This girl and me have began liking eachother just recently...we used to be pretty good friends and we always hang out and we never get bored of eachother, and there are never any awkward moments when we are talking. We have a great connection and she feels the same way. So we pretty much like eachother, as I said before. The thing is that i'm into getting a girlfriend for the beginning of the school year, and I talked to her about this already and she said she likes me but doesn't know if she wants a boyfriend. What should I do? Should I lay off the subject and just act like friends....or should I start trying to be more intimate with her? Or....? Please help me out with this!
xShAdYzBaBi3x answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:24 am: Heyy! I think that you should be friends with her because if she doesnt no if she wants a boyfriend that probably means she doesnt! Maybe when she does you guys can go out or w/e! But before you do anythin talk with her again and ask straight out Do you want a bf or not?! if she says no.. Move on.. Good luck!! Hope everythin works out 4 the best! Any other ?'s just ask! [ xShAdYzBaBi3x's advice column | Ask xShAdYzBaBi3x A Question ]
lorelei answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:24 am: I wouldn't push it. If she's not ready for a boyfriend, she's not ready. Or maybe she isn't interested the way you'd hope. (sorry, but that could be the case)
At any rate, continue hanging out the way you always do! If she really does like you, she will come to you when she's ready, especially since she knows how you feel about her.
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