4.. He can be purple all that matters is that you luv him!! I think that u should just pretend like u dont hear it.. Because it will make things worse if you tell them off because then they'll know it bothers u!! Good Luck with everythin Gurl!! Any other ?'s just ask me!! x0x
my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????
Tell him what happened!! Because in the long run its gonna be a lot better if you do than if you dont!! Good Luck Hun!! x0x
This girl and me have began liking eachother just recently...we used to be pretty good friends and we always hang out and we never get bored of eachother, and there are never any awkward moments when we are talking. We have a great connection and she feels the same way. So we pretty much like eachother, as I said before. The thing is that i'm into getting a girlfriend for the beginning of the school year, and I talked to her about this already and she said she likes me but doesn't know if she wants a boyfriend. What should I do? Should I lay off the subject and just act like friends....or should I start trying to be more intimate with her? Or....? Please help me out with this!
Heyy! I think that you should be friends with her because if she doesnt no if she wants a boyfriend that probably means she doesnt! Maybe when she does you guys can go out or w/e! But before you do anythin talk with her again and ask straight out Do you want a bf or not?! if she says no.. Move on.. Good luck!! Hope everythin works out 4 the best! Any other ?'s just ask!
Well I went out with this guy for a month and then I broke up with him, and well we said we were gonna be friends but that didn't turn because I was being a dumbass and spread rumours about him and did some mean things to him. I told I was sorry many times but he still won't forgive me and I understand why he won't. My question do you think he will ever forgive me? And what are some ways to get him to forgive me in some sort of way?
Well I do think that in time he will forgive you!! But be patient.. I think you should tell everyone that the rumors you spread weren't true.. and you were just mad.. Be Really nice to him too!! Talk to him about what happened.. and why you did what you did! I think that if you talk to him it will have the best outcome.. Tell him how you feel about everything and how you want to be friends with him! Be like everyone makes mistakes and this is mine. Im truely sorry.. Just ask for a second chance!! (I know you've said sorry.. But sayin sorry wont hurt!! but dont do it A LOT cuz he'll get annoyed and be mad at you for a different reason!!) Hope everything works out 4 you hun!! Just ask if you need anything else, Ill be happy to help ya!! x0x
Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!
Well I think he probably does like you.. And also what he saw. I dont think that sum guy would just ask you out cuz of what happened.. I think that you should give him a chance.. See how it goes. And maybe when you guys go out ask him wat he thought the first time he saw you.. See what says.. I think everythin will work out!! Good Luck With everythin!! x0x
i jest found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me with my bff should i not be her friend or dump him or do both.
Both!! Your Boyfriend shouldn't cheat.. And your bff shouldnt get with any guy your dating.. Seems like she wasnt much of a friend. Your better off without them hun!! Any other ?'s Just ask! x0x
my "so called" bff always hitts on my xbfs or the guys i like it reallly pisses me off but i don't knoe wut to tell her i mean ive talked to her about this b4 but she continues to do it! she says that im her bff too but my otha gurl tells me all this sh*t that she talks about me behind my back! so i don't knoe who to trust ne more! please help me asap!!!!!
Well I would say talk 2 her.. but if u've already done that.. I would do the same 2 her.. let her c how it feels!! Im sure she'll figure it out and stop!! Any other ?'s just ask! Hope I helped!!