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Q: 17/f
I was dating my boyfriend for about a year and half when he cheated on me. He didn't just kiss another girl or hang out with her but he had sex with her at a party after we had had a fight. He didn't even tell me and i had to find out from the girl herself. She didn't even know i was hius girlfriend and she asked me to give him his ring back.( the ring was a promise ring we gave to eachother awhile ago) up until this happened i thought i could spend the rest of my life with him. I haven't talked to him since but he is always with my brothers. I just don't know if he went so far that i should throw away everything we had. Where is the line of going to far to be forgiven? Do i just give up and say let's be friends?
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Honestly, any guy that you should be spending the rest of your life with would never ever have sex with another girl just because you two were in a fight. I'm not saying that he's not sorry or that he doesn't regret what he did, but at the same time can you really trust this guy now that you know what he did when you got in a fight? I know that if a guy did that to me all trust would be broken and it depends on how easily you trust people, but for me gaining that trust back would be nearly impossible. Especially because he made you give him the promise ring back. That should tell you something, but you're still very young to know who you want to spend the rest of your life with. You've got years to figure that out and when the right guy does come along he won't cheat on you instead he'll do everything he can to get back on your good side when you two are fighting. I think that you really should consider breaking things off with this guy and just being friends because he did cross the line. I'd say if he made out then that could be forgiven, maybe even oral, but sex? no way. Someone who would do that to you is not worth it. There are a million other guys out there and not to mention the one that you are meant to be with. Give it time, who you think you're meant to be with isn't always right. Trust me, you'll meet someone even better. =)
HopeIHelped;
WiNTEROMANCEx
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Q: Okay well my boyfriend is going to be out of town for 3 days. I have been checkin out this really hot guy and I have the feeling he's into me so how should I approach hanging out with him? Should I be like Hey ___, _____ is out of town we should hang out! Or what that would be kind of weird. How should I approach this!!
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you should NOT have rated catiemiller a 1. she answered your question just because you didn't like the answer doesnt mean you can give her a 1. 1's are for abusive questions ONLY. she deserves atleast a 3.
RATE ME DOWN FOR THIS AND I WILL REPORT YOU!
you can consider yourself reported and dont think I'm kidding. people like you get banned all the time. if you know the answer to your question then DONT ask it. simple as that.
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Q: what height, weight and cup size is most attractive for someone who wants to be dating 16 or 17 year olds?
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i completely agree with the person below.
its not about what they want in you, its about what you want in yourself. If you're confident and happy with the way you look then they will be too.
Also, it does vary from guy to guy. Some guys believe it or not like shorter girls and some like girls with big asses while some prefer big boobs, but really until you get to know the guy there is no way of knowing.
Lastly, I want to say that any guy who is only dating you because of your looks or isnt dating you because of your looks is not someone that you should be interested in anyway because a real man and one that you would want will look inside of you at your personality, not your looks.
I know that may not be what you were lookingk for, but i hope that helped at any rate :)
WiNTERoMANCEx
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Q: Alright, I need some cute pet names! The ones I usually use are like "cutie, sweety, honey" you know, the norm.
if you guy could, it would help A LOT, just anything, and if its something a little...odd, explain please? lol. one day I called him stud muffin.. it was really funny, but he didnt like it :D
thanks a lot guys!
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ok just a question: no need to rate it or anything cuz i dont have an answer to your question, but umm didnt you mean like names for your BOYFRIEND not your actual pet???!!?
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Q: I know my boyfriend is sick right now. but im really upset. i havnt talked to him in a while. i mean, if i was sick i'd still come online and talk to him. but he doesnt. its like he doesnt care. he tells me all the time he does. but then hes always out with his friends. also one day he came to my house, but said he had to go eat dinner at 6 and he'd be on the computer, but he went to his friends after, and wasnt home until 9. another thing like this happend also. he said he wasnt allowed over because his parents wanted him home. but he was allowed at his friends house all day. and not to mention i live 10 minutes away. i got all these mixed feelings. it hurts. i love him alot though..
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Everyone is different and it really depends how sick he is because if hes throwing up every hour. I doubt hes going to come online, whereas if he just has a fever he might, but I know a lot of people who dont go online when they're sick because the screen makes them dizzy.
As far as the firneds thing goes. He may actually not be lying. I know you think he is, but it is possible that he isn't. I mean I know a lot of parents who would let their children go to friends houses, but not their girl/boy friends house, however it is possible that this is a lie, adn that he is just trying to avoid you and it seems like that is the way you feel. You need to confront him and tell him how you feel. The more you stay with someone or hide your feelings about something they do the more it hurts. He doesnt deserve you if hes going to be making up lies to get away from you. TALK TO HIM. Three words that could make a world of difference.
Hope I helped =)
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Q: Someone threatened me that he'd beat up my boyfriend if I don't make out with him. My boyfriend is tough and could've put up a good fight, but I didn't want any trouble... so I just did it. It is NOT OUT OF ANY SEXUAL DESIRE!!
So I did... but my boyfriend caught me. At the time I didn't know, but then I saw him kissing his ex girlfriend. I asked him what he was doing and he asked me what I wass doing when I was snogging that other guy. i told him what happened, and he pushed his ex away and started apologizing to me. He's like, "I'm sorry, Hannah, I didn't know..."
I started crying and running away. He tried to call me and everything, but I''m really sensitive and I just didn't know what to do. I really don't feel like forgiving him, but should I? The guy that forced me to kiss him asked me out, should I go with him? Should I go with neither?? This is getting really crazy... I can't handle it!
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You should stay with the boyfriend. When guys get jealous they feel that they have to get back at you, and like you said you didn thave sexual desire and neither did he. Guys want to act tough like they dont care that you cheated, so you should forgive him and go out with him. he seems like a nice guy. just tell him to make sure he talks ot you in the future instead of overreacting, but its not just him all guys do that. its in their nature.
Hope It helped =)
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Q: My friend, she grew up havin a hard life... and so did her boyfriend, but his was really bad with an abusive father who was really bad. and know her boyfriend is like pshyco. I love my friend to death, and her and this boy have been going out for 8 months or more now and shes so in love with him. The other night she came over and she told us a story. He beat her up, threatened to kill her, and told her to get in a cage and she said no so he started beating her up. shes only 14, same with him. Im scared to death for her, but i know she loves him. He's been sent away to soo many places to try and fix him, but none work. Does anybody know any advice to try and help him.. Iknow when hes not in one of his pshyco stages his a really big sweat heart.. but what if someday something more happens, and he really hurts her/ or worse.
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Tell your friend. Not to leave him fi she loves him, but thgat she can't be alone with him, adn that if she really loves him then she needs to take him to psychiatrist or a mental hospital before he does something that will ruin his life. She needs to realise that telling on him is the best way to help him. Even if its just to her parents and maybe if she talks to him when hes not being insane (with a parent present) that things'll get better. He needs her right now/ He needs to know that he has friends and family, and he needs help.
Hope it helped =)
and I seriously hope this guy can get some help and turn his life around.
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Q: Ok so me and my ex boyfriend broke up in august 2006 and we were in love. Well for the past 2 and a half months we have been flirting a bunch and such and it was all great, but recently he actually made a move. It was Monday (December 11) that he asked me to go hang out with him after school, just us 2 alone. So yeah we hung out and it was really fun! We had a great time walking around and talking. . .he couldnt keep his hands off me. He was always tickling me and hugging me from behind and it was sweet. Then at one point he wanted a hug so I gave him a one and then he just never let go of me so then we just sat there and cuddled. It was sweet and it brought back many feelings. By the end of the night we both had huge smiles on our faces. It really felt like we were gonna get back together. . .he even wanted me to go to the movies with him on wednsday. But I had to work on that day so yeah I told him I couldnt go with him because of work.
But on tuesday, he acted like a complete jerk all day long. . .it made me cry. Course I didnt cry in front of him. Then after school he apologized and he was sweet on me again and we flirted a bunch. Then on wednsday and thursday he just flirted a little bit....no big moves or anything.
My problem is...why would he go from major flirting and making huge moves on me one night and then the next few days just not be as sweet as he was and just flirt a little bit with me. Why would he do that?!?!? He doesnt play games with me, because I know him that well. . .hes not that type of guy. Im just confused. . .what is going on with him? :S My friend says that guys get really vulnerable after they show their feelings and they go through this stage where they dont show their feelings that much. . .but enough to keep you wondering what the hell is going on. But I donno. . .I need more opinions.
So...help???
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I think that this guy is maybe a little bit embarresed about all of his emotions that he showed. Guys don't like to show emotion. They don't like to be vulnerable (like your friend said). They want to try and act as tough as they can, and I'm guessing that he was so awed, by how much he showed that he was second guessing himself, and I mean that he was wondering if you felt the same way and what not, so he's probably just taking it down a notch in case you don't feel the same way. I hate to say it, but sometimes us girls have to make moves. I'm not saying anything big. Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. Like you said you know eachother well, so you're probably comfortable talking to him. Just give it a try and see how things go.
Hope that helped =)
GOOD LUCK
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Q: 13/f
When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?
Can I have an example of what to say?
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I'm no expert here, so please don't yell at me if you don't think that this is good, but you could just say, "Listen, you're a great guy and eeverything, but it wouldn't be right for me to go out with someone that I didn't truely like. It wouldn't be fair to you, adn you wouldn't appreciate it later. As a friend you are great, but i just dont like you in that way. I'm sorry, but I dont decide who I like, unfortunately." or something along those lines, but do it nicely adn remind him that there is someone out there for him. and make sure its in person.
Hope that helped =)
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Q: so my ex boyfriend dumped me for this girl, straight out told me he was only with me because he couldnt get her.
he's being really confusing .. and not helping me to get over him. like he saw my away message sayin i was at the wrestling meet ( he came on right after i put my away up ) and i get to the wrestling meet and he shows up right after me, and sits a row in front of me. like right there. && well today i was suppose to hang out with a kid named tom. and my away message again and this time it said bonfire with tom. and tom and my ex are friends. so i get to toms and he's like i talked to mark. he said he saw you away message and he was going to stop up but he was out of service range when i called him.
why is he going out of his way to be where i am, its not making it easy for me .. he dumped me for a whore, he really hurt me this time (we've had a few problems in the past, we were together 9 monhts) i cant be friends with the guy i love, cause i cant get over him. but hes everywhere. i want to say something ... but what, and is that a good or bad idea? ... :-/
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I can't say for sure whether this guy is really over you or not, but if hes following you everywhere and it feels like hes stalking you (which it what it sounded like to me) then it is possible that he made that whole thing up for some odd reason> Guys are confusing, adn while I'm no expert I think that you need to talk to him especially if its really bothering you. If you guys have been togetehr for 9 whole months then you probably know eachother well and would feel comfortable talking ot eachother (but if not because of the breakup. thats understandable too). Basically, what I am trying to say here, is talk to him or one of his friends nad just tell them how you feel, so that you can start to feel better.
I really hoped that helped =)
Good Luck
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Member Since: December 16, 2006 Answers: 92 Last Update: August 18, 2008 Visitors: 7467
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