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well i want u to know that i told my mom about john on thursday after school. i knew she had to pick up my brother so i told i had to tell her something important when she came back and she asked me if it was good or bad...and i said good.

My mom just said that i better be careful with him since it's considered rape. But other than that my mom was ok with it. But my dad on the other hand was kinda like he better not hurt u or anything so basically my dad is being very protective of me right now. So my parents are happy for me and arent forbidding me to not see him. so i figured id let u know what happened since gave me advice.


thanx much!!!

Crystal

thats good im happy things worked out for u!!
if need ne more advice im here for ya!!
~Kerri

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I met this guy that my friend j and her fiance r wanted me to met. so i was ok it couldn't hurt so i ended meeting him september 19th. He's 21 and i'm 17. so we all ended up going bowling. I talked i him a little bit.
that next week we all went to roger's house to watch movies. J and i ended up getting there by 7pm and we did our homework until 8-8:30pm. We finally started watching movies at about 8:30-9pm. We watched star wars. John(the guy i met) started explaining the movie(s) of star wars since i had never seen any of them before. Which was very sweet of him to do? anyway i didn't get home until almost midnight. This time i got to actually talk to john more and flirt with him cuz i was much more comfortable with him. Do u think we're dating, seeing each other, or being friends? What do u think about the age difference(17 and 21)? should i tell my parents about him (i haven't told them anything yet!)? how do u think the relationships going? should i tell my parent's about john even though we're not dating or seeing each other just friends? Because john and i have seen each other twice now and so should i tell my parent about him let me know? if john ever became my boyfriend in the future he was be my first boyfriend ever? should i still let them know about us?

today also jeni was telling me that john really needs some help and i was like me 2; but j's like he doesn't have anybody. and later on i was feeling so stressed out i was like i really need him; but it seems like he needs someone too. so help me out here. she also think that we would make a great couple. I actually trust him a lot more cuz my friend set me up with him.

also john didn't start dating until he was out of high school

ok well idk if u'd consider it dating yet unless u guys have like made out nd stuff yet, cuz just watchin movies nd talkin is more like frends, i dont think the age difference that bad but thats just my opinion some people mite think its like a big difference or something. i dont think u should tell ure parents until ure sure its a relationship nd ure pretty sure everythin is gonna be good cuz if u tell them nd then u guys end up not workin out parents usually get all weird about it. the relationship sounds fine like with the way its goin just dont do ne thin ure not ready for nd have fun lol he sounds cool!
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Okay see I like this guy..alot. We talk on the fone almost everyday and sometimes we talk at school. My friends asked him if he liked me but they wont tell me what he said. So i asked him myself and he sed that he likes me in the middle 50% like 50% just friends. I want an yes or no answer from him tho nd i want him to say yes! what can I do?

just go ask him out! but dont hav ure frends do it u do it ure self nd wear sumthin cute so u kno theres no way he can say no lol
hope i helped
.Keryn.

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Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?

Signed,
A girl in desperate need!

well if hes goin out wit a boy then wouldnt he be gay?? so unless u like sudenly become a guy i dunt think that would work out too well lol
.:Keryn:.

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Ok..here I go...
I was going out with Aaron, and dumped him for his best friend, Josh. Now since his Josh hates me(we went out he dumped me), Aaron wants to go back out with me...and i said yes...but it's a long distance between us. Is it a good idea? Or no? Please help me!

well it matters, if u dont mind havin the long distance thing nd u talk to him a lot nd see him wen u can nd u want to get into sumthin like then its a great idea but if u dont want something like that then fuck it dunt do it
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Theres this girl from plymouth that i like alot but she sez she can beat my ass wen she deffinitely cant and that she wins wen she would never beat me....should i prove her rong?

just dont hurt her... nd yes she does win!!
go try nd prove her rong!! ((but dont hurt her that would hurt!))
.:KeRyN:.

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Okay...so i've liked this boy secretly since like sixth grade. (im goin into 8th) and I flirt w/ him 24/7 and he flirts w/ me too. but like he had a relationship w/ my friend sierra but they are good friends now. And she thinks i should go otu w/ him but im sooo scared he'll say no cuz im taller and like i dono. Hes really hot and he might not like me.But I dono if i should wait and see if he says anything cuz i've heard he lieks me but I just dont know....so what do i do?

i think u should just go for it, ask him out girl! lol! if he was really as cool as u think he is he'll say yeah! go for it!!
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*

if i were u i would move on nd everythin cuz u dont sound like u really want to go back wit him if u really really want to then u should give him another chance but dont give him more than 2 chances that never works out just do wut u feel u wanna do
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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My x still likes me and i like him bac but the thing is my parents are like " Your not that serous in relation ships" I know i am and i dont know how to prove it to them?? Can any1 tell ma how ta cuz i love this guy to death

if i were u id just ignore my parents nd go out wit whoever i want wenever i want but thats just me i wouldnt prove ne thin to them cuz i wouldnt feel that i had to if u love the kid then u do u shouldnt hav to prove it
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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wow i fucking love you alot...like even more than ashlee simpson. keryn will u marry me?
.:the dandy one:.

hell yeah! haha i love u too! i miss u!!!
.:Keryn:.

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We've been going out for 2 years and her birthday's coming up. What should i do?

do something romantic get her sum jewelery that u kno she'd love nd take her out or sumthin like that but do sumthin romantic lol
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Just a few days ago my boyfriend bought me flowers just randomly. Well i got some pictures of us developed and had him pick out his fav. one. Today I'm going to get it inlarged and framed... and he guessed i was going to do that. Does anyone have any good ideas of little things i could get him including the picture. The flowers were sweet but I want to do something for him too besides a picture. Thanks and I will rate!

P.S. I dont want it to be to crazy!!! Just something small and sweet

u could get him a box of chocolates too, or a cd
thats so cute that u guys r givin eachother random presents lol!!
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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im 13 in the 8th grade and ive never had a b/f. the guy that i like keeps on saying that he dosent like me.
is there something wrong with me?

no ure perfectly fine! he just doesnt like u thats his problem dont worry sum day a really nice guy will go out wit u nd ull be all dandy nd everythin! lol!
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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Well, my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up w/ me and I'm kinda wondering wut he means of wut he told me. He said "I think we should see other people," but then he said later how he's not breaking up w/ me bcuz of another girl. Then I asked him why he broke up w/ me abuncha times, and everytime he said he didn't know why. Then he said, "I think I just need sum time alone," so that sounded like maybe there's still hope left. Does any1 know wut he meant when he said all of this? Also, wut should I do? Ando do u think there is any hope 4 us??

im sorry that really sucks..
but i think u should really just forget bout the kid.. i mean if hes gonna break up wit u at all then ure too good for him cuz u dunt deserve that shit but if u really really like love the kid then wait a lil a while nd then try nd get him back maybe there is hope for u two just wait a lil while nd give him sum time
good luck
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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How do u stop thinkin about a guy u really like and u know u have to stop ?!! help please!

start hangin out wit other guys nd do thinks to get this guy outta ure mind.. i hate it wen that happens it sucks so bad just go out nd have fun doin other things to keep ure mind off him
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month and we don't really live close to each other like a 40 min. drive to get to his house.. but I can't drive so.. I haven't seen him as much as I have wanted to but we talk on the phone alot.. (except for one night when i got totally blown off so he could go and play card with his friends.. which was deff not cool..) but now one of my guy friends is all like joking about stuff loving me and flirting with me and idk I feel bad cause he's a good friend but I know I like my boyfriend so much more.. yet the less I see of him and the more I see of my guy friend it gets really hard to handle sometimes and it's crossed my mind to dump my boyfriend but really think I might be starting to have stong feelings tords him... how do I get myself out of the situation with my guy friend without ruining our friendship?

i think u should stay wit ure boyfrend nd not dump him for ure guy frend cuz sumtimes wen u go out wit a guy whos a really good frends wit u then in the end wen u break up ure frendship ends too nd i dont think u want that.. but still do wut ever u want to do
hope i helped
.;Keryn:.

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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

unless ure a guy i think hes just a really really good boyfrend!! lucky!!!!!
.:Keryn:.

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ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u


sighned
boy in denile

sorry but she sounds like a bitch.. that wasnt cool how just becuz u told her how u feel she stops bein frends wit u nd goes out wit this most popular guy.. i say just forget bout her cuz theres really nothin u can do sadly
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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omg i like this girl so much i dunno wat to do, i think about her constantly...shes lives in the cape and i live in the woods...wat do i do

stalk her nd rape her.. but then again u cant rape the willing..

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im in love with this really really kool, sexy, funny girl but she lives an hour away. i love talkin to her and we always watch the usher video together and i always think about her. the only problem is im not as sexy as her lover usher...what should i do

two words... get abs!! lol jk! u dont need to look like usher for her to love u too! for all u kno she prolly does love u too with out u bein usher!! she only likes usher cuz hes built! but ure madd cool but idk if u hott or w/e considerin ive neva seen u or a pic ((cuz ure lazy nd u wont get a camra!)) nd who cares where she lives shes still sexy kool rite? lol!!

.:Keryn:.

ps u forgot dandy nd special!! nd better than ashlee simpson!! lol!!

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