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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
well it seems that it was a summer romance thing, BUT i think he still likes you definately! if hes gonna smile about it, then yes. I would ask him if i were you, because you know what, if you dont tell someone how you feel, it could be the biggest regret becuz they could like u as much as u like them! SO ASK HIM!! TRUST ME!!


uh all those other people saying " whenever ur ready" NO!! have sex when youre MARRIED!!! cuz if u get pregnant i GUARANTEE that boy aint gonna stay around! TRUST ME! Do it when U R MARRIED!


So I was reading that, What happens if your for Pre-marital sex. And you start having sex at age 13. Do you think it will effect your sex life in after years? (link)
well if you have a kid it will.


Okay, so I got this problem on my hands. There is this kid I REALLY like. It seems like he likes my looks, and body. All he does is ask for nude pictures. It is getting aggrivating, I want to say somethign to him about it, But I want to say it without him feeling offended, But i want him to know how I feel. (link)
Just tell him you have repect for yourself, and that you dont feel comfortable doing that, if he just wants nude pictures, then he doesnt seem really right. but just tell him that, and im sure he will stop and just like you for you.


I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok?? (link)
not really, i dont think her parents would like that. but if shes like mature for her age, then maybeee, but umm.. i dont think so.


How do you know that you're in love. I've liked this guy since the beginning of the school year and my friends think he likes me back. He's had several girlfriends but the "dating time" never really lasts long. Lately I've been thinking about him a lot and everytime a hear a song...I automatically think of him. What is love? And how do you know that you're in it? (link)
yeah.. love is a strong word.. but like u know when u are cuz every time u see that one special person, u get all happy and stuff, and its hard to explain but trust me ull know. im in the same situation. hope i helped ya!!


i am 13 (almost 14) and a chick. i am like realli tall for my age (5'9") and i look way older than i realli am but i cant help it. and i am also deffinatly not ugly. but alot of guys that are older than me (16 and up) like constantly hit on me, whistle at me, check me out, flirt wit me, etc.,etc. what can i do to appeal to guys my own age? (link)
Put ur hair in a pony tail or pig tails, and wear less makeup, and dress like a kid. LOL. or just IGNORE the older guys. I personally dont mind, cuz im 15, and i look older then my age cuz im 5'9" and yeah.


I think i am a pretty cute girl,i have a great personality, and all of my friends love me. i just can not seem to get the attention of the guy i like. we are friends but i like him more than friends. i just dont know how to let him know i like him without messing up our friendship. what can i do to let him know in suttle ways that i like him? (link)
its good that u have confidence in urself, but im in the same situation, and i told the guy i like that i like him, and he said that if we are good for eachother, then it will end up that way, so u should tell this guy u like him more then a friend, its the best thing to do. hope i helped!


my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do???? (link)
You should tell him that hes boring, and u wanted to have a little fun so u made out with his best friend, that wasnt really the right thing to do, but um just tell him, hope i helped.


what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that. (link)
1st base : making out

2nd base: anything with hands like grabbing and such.

3rd base: anything with mouth,getting eaten out or giving head.

4th base:Sex


there is this guy I know his name will be Fred okay so I sorta like Fred but today I was talking to him and he kept telling me how he wanted to go all the way with me but I have been telling him that Im not ready for that and the farthest I will go with him is making out but he won't leave it alone help me please (link)
Ok, what u should do is this... i had the same problem with another guy, just tell him u have respect for urself and that ur not ready for that kinda commitment, and if he just blows u off cuz u wont give it to him, then u werent meant to be, but if he just says ok ill respect that then yall are meant to be, and that would be awesome if he did that! thats what the guy did that was askin me that, and he respected that i didnt wanna do it. hope i helped!!


ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???

plz get back to me (link)
i dont believe in long distance relationships, i mean the girl could be like 12 or something, or she could be out having another bf and u wouldnt know about it. i dont think u should get to close to her, i mean c'mon uve never seen her?? no no no thats not cool, lol get someone in ur area that uve actually seen and know!!!!


Ok, I have thick, brown, shoulder-length hair, and normally, I straighten it every day with my CHI straightener. But everytime I straighten it, it gets messed up within the next 30 minutes. So my question is, what should I use to keep my hair straight for the longest period of time possible? Like, should I use a gel type substance? If so, exactly what brand do you suggest, and exactly HOW do I apply it? Thanks so much! (link)
CITRUS SHINE is good stuff. my hair is really straight so i dont know.


ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u


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hmm well sometimes, they only wanna be ur friend, maybe she stopped being ur friend and REALLY feels the same way about you, shes just too shy to admitt it.


Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!! (link)
Oh whoa there lol sounds to me this guy is only asking u out cuz of THAT! ahem, u guys dont even know eachother, i mean guys now a days will only go out with u cuz of ur tits, they are soo perverted these days.. its so hard to find the right one.. i hope u didnt say yes to him!


Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches! (link)
Oh I have the same problem, accept he doesnt like my friend anymore, and she is NOTHING like me, but um well I would just wait for him to come along, becasue if he finally realizes that you 2 are good for eachother, he will ask u out, trust me!! thats what im doing with the guy i like A LOT! it will work. because me and this guy are getting closer and closer by the minute!! good luck!!




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