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Ok I really like this guy named Rex and I dont know if he likes me Ive known him since first grade and after 5th grade we lost touch and everything I really really like him and he says hi to me everyday cause now were going to the same highschool! I know him well enough I know alot of things about him But How can I find out if he likes me back I tried writing him a note cause I get nervous talking to guys I like
*HELP* (link)
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Well it seems like you two know eachother pretty good. it sounds like he likes you as a friend if he says hi to you all the time. thats a good idea. write him another letter. or have one of your friends tell him u like him! i bet he likes you, and before you know it you'll be hooked up!!
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okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? i asked him why he asked me out and then broke up but he said "i jus dont think i really know u well enough" or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did .. (link)
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i totally think he has feelings for u!! some guys are just like that, so dont feel bad. i think you two will go back out after time. he just wanted to get to know you better before he got into a relationship. i think he likes you and u like him and you will be going back out after you guys hang out a lil more!! good luck hun... i KnOW he likes you, so just give it time!! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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i know this is really stupid.. but im 13 and a female.. and ive never had a first kiss. I have a boyfriend.. and i think he really wants to start kissin and stuff but idk if im ready. I think about it all the time.. and I think things like.. i can do this.. but when it all goes down... i get too nervous or scared to do anything... we've been going out for 3 weeks.. and hes kind of a playa.. so im nervous cuz i don't wanan kiss him if he is just gunna dump me a few weeks later... pplllllz help! (link)
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well i dont think you should be so nervious!! you're first kiss will come naturally... so don't worry all the time. If you're not yet ready for tongue just give him a peck on the cheek! dont rush yourself! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses? (link)
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Well yeah... As you get older U'll grow out of being all shocked around boys... And i think soon U'll get ur first kiss! Some gurls just get nervious around boys, and thats ok!! just give urself some space! good lcuk hun. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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okie well i was at aparty n this guy got bet 40$ to makeout w. me.. but u see we didnt i was messin w. him cuz i new he was messn w. me soo he started to lean over like he wanted a kiss n i wouldnt soo he would get up n come bac n act the same way soo i finally got tired of it soo i kissed him but u see as we were movin in he moved soo i kissed his chin n well he stands up n gose we did it we madeout but everyone was around n they all no we didnt n hes like ur breath stinks n then he acted liek he was puking.. well i rele like that guy but i was rele mean to him.. was that a thing a jerk would do n should i just forget about him (link)
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!!Forget him!! Obviously he's being an ass and that's SO rude to say that in front of everyone! how lame!! U deserve better hun. U werent the one who was mean to him.. he was mean to u!! Try to find a better man! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
and I got my pic on my coulmn now (link)
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Well... just because he's kinda ignoring you and not paying much attention to you, doesnt mean he's cheating on you. it might just mean he's not that comfortable being around you. he might be nervious. talk to him and figure stuff out!!
[H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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uhmm..ok...this guy (that iz my frend) asked me out a lot but everytime i give him some sort of excuse. This past time it was cuz of skewl. Now i like this guy n i wanna go out with him but i cant say yes 2 cuz then the 1st guy will kno that i lied n that i just dont wanna go out with him! i kant b mean! Help me pleeeez! (link)
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Just tell him you already have a boyfriend!! and if you say yes to the 2nd guy and he says something about u already having a b/f just say u dumped him!! good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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erk.... there's a banquet in honor of one thing or another (i wasn't really paying attention to what the heck my dad was saying) and there will be dancing. my boyfriend says he would love the honor of having the first slow dance with me. one problem is... i'm not sure how to slow dance. i mean i know where to hands go... but the feet positioning and the movement just kind of gets me. >_< please don't make fun of me. please help. (link)
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its sooo easy!.. just go with the flow. im sure he knows what to do. follow his steps. its not that hard! honestly! all u do really is go in circles! lolz. if ur really that nervious about it, get one of your friends over, and practice with her!! that's what i did for my first middle school dance!! hehe. Well i hope u have fun and everything worx out. go with the flow!! Let me know how everything goes!
[H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Ok, so there's this guy that I really like. I only met him about 4 or 5 days ago but he's really nice and he's a good christian. He had this thing in his AIM profile that said "single let me know if any of you ladies want to change that" and I told him that I could "help him out there" and as soon as I said that he was all "I was hoping you'd say that" He also told me, my cousin, and this guy that he thought I was hot and that I seemed like an awesome girl.
The thing is, everytime I try to make plans he never calls me back or anything. It really sucks... cause I like him a lot. Do you think he likes me? should I give up? please help! :(
.:.macy.:. (link)
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i think he really likes you!! if he was happy that you said that, then he sure likes you. if i was you, i'd call him and ask him when he's not busy so you can go to the movies or something. I'm sure he likes you and i dont think you should give up!!! good luck!![H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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I'm 14/f. I've liked this guy Mark for a really long time. I know that he doesn't like me because he told me who he does like. One of my friends has also seen him with this other girl, they were going out to dinner together. I really want to get over him and move on to other guys that are available but every time i see him I start to like him so much all over again. We're friends and I want us to stay friends but how do I stop liking him. I know he's unavailable, but I can't stop myself. How do I get over him? (link)
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if i was you i'd just accept the fact that he has a girlfriend or he may be seeing someone. try to find someone else to like... Just remember!! there are plenty of other fish in the sea!!!! Good luck hun. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Okay I have had this guy as a friend for about a year now and he has been my boyfriend for about 3 months. and for about a week or 2 i have liked this other guy who my friend wrote a note to telling him i liked him and she put my # in there and so he called me to ask me if it was true and i said it was and i am starting to like him more than my boyfriend! i need serious help!*Hal* (link)
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well... if he called you, and asked if it was true... he most likely likes you.... if i was u i would just find out if this guy likes you... and since u like him too i would dump my boyfriend and go out w/ him!
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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts? (link)
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ohh my!! i can relate to this question sooo good. well i have a boyfriend, and he's also black. my dad had a problem with it. so i had my b/f and my dad meet... and my dad thought he was actually a pretty nice kid... don't let ur family get involved with who u date because it's how u feel that really matters... and yes, to a white family... sometimes a black man is treated bad... considering they think he's involved with drugs or just there to use u. but its not true! talk to your parents about how u feel. race shouldnt matter!! good luck!!!!! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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look theres this guy at my school and he goes to my church. well i like him a lot and no lie i think of him 24/7 i really like him he's one of my friends and hes really sweet but he doesnt like me. he likes his ex. i know yall cant help me with love well maybe not this question/ prblem. but i know he's the one and i dont know what to do. (link)
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If i was you... I'd talk to him and get to know him... It sux when you like a guy and they dont like you back... Talking to him will give u the chance to let him know how cool of a person you are!! Good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and i mean we havent been goin out too long wow like 10 days whoo hoo! well ne ways i got really annoyed cause he kept teling me he loves me but i know he doesnt (cause we r only 14 and dont know what love is... he also told all his ex's that he loved them... one of my best friends is his ex) ne ways... i always told him that i loved him so he didnt feel bad when i realli dont love him... he also kept bringing up some other hypethetical girl and it made em feel uncomfortable... well so i dumped him and i still wanna be friends with him but he wont talk to me... i feel realli bad he kinda made me feel reallyy bad... what should i do to not feel so bad? (check out my advice column im x27pixidust27x ) (link)
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Well obviously you guys are young and he was taking everything wayy too fast. the reason you are probably feeling bad is because he is trying to make you feel sorry for him. just dont think about him! find a new boyfriend! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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okay well theres this guy who has asked me out about 10 times and he wont stop asking me, and i keep saying no with excuses, how kan i tell him NO but in a nice way 2 get him2 go away? lol thanks. (link)
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lol. I HATE guys like that! They're sooo annoying. If I was you I'd just tell him that you already have a boyfriend and if he doesnt shut up u'll have him kick his a$$! lol... it's worked for meh before. =P [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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okee i was the one who asked about my b/f.. n kissing him n stuff.. n u said he obviously wasnt experienced.. but im PRETTY sure he is.. i mean.. hes had alotta girlfriends and hes gotten head from this big slut once.. n idk.. what if he expects the same from me? thats kinda gross.. but idk.. i guess i can just tell him i dont wanna.. but yeah.. (link)
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Yeah... but if he was experienced... Then he wouldnt need to ask your friend to ask you... He would just go with the flow... hmm... Maybe he is experienced... but if you dont want to kiss him yet he needs to respect that... If he expects u to give him head too then he's not a very good boyfriend... I'd dump him if he ever wanted that from me and I didnt want to!...
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Me and My boyfriend have been going out for awhile but we haven't seen eachother sence we started going out because I had cheerleading and he had football..we talk on the phone all the time but I wanna do something together with him..should I just ask him one day on the phone to do something or wait till he asks me? (link)
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Ask Him!! If you miss him... Just ask him when he doesn't have football... Make sure it's a time u dont have cheerleading... And just hang out!! or go to the movies or something! Good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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th3re iis a bOii ii liike. .ALOTT. but he has a girlfriiend that he dOesnt really like anyways. he flirts with me sOmetimes by like hitting me and hOldiin me. but he is like that with other gurls tOo. and he dOesnt even knO i like him. what shOuld i dO. Or tell me what you think.
thAnkyOu!!
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Well... Wait for him to get over his gurlfriend... If u dont wait it would cause problems... Then just tell him how you feel about him. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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ive been datin this older guy for 2 1/2 weeks....
wen we first started datin i was so excited..i really liked him!!!!!!
now i found a toatally different deppresed side of him....its startin to piss me of bc he trys and gets people to feel bad for him......
now evrytime we meet its always one of his friends on one of my friends is wit us..(i dont like to be alone wit him)its usually his friend brian who comes wit us
...ive known brian a lot longer than my bf and ive always had a crush on him....now spendin more time wit brian i like him a lot...and i just found out that he likes me...
but my boyfriend is odd, even if i cheated on him he'd neva break up wit me.....
i dont want to break up wit him bc he's so awsome and he's like my BROTHER (another reason i dont want to date him)...
how do i get him to dump me and stay friends...and dont tell me to tell him how i feel.....(it doesnt work!)pleeeeezzzzz help me!!!!!!!! (link)
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I wouldnt act like you like this guy if u really dont. Obviously this guy has problems... and u shouldnt of dated him in the first place. Just tell him that you dont want to be with him anymore. Be honest! If brian likes you and you like him too then everything will work out. U have to tell ur b/f U dont want to be with him. Simple.
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What should you do when a guy who is none of your classes, and you told him you liked him before graduation and he danced with you and acted like he liked you at the end-of-the-year dance, and now all he can say to you is "Hello" awkwardly whenever you see him? so like I said what should i do? I wanna be friends with him but have no idea what to do. HELLPPPP (link)
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If i was you... I'd just tell him. Straight up. If u see him in the hallways or something just give him that look. Most gurlz have a look that lets you know they like you. I do anywayz... He's prolly actin weird because he's shy... or maybe he thinks you dont like him anymore. TELL HIM HOW U FEEL!
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