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Q: There's this guy at my school that I really like, and think I am in love with (I have thought this for YEARS). But I'm afraid to start anything with him because he has kind of been the center of many jokes between me and my friends, and he's not exactly the hottest guy on earth lol. He is kind of short, in fact, I think I'm taller than him. But he's kind of cute in a way and I really like his personality. I know I could probably get a hotter guy, but for some reason I feel like he is the only one I could be happy with. But I am afraid of what my friends will think if I tell them I like him. So what should I do?

If your friends are really your friends they will expect the person you go out with. If you really like him! GO FOR IT ! and give the guy a chance.
hope i helped good luck with the decision!

Q: My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!

I think you should just be rea;;;y good friends with the both of them! I mean the relationship isnt gonna last forever. So you never now you can mabe be asked out next!
HOPE I HELPED!!

Q: im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me!

YEAH DEFINALTY GOOD IDEA! i think he will be like wow! heey! wear sum thin sexii! lol well umm.. like act like urself!

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Q: Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school!

HEY WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD definatly SPEND MORE TIME WITH THE KID!oNCE YOU SPEND MORE TIME HE WILL GET TO KNOW YOU MORE AND TRUST ME HE WILLL GET MORE COMFTORBLE!CALL HIM ALOT AND GET HIM TO CALL YOU TOO. THAT WILL PROBABLY MAKE IT LAST OVER XMAS VACTION!
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Q: Okay... theres this guy... That i like talkin to.. and.. yea...
Well... he lives in Texas and i live in Pennsylvania. and he's always like OH I LIKE YOU SO MUCH! I LIKE YOU I LIKE YOU BUT I JUST DONT LOVE YOU.
but when i talk to him on the phone.. like.. the littlest things piss him off.. and it like.. makes me wonder if its like... ya know me.. or.. if he's rilly a girl and just pmsin.
but.. sometymes i piss him off to the point where he's like.. OH I FUCKING HATE YOU. WHY DO I EVEN TALK TO YOU
and.. ME BEIN THE WONDERFULLY FUCKED UP PERSON I AM git all pissed about that and say things i dont mean too..
but like.. i like him and alll
And i've told him i did
but like
it makes me wonder.. cause hes always like.. rilly easy to piss off.. like.. is it me? or... is it him... do i annoy him that fucking bad??

hey well this is a hard one to anserw. but what i think is that he just wants to make you be like" ohh i am SSSSoooOOOO sry" i dont know why! mabe he had some family issuses in the past and it makes him all mad. i really hope i helped!

Q: What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?

hey well mabe he got hurt in another relationship and dosent want to get hurt again! talk to him. Mabe he just wants to get to kow you more> you never know! hope i helped!

Q: hey I am so confused. I dumped my boyfriend two previous times and now he thinks we are going back out,and we never were. he says he loves me so i just say it back but i don't mean it,i have no idea what to do. please help me
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*crystal*

hey crystal well i think what you should do is to tell him if you guys could just be good friends. Just because you are girl friend and boy friend dosent mean you can't do what you did when you were going out. I dont think hat you should lie to him and tell hin you love even though you dont. i think that if he would ever find out he will be torn apart. I reallly hope I helped!

Q: My friend and I have always had trouble talking to guys and we don't why. We just start getting all shy and our mind's go blank and just don't act like ourselves. We both like a boy and desperatly want to talk to them. If any of y'all have advice we would GREATLY appreciate it!!!

hey well you got to say to yourself that you only live once! So u have to say that you need to open up and hit everything that comes to you. I rember i used to be shy. but that was just a stage. now I grew out of it! mabe the both of you will to. But my advice is to go for it. Go up to him and be like " hey whats up" i really hope I helped!

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heey!!! every1 my name is Jessica> aka jess> just not jesse! lol LONG STORY well yeah its true i am a blonde , but i can still give GOOD advise> adleast i hope so lol! well any time my friends have a problem i usually try 2 help> most of the time i successed! :) well i really wanna hear those questions of ur soo.. ask away!