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My boyfriend is out of townnn..
Okay well my boyfriend is going to be out of town for 3 days. I have been checkin out this really hot guy and I have the feeling he's into me so how should I approach hanging out with him? Should I be like Hey ___, _____ is out of town we should hang out! Or what that would be kind of weird. How should I approach this!!
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how should you approach him?
you shouldn't.
you're going to cheat on your boyfriend because he's gone for three days? i feel sorry for the guy. if you go through with it, i really hope he doesn't find out.
also, if you're thinking about other guys, why stay with him? you obviously don't like him as much as these other guys.
just don't do it. you'll hurt him and you'll feel like an ass after you do. plus you'll look like a slut and someone who's only in any relationship so that you can do stuff.
-collin
p.s. - i KNOW you're going to give me a low rating. i don't care. that's what ABUSE REPORTS are for. and i quote:
It doesn't matter what i'm going to do with him thats not the answer i'm looking for!
well, if you already know the answer to your question, why ask it?
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well, to be quite honest with you, if you're thinking about hanging out with other guys that you're interested in besides your boyfriend, maybe your boyfriend isn't the right guy?
if you truly liked someone and the relationship was serious, you wouldn't be thinking about anybody else.
if you WERE to hang out with this 'hot' guy, you should probably wait 'til your boyfriend gets home and break up because obviously you don't really like him.
putting someone through the whole 'my gf/bf cheated on me while i wasn't around' thing isn't nice.
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you should NOT have rated catiemiller a 1. she answered your question just because you didn't like the answer doesnt mean you can give her a 1. 1's are for abusive questions ONLY. she deserves atleast a 3.
RATE ME DOWN FOR THIS AND I WILL REPORT YOU!
you can consider yourself reported and dont think I'm kidding. people like you get banned all the time. if you know the answer to your question then DONT ask it. simple as that.
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Well, it kind of does matter what your gonna do with him, because thats eventually gonna be worked into the way you're asking.
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If you are going to hang out with this kid while your boyfriend is out of town, make sure your boyfriend knows. Make sure he knows you have feelings for this kid, and make sure he is ok with it. If he's not ok with it, don't hang out with this kid. If your willing to go against your boyfriend, then maybe you shouldn't be with him.
But anyways, onto the how to ask him. I wouldn't ask him the way you said because that sounds like your implying that you want to do things with him when you hang out because your boyfriend is out of town(wether or not you want to or not is none of my business, but just remember, cheating is bad and it can really really hurt your boyfriend in the long run). You could be like Hey ___, my boyfriend is out of town for a little while, and i don't really have anything to do. Do you want to hang out or something?.. something like that.
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So, What are you looking to do with this guy. If you want to be with someone else whats the point that your even with your boyfriend. First break up with your boyfriend or else you'll look like a liar,cheater and a skank. So think about what your doing. Don't be so quick to make decisions.
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It doesn't matter if thats the answer you were looking for. What did you wan't me to say... Oviouslly if you know the answer you WANT you already know the answer.
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